{"id":22684,"date":"2018-09-03T13:03:02","date_gmt":"2018-09-03T13:03:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22684"},"modified":"2022-05-04T11:04:59","modified_gmt":"2022-05-04T11:04:59","slug":"e-assim-que-se-perde-uma-rapariga-com-uma-mente-ansiosa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-assim-que-se-perde-uma-rapariga-com-uma-mente-ansiosa\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 assim que vais perder uma rapariga com uma mente ansiosa"},"content":{"rendered":"

Quando olhamos para ela, o que \u00e9 que vemos? Vemos os seus olhos muito abertos, como se estivessem \u00e0 procura de alguma coisa, mas n\u00e3o deixamos de nos surpreender com a sua beleza.<\/span><\/p>\n

V\u00ea o sorriso dela a desaparecer muito rapidamente do rosto porque pensou em algo que a assustou e a fez sentir-se desconfort\u00e1vel. Ouvimo-la gaguejar de vez em quando, a sua respira\u00e7\u00e3o torna-se mais alta e olhamos para ela enquanto est\u00e1 a ficar p\u00e1lida outra vez.<\/span><\/p>\n

Sim, essa \u00e9 a rapariga ansiosa por quem se apaixonou. Por muito seguro que esteja da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o e do amor que ela tem por si, nunca a tome por garantida, porque um passo em falso e perd\u00ea-la-\u00e1.<\/span><\/p>\n

E nunca a ter\u00e1s de volta.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ir\u00e1 <\/span>perder uma rapariga ansiosa<\/span><\/a> the moment she starts feeling like a burden to you. She can read your body language better than anyone! She sees the way you’re looking at her when she is too quiet, she hears you sigh when she doesn’t know what to say.<\/span><\/p>\n

You will lose an anxious girl when you start calling her out. She can’t control her red cheeks and the way she keeps on asking you millions of questions simply to make sure that you still love her. Don’t get annoyed by the way she cries over something that went through her mind, she isn’t in control of that.<\/b><\/p>\n

There is no way of telling how she will react when you try to force her to talk to people she doesn’t like or even make her get to know your friends. She isn’t trying to make you mad, she isn’t trying to get on your nerves, she simply doesn’t know another way to respond.<\/span><\/p>\n

She is shy, introverted, and her mind doesn’t allow her to feel comfortable with people around her, so if you try to change any of those things about her by force, she will freak out.<\/span><\/p>\n

You will lose her the moment she doesn’t feel safe with you anymore. Yes, ela precisa de ser constantemente tranquilizada<\/a>, yes, she’ll ask the weirdest questions ever, she might even cry for no particular reason. But the way you <\/span>reagir \u00e0 sua ansiedade<\/span><\/a> \u00e9 o que a faz sentir-se segura.<\/span><\/p>\n

Because if you tell her that she is ‘overreacting’ or ‘overthinking’ she will only feel bad about herself once more and you will end up with no goodnight kiss, looking at her face that\u2019s flooded with tears.<\/span><\/p>\n

Se a ama, nunca a fa\u00e7a esquecer isso, nunca a deixe acreditar no contr\u00e1rio, porque isso \u00e9 o mais importante se n\u00e3o a quiser perder. Certifique-se de que ela sabe o quanto significa para si, ou a pr\u00f3xima mulher bonita que lhe disser ol\u00e1 ser\u00e1 a sua morte.<\/span><\/p>\n

You will lose her by assuming that you two are the same, because you are not. Her brain is much more complex and the cold sweat that’s rushing out of her is unique to her. You will never understand a brain like hers, because it’s too crowded\u2014even for you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Com todos os dem\u00f3nios que tem na cabe\u00e7a, com todas as raz\u00f5es para n\u00e3o se sentir \u00e0 vontade \u00e0 noite, acha mesmo que ela tem energia para ir \u00e0 festa amanh\u00e3 \u00e0 noite? Achas mesmo que ela se vai divertir enquanto sente que todos aqueles olhos est\u00e3o a olhar para ela?<\/span><\/p>\n

You will lose her when you try to relate to her, because you can’t. You do not understand the pain she is going through when her anxiety acts up even in front of her best friend, her sister, you. Her anxiety doesn\u2019t allow her to speak to the people closest to her.<\/b><\/p>\n

Ir\u00e1 perd\u00ea-la lentamente, porque ela ir\u00e1 sempre dar-lhe outra oportunidade. Ela tentar\u00e1 sempre fazer as coisas bem e ir\u00e1 a essas festas consigo. <\/span>Ela vai pensar demais<\/span><\/a> a vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o at\u00e9 ao ponto em que ela o escolher\u00e1 sempre a si.<\/span><\/p>\n

At\u00e9 um dia, at\u00e9 ao ponto em que ela sente que nunca a vai compreender ou aceitar completamente como ela \u00e9. A \u00fanica coisa que ela est\u00e1 verdadeiramente a pedir-lhe \u00e9 que aceite a ansiedade como uma parte dela e que a ame apesar disso.<\/span><\/p>\n

Ela quer que saibas que ela \u00e9 <\/span>uma mulher forte<\/span><\/a>, a fighter, fighting her own battles every single day and the moment you see her as weak… you will lose her.<\/span><\/p>\n

Perd\u00ea-la-\u00e3o no momento em que come\u00e7arem a olhar para ela como uma v\u00edtima, porque ela \u00e9 muito mais do que isso. Perd\u00ea-la-\u00e3o exatamente por causa da forma como nem sequer querem compreender.<\/b><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

When you look at her, what do you see? You see her widely opened eyes, looking like they are searching for something but it still amazes you how beautiful they are. You see her smile disappearing too fast from her face because she thought of something that scared her and made her feel uncomfortable. You…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":22685,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22684","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/maia-habegger-548250-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22684","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22684"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22684\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/22685"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22684"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22684"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22684"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}