{"id":22690,"date":"2020-08-04T06:35:34","date_gmt":"2020-08-04T06:35:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22690"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:15:22","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:15:22","slug":"sou-suficientemente-forte-para-esperar-pelo-homem-certo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/sou-suficientemente-forte-para-esperar-pelo-homem-certo\/","title":{"rendered":"Sou suficientemente forte para esperar pelo homem certo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Mesmo que n\u00e3o goste de ser solteiro, na maioria das situa\u00e7\u00f5es escolho exatamente isso, porque o mundo dos encontros est\u00e1 completamente lixado.<\/p>\n<p>Nobody can wait to get an opportunity to cheat on their partner and love for them doesn\u2019t have any value anymore.<\/p>\n<p>J\u00e1 n\u00e3o \u00e9 puro e limpo. E para mim isso n\u00e3o \u00e9 amor verdadeiro.<\/p>\n<p>Podem chamar-me louca, mas neste mundo de caos, continuo a acreditar no amor eterno. Ainda acredito que existe um par perfeito para cada um de n\u00f3s, a nossa alma g\u00e9mea, a nossa cara-metade, o nosso melhor amigo e amante, tudo num s\u00f3.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9 por essa pessoa que quero esperar.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t want to be with someone just to avoid being single. I don\u2019t want to play with someone\u2019s feelings because I wouldn\u2019t like if someone did that to me.<\/p>\n<p>And I am not saying that being with someone doesn\u2019t have some pros. It is great to wake up in someone\u2019s arms.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-115408\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-walks-down-the-street.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher com cabelo frisado caminha pela rua\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-walks-down-the-street.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-walks-down-the-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-walks-down-the-street-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-walks-down-the-street-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-walks-down-the-street-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-walks-down-the-street-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-walks-down-the-street-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-woman-with-frizzy-hair-walks-down-the-street-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Mas quero ter a certeza de que os bra\u00e7os do homem em que estou a acordar s\u00e3o os bra\u00e7os de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/esta-a-dormir-com-a-sua-alma-gemea-12-maneiras-de-o-saber\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">a minha alma g\u00e9mea<\/a>. It is great to open up to someone but I want to make sure that he is the one and that he won\u2019t spread my secrets like they are nothing.<\/p>\n<p>Estar com algu\u00e9m que nos compreende, que nos valoriza e que nos aceita tal como somos \u00e9 a melhor prenda que o c\u00e9u nos pode dar.<\/p>\n<p>Estar com um homem que conhece toda a sua hist\u00f3ria, que sabe que foi quebrada e que tem bagagem e que, mesmo assim, a escolhe, \u00e9 um homem que \u00e9 realmente suficientemente forte para aguentar tudo.<\/p>\n<p>And that kind of man I want to wait for. I know that he won\u2019t come tomorrow or in a week but he will come eventually.<\/p>\n<p>E quando isso acontecer, eu saberei. O meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o sentir\u00e1 que ele \u00e9 a pessoa de quem tenho estado \u00e0 espera h\u00e1 tanto tempo. E todo este tempo sem ele vai valer a pena.<\/p>\n<p>Enquanto espero por ele, certificar-me-ei de que me esfor\u00e7o por mim pr\u00f3pria. Aprenderei coisas novas para as poder partilhar com ele.<\/p>\n<p>Vou aproveitar cada momento para me conhecer melhor, para aprender a controlar-me e a manter-me positivo, mesmo que a vida me esbofeteie vezes sem conta.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-115409 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/the-woman-walks-down-the-street-and-laughs.jpg\" alt=\"a mulher caminha pela rua e ri-se\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/the-woman-walks-down-the-street-and-laughs.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/the-woman-walks-down-the-street-and-laughs-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/the-woman-walks-down-the-street-and-laughs-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/the-woman-walks-down-the-street-and-laughs-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/the-woman-walks-down-the-street-and-laughs-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/the-woman-walks-down-the-street-and-laughs-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/the-woman-walks-down-the-street-and-laughs-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/the-woman-walks-down-the-street-and-laughs-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sei como sou forte, por isso, mesmo que ele apare\u00e7a tarde, nunca ser\u00e1 tarde demais para mim. Serei paciente e esperarei por ele porque vale a pena esperar.<\/p>\n<p>I won\u2019t be with someone just to avoid being alone. Because if I do it now, I will feel the consequences later.<\/p>\n<p>Essa pessoa nunca ser\u00e1 a minha pessoa. Nunca serei capaz de relaxar e ser eu pr\u00f3pria com ele.<\/p>\n<p>E como vivo com ele, nada vai mudar. Ser\u00e1 mediano, porque \u00e9 assim que tudo se parece quando n\u00e3o se est\u00e1 com o homem certo.<\/p>\n<p>Tudo \u00e9 suficientemente bom, mas nunca perfeito. Tudo \u00e9 sentir-se bem, mas nunca sentir-se \u00f3timo.<\/p>\n<p>Quando nos contentamos com menos do que merecemos, quando escolhemos a pessoa errada s\u00f3 para ter algu\u00e9m, nunca seremos felizes. Nunca sentir\u00e1s borboletas no est\u00f4mago e ele nunca ser\u00e1 capaz de te fazer feliz. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/ficar-solteiro-ate-conhecer-a-pessoa-que-o-faz-rir-tanto-que-lhe-doi-o-estomago\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">rir \u00e0 brava<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>With the wrong one, nothing will ever be fine and there will always be something missing. You simply won\u2019t feel the warmth around your heart when you are with him.<\/p>\n<p>E isso n\u00e3o \u00e9 certamente algo que eu queira para mim. Estar com algu\u00e9m que se ama de forma mediana n\u00e3o \u00e9 a verdadeira coisa.<\/p>\n<p>And since there are so many mediocre things in life, at least love shouldn\u2019t be one of them.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-115411 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-woman-stands-on-the-street-with-her-back-turned.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher est\u00e1 na rua de costas voltadas\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-woman-stands-on-the-street-with-her-back-turned.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-woman-stands-on-the-street-with-her-back-turned-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-woman-stands-on-the-street-with-her-back-turned-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-woman-stands-on-the-street-with-her-back-turned-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-woman-stands-on-the-street-with-her-back-turned-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-woman-stands-on-the-street-with-her-back-turned-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-woman-stands-on-the-street-with-her-back-turned-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/a-woman-stands-on-the-street-with-her-back-turned-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why I need to wait. I will wait even if it takes a long time.<\/p>\n<p>Sei que sou suficientemente forte para esperar pela pessoa certa. Fui ao inferno e voltei e se consegui lidar com coisas assim na minha vida, serei capaz de lidar com algo assim.<\/p>\n<p>Se me mantive de p\u00e9 sempre que a vida me deu uma bofetada, serei suficientemente forte para esperar que o homem perfeito entre na minha vida. N\u00e3o estou a dizer que ser\u00e1 f\u00e1cil dormir sozinha, sentir-me desprotegida por vezes e tratar das coisas sozinha, mas sei que sou capaz de o fazer.<\/p>\n<p>Sou forte porque sei que vai valer a pena. Quando a pessoa certa aparecer, tudo far\u00e1 sentido.<\/p>\n<p>Quando ele entrar na minha vida, sentir-me-ei finalmente completa. Sentirei a paz no meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o que nunca senti antes, mas que desejei durante todo este tempo.<\/p>\n<p>Quando o homem certo chegar, ele apagar\u00e1 todas as minhas inseguran\u00e7as, toda a minha dor, todas as minhas l\u00e1grimas. Ele far-me-\u00e1 sentir que sou especial e \u00fanica, tal como sou.<\/p>\n<p>E por causa dele, sentir-me-ei a mulher mais feliz do mundo. O seu amor curar\u00e1 o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido.<\/p>\n<p>As suas palavras dar-me-\u00e3o a esperan\u00e7a que perdi h\u00e1 muito tempo. Ele aceitar-me-\u00e1 tal como sou e nunca tentar\u00e1 completar-me, mas aceitar-me-\u00e1 completamente.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Com a pessoa certa, o amor sentir-se-\u00e1 como deve ser.<\/em> <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/wait-man-whose-love-feels-like-home\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Sentir-se-\u00e1 em casa<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-115406\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/I-Am-Strong-Enough-To-Wait-For-The-Right-Guy-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Sou suficientemente forte para esperar pelo homem certo\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1499\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/I-Am-Strong-Enough-To-Wait-For-The-Right-Guy-pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/I-Am-Strong-Enough-To-Wait-For-The-Right-Guy-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/I-Am-Strong-Enough-To-Wait-For-The-Right-Guy-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/I-Am-Strong-Enough-To-Wait-For-The-Right-Guy-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Even if I don\u2019t like being single, in most situations I choose exactly that because the dating world is totally fucked up. Nobody can wait to get an opportunity to cheat on their partner and love for them doesn\u2019t have any value anymore. It is not pure and clean anymore. And for me that is&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":115404,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22690","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/I-Am-Strong-Enough-To-Wait-For-The-Right-Guy-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. 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