{"id":22722,"date":"2018-09-04T10:58:12","date_gmt":"2018-09-04T10:58:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22722"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:20:06","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:20:06","slug":"ela-esta-farta-de-se-esforcar-numa-relacao-que-esta-condenada-ao-fracasso","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ela-esta-farta-de-se-esforcar-numa-relacao-que-esta-condenada-ao-fracasso\/","title":{"rendered":"Ela n\u00e3o est\u00e1 mais se esfor\u00e7ando em um relacionamento que est\u00e1 fadado ao fracasso"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>Alguma vez esteve numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o que sabia que nunca teria sucesso? Alguma vez esteve numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o que n\u00e3o era mais do que um desastre \u00e0 espera de acontecer desde o primeiro dia? <\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Alguma vez amou um homem que sabia que n\u00e3o era adequado para si e que s\u00f3 lhe traria problemas? Alguma vez te esfor\u00e7aste por algo que sabias que nunca iria compensar?<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Bem, esta rapariga j\u00e1 o fez. E foi uma das experi\u00eancias mais dolorosas da sua vida.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">But please don\u2019t judge her for doing this. <\/span><b>Don\u2019t judge her for giving her entire self to the person she shouldn\u2019t have let into her life in the first place. Because she has learned her lesson and because now, she knows better than to repeat her mistake.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">E porque facilmente te poderias tornar nela.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Don\u2019t think that this girl was foolish or stupid enough to get herself involved in this relationship, even though she knew it would fail. Don\u2019t think that she lied to herself, believing that things would eventually work out.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">N\u00e3o, ela sempre foi muito inteligente e sempre soube que n\u00e3o tinha futuro com este homem ao seu lado. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Deep down, despite all the love she felt for him, she was very well aware that he wasn\u2019t right for her. That she was settling for less just by being with this guy.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Ela sabia que ele nunca lhe poderia dar tudo o que ela queria. Ela sabia que <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/sinais-de-que-ele-nao-esta-pronto-o-compromisso-simplesmente-nao-quer-ver\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">ele nunca poderia comprometer-se<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> para ela e nunca lhe poderia dar o amor que ela merecia.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Mas ela continuou na mesma. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Continuou a dar-lhe infinitas segundas oportunidades porque pensava que o seu amor o faria perceber que devia mudar de atitude. Porque ela achava que o amor que sentia por ele era mais forte do que tudo.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>And after years of putting effort into something that was doomed to fail, she\u2019s had enough. After years of giving her entire self to something that will obviously never succeed, she is finally done.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Ela est\u00e1 farta de ser a \u00fanica a tentar. De ser a \u00fanica a preocupar-se.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">She\u2019s done being <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/problema-sou-sempre-um-amor\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">aquele que ama mais<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">. Aquela que d\u00e1 tudo de si para o bem desta rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Ser aquela que faz todos os sacrif\u00edcios e todos os compromissos.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>She\u2019s done putting an effort into this relationship and into this guy, when he has never done the same.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> Quando ele era apenas um idiota ego\u00edsta que nunca pensou nas necessidades ou desejos dela.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">She\u2019s done putting herself down so this man wouldn\u2019t be intimidated by everything she can accomplish. Done holding herself back for someone who never saw her true value.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">She\u2019s done pushing this man forward when he never for a second believed in her and when he did nothing but make her feel bad about herself. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">She\u2019s done being this man\u2019s shoulder to cry on. Done being the person he can always rely on and done being his biggest support.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">She\u2019s done being his safe haven, when she could never count on him being there for her when she needed him. She\u2019s done <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/uma-carta-aberta-a-rapariga-que-ama-incondicionalmente\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">amando-o incondicionalmente<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">sem fazer perguntas, quando ele nunca a amou o suficiente.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Ela est\u00e1 farta de escolher este homem em vez de si pr\u00f3pria. Deixou de o amar mais do que a si pr\u00f3pria e de p\u00f4r as necessidades dele \u00e0 frente das suas.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Ela deixou de se sentir fraca e impotente por causa dele.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> Done thinking that she wouldn\u2019t make it without him by her side. She is done feeling guilty for abandoning him. Done blaming herself for everything wrong that went on between the two of them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Ela est\u00e1 farta de pensar que este homem \u00e9 a sua outra metade e de pensar que n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma pessoa completa por si s\u00f3.<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> Ela est\u00e1 farta de acreditar que n\u00e3o serve para nada e que devia estar grata a ele s\u00f3 por estar com ela. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Ela est\u00e1 farta de permitir que esta rela\u00e7\u00e3o e a dor que tem sentido a definam. J\u00e1 n\u00e3o pensa que precisa de um homem para ser uma mulher a s\u00e9rio.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Ela est\u00e1 farta de se contentar com menos e est\u00e1 mais do que pronta para voltar a tomar a sua vida nas suas pr\u00f3prias m\u00e3os.<\/b>   <!--codes_iframe-->  <!--\/codes_iframe--><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Have you ever been in a relationship which you knew would never succeed? Have you ever been in a relationship which was nothing more than a disaster waiting to happen from day one? Have you ever loved a man who you knew was wrong for you and who would only bring you trouble? Have you&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":22723,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22722","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/alexandre-croussette-801817-unsplash-1.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22722","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22722"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22722\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/22723"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22722"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22722"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22722"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}