{"id":22872,"date":"2018-09-06T11:58:31","date_gmt":"2018-09-06T11:58:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22872"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:13:33","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:13:33","slug":"um-tolo-que-se-apaixonou-por-um-tolo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/um-tolo-que-se-apaixonou-por-um-tolo\/","title":{"rendered":"Um tolo que se apaixonou por um tolo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>She made her favorite meal to share with you. She took time out of her evening to prep herself for you. She picked the perfect outfit. She did her hair perfectly to show off her neck and face just the way she thought you would like. She took the time to put her make-up on like you had never seen before. She lit the candle that reminded her of you\u2014soft and sweet. She did all this because you told her before leaving work that you would be home for dinner. You told her you would message her shortly. She waited and waited for your reply. Only to once again not hear from you.<\/p>\n<p>A tua metade da refei\u00e7\u00e3o arrefeceu, apenas para ser colocada no frigor\u00edfico para ela comer mais tarde. A vela que parecia t\u00e3o doce e uma bela lembran\u00e7a de ti queimou-se. A roupa dela passou despercebida. O cabelo desfez-se. A maquilhagem foi apagada antes que se pudesse ver. Porque <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/making-fool-sorry-fault\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">ela era a tola<\/a> que se apaixonou por um tolo.<\/p>\n<p>The fool who doesn\u2019t know how to hold on to her tightly even when she told you how to. You never gave her a chance to let you into her life. <strong>Ela estava \u00e0 espera que fosses o homem que ela precisava que fosses.<\/strong> O homem que ela te disse que queria. Apenas para estar l\u00e1. Para aparecer quando disseste que o farias. Chamar-lhe bonita quando a achava a mulher mais bonita. Para falar com ela quando disseste que a ias contactar.<\/p>\n<p>Ela pensou que estavas a ser sincero quando disseste que querias mais do que uns rolinhos nos len\u00e7\u00f3is. Ela queria amor. Tu querias amor. Querias algu\u00e9m que fosse como ela. Mas n\u00e3o ela. <strong>Ela queria algu\u00e9m como tu e ainda espera que sejas o homem que ela quer.<\/strong> Colocou-a \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia para provar que ela era a pessoa que queria. S\u00f3 para ela se sentir a amante da tua vida.<\/p>\n<p>O cora\u00e7\u00e3o dela batia por ti. O seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o tamb\u00e9m se partia por tua causa. Ela disse a si pr\u00f3pria que tu serias diferente. Que todas as mi\u00fadas e beldades que punhas nas tuas mensagens eram s\u00f3 para ela. Mas agora ela percebe que tu nunca ser\u00e1s quem ela precisa que sejas.<\/p>\n<p>Ela precisa do homem que disseste que serias. Aquele que estava entusiasmado por lhe mandar uma mensagem de bom dia porque queria que o dia dela come\u00e7asse bem ou porque ela era o primeiro pensamento que tinha quando acordava. Dizias-lhe para ter cuidado quando conduzias e pedias-lhe para te enviar uma mensagem quando chegasse a casa, s\u00f3 porque querias que ela estivesse segura. Era em ti que ela pensava que queria ser o seu melhor amigo na vida, com quem partilhar a vida. Ou ter a possibilidade de ter uma vida em comum.<\/p>\n<p>But the closer she got, the quieter you got, the fewer good morning texts she got. Even when you stayed with her, you weren\u2019t there next to her when she woke up. Instead, you were a million miles away. She would joke about you not wanting her but in reality, it\u2019s what she was feeling. She felt like you were leaving her behind. She felt like you were leaving her before you could even get started.<\/p>\n<p>Ela sabia no seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/14-sinais-precoces-de-que-ele-nao-e-a-pessoa-certa-para-si\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">you weren\u2019t the one<\/a>. But there is something about you that she can\u2019t put her finger on. Everything about you drives her insane and annoys her. But that everything is what she loves about you. She truly cares for you. She cares for your family and even though she has never met them, she hopes to.<\/p>\n<p><strong>But this time she isn\u2019t going to wait for you. This time she will live her life the way she wants.<\/strong> Go on the adventures that you didn\u2019t seem to be interested in. The next dinner you miss out on will not be because you didn\u2019t message her back or stood her up. No, the next dinner you miss out on will be because she didn\u2019t invite you over. The next dinner, she will get dolled up for herself. With the hairstyle that will show off her face and neck that she likes. With the make-up that she will do because it will show off the favorite things about her face. With the perfect outfit she will pick out because it will hug her the way she deserves to be hugged. She may be a fool who fell for a fool but she won\u2019t be a fool to keep waiting for a fool.<\/p>\n<p>Instead, she will see that you\u2019re the fool who let her get away. And the next time you message, she may not respond to you. She may just ignore it and let it go unread for days and days, until her mailbox is full of worried messages from you. Your phone calls will go unanswered and it may be because she might have phone problems or even because she is just busy.<\/p>\n<p>She doesn\u2019t want you to be the fool to come crawling back on your knees, asking for forgiveness. <strong>In fact, she doesn\u2019t want you to be a fool at all. She just wants you to be the man you seemed to be.<\/strong> The one who wanted so much from her but who you couldn\u2019t be for her.<\/p>\n<p>She doesn\u2019t want you to apologize for the times you were gone. She doesn\u2019t want a bunch of flowers that will die in a few days. She doesn\u2019t want makeup dinners. She doesn\u2019t even want makeup dates. She just wants you to show her you will be there. You were nothing you said you were, nothing you seemed to be.<\/p>\n<p>Ela s\u00f3 quer que sejas tu. N\u00e3o o tolo que est\u00e1s a fazer.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: right;\"><strong>by\u00a0Stevie Rae Pears<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>She made her favorite meal to share with you. She took time out of her evening to prep herself for you. She picked the perfect outfit. She did her hair perfectly to show off her neck and face just the way she thought you would like. 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