{"id":2249,"date":"2020-05-06T09:33:56","date_gmt":"2020-05-06T09:33:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=2249"},"modified":"2021-08-31T08:06:17","modified_gmt":"2021-08-31T08:06:17","slug":"se-o-teu-homem-faz-estas-5-coisas-ele-e-um-psicopata-emocional","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-o-teu-homem-faz-estas-5-coisas-ele-e-um-psicopata-emocional\/","title":{"rendered":"Se o teu homem faz estas 5 coisas, ele \u00e9 um PSICOPATA emocional"},"content":{"rendered":"

My husband was an emotional sneaky bastard\u2014um psicopata completo<\/strong>. <\/a>Ele era f\u00edsica, sexual e, sobretudo, emocionalmente abusivo.<\/p>\n

Let me tell you just one thing\u2014as palavras doem!<\/strong> Ele sabia-o e essa era a sua arma mais forte!<\/p>\n

When we split, after 12 years of marriage, it hit me\u2014a sudden realization, a summing up if you will, of those horrible 12 years of hell.<\/p>\n

Ele introduziu lentamente o seu eu psic\u00f3tico na minha vida, ele abusou de mim emocionalmente<\/a> and I didn\u2019t even notice it.<\/p>\n

I knew that something was not right, but I didn\u2019t know what\u2014not until we split (and dear God, thank you for that).<\/p>\n

These psychotic people have a special skill\u2014you won\u2019t be aware you\u2019re being abused emotionally.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Leia as pistas e aprenda com a minha experi\u00eancia e talvez se salve (como eu acabei por fazer).<\/p>\n

1. Faz-nos crer que somos respons\u00e1veis por tudo<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Emotional psychopaths aren\u2019t always mean. They can charm you with their words until the cows come home.<\/p>\n

T\u00eam o poder de convencer e nunca se aborrecem.<\/p>\n

One minute you\u2019re fighting and the other he\u2019s telling you: \u201cIt is ok babe. It\u2019s not your fault you\u2019re emotional. You can\u2019t help yourself\u201d.<\/p>\n

Na verdade, acabamos por acreditar que somos n\u00f3s os culpados pela discuss\u00e3o e que ele \u00e9 quem est\u00e1 l\u00e1 para nos fazer sentir melhor.<\/p>\n

2. He\u2019s gaslighting you<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Gaslighting is a form of psychological abuse in which the abuser uses false information and presents it to the victim, making the victim doubt his or her own sanity\u2014an emotional abuser\u2019s favorite tactic.<\/p>\n

Um dia, vi acidentalmente algumas mensagens de correio eletr\u00f3nico que o meu marido tinha deixado abertas por descuido e apercebi-me de que ele me estava a trair.<\/p>\n

Quando o confrontei com isso, come\u00e7ou a gritar comigo!<\/p>\n

He was saying he can\u2019t believe I can think of something like that, that I\u2019m insane, that I don\u2019t trust him\u2026this went on for a few days.<\/p>\n

Em breve, comecei a duvidar de mim pr\u00f3prio. Comecei a pensar que talvez ele tivesse raz\u00e3o. Se calhar sou eu que estou louco.<\/p>\n

Talvez eu tenha interpretado mal a coisa toda.<\/p>\n

When your psychotic partner doesn\u2019t have an excuse, he\u2019ll create one and he will make you feel like you\u2019re the \u2018crazy one\u2019.<\/p>\n

3. Ele culpa-o por tudo<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

This may look similar to the first one, but it\u2019s not. Every time he has a problem, he\u2019ll find a way to blame you for that.<\/p>\n

If he has problems at work, he will make you think you\u2019re the one to blame because you are stressing him out at home.<\/p>\n

If he gets a speeding ticket, it\u2019s your fault because you got him so angry he blew off steam by driving too fast.<\/p>\n

O resultado final \u00e9 que, seja qual for o ponto de vista, a culpa \u00e9 sempre sua porque os psicopatas emocionais t\u00eam sempre raz\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

4. Ele destr\u00f3i-te<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Emotional psychopaths are wusses who don\u2019t have anything better to do in their lives than to control you.<\/p>\n

They feed you with toxic thoughts to prevent you from thinking you\u2019re a smart, beautiful and strong person.<\/p>\n

O seu objetivo \u00e9 fazer-vos crer que s\u00e3o est\u00fapidos e in\u00fateis, e v\u00e3o conseguir faz\u00ea-lo.<\/p>\n

Quando se come\u00e7a a acreditar nessas tretas, agarramo-nos ainda mais a ele porque you\u2019re afraid he\u2019s the best you will ever have.<\/a><\/p>\n

Os psicopatas emocionais podem fazer-nos acreditar no que quiserem.<\/p>\n

5. He \u2018wipes you out\u2019<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

He simply isolates you from the rest of the world. He convinces you not to hang out with your friends because you don\u2019t really need them\u2014you have him.<\/p>\n

And what is really hiding behind this is\u2014he\u2019s afraid your friends might talk some sense into you and encourage you to leave him.<\/p>\n

He has spent so much time making you \u2018perfect\u2019 to let some friends of yours ruin you.<\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: <\/strong>6 sinais de alerta de que voc\u00ea est\u00e1 em um relacionamento emocionalmente abusivo<\/p>\n

Ele VAI convencer-te de que te ama muito e que \u00e9 a \u00fanica pessoa em quem deves confiar.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Que sacana t\u00e3o sorrateiro!<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"Se<\/p>\n

\"Se<\/p>\n

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My husband was an emotional sneaky bastard\u2014a complete psycho. He was physically, sexually and most importantly, emotionally abusive. Let me tell you just one thing\u2014words f**king HURT! He knew that and that was his strongest weapon! When we split, after 12 years of marriage, it hit me\u2014a sudden realization, a summing up if you will,…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":87759,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29677],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2249","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-personality-types"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29677,"label":"personality types"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/If-Your-Guy-Does-These-5-Things-He\u2019s-An-Emotional-PSYCHOPATH.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29677,"name":"personality types","slug":"personality-types","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29677,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Hippies, alphas, betas, sapiophiles...Every personality type is unique and contains a particular set of skills. Find out which one describes you best.","parent":22911,"count":338,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29677,"category_count":338,"category_description":"Hippies, alphas, betas, sapiophiles...Every personality type is unique and contains a particular set of skills. Find out which one describes you best.","cat_name":"personality types","category_nicename":"personality-types","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2249","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/20"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2249"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2249\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/87759"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2249"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2249"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2249"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}