{"id":22875,"date":"2020-09-06T12:00:06","date_gmt":"2020-09-06T12:00:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22875"},"modified":"2022-01-24T18:47:50","modified_gmt":"2022-01-24T18:47:50","slug":"7-tracos-narcisicos-que-pode-nao-reconhecer-imediatamente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-tracos-narcisicos-que-pode-nao-reconhecer-imediatamente\/","title":{"rendered":"7 tra\u00e7os de narcisismo que talvez n\u00e3o reconhe\u00e7a de imediato"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nenhum de n\u00f3s pensou que iria acabar com um parceiro narcisista<\/a>. Because when you dream about your dream guy, you surely don\u2019t picture him as a narcissist.<\/p>\n

But in some cases, it turns out that our dream man is actually a narcissist in disguise. Maybe at first you won\u2019t be aware of some traits that he has, but if you just pay a bit more attention to him, you will see that he is not as great as he pretends to be.<\/p>\n

Here are some of the most common narcissistic traits that many women don\u2019t recognize at first but that turn out to be a problem in the relationship later.<\/p>\n

1. Ele mente<\/span><\/h2>\n

Let\u2019s be honest\u2014it is okay to lie sometimes. Nobody died because of a couple of white lies.<\/p>\n

Mas o problema surge quando o seu parceiro lhe mente a toda a hora. \u00c9 um problema quando n\u00e3o tem a certeza se o que ele diz \u00e9 verdade ou n\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

And it is obvious that you can\u2019t live with a man like that. You can\u2019t live in fear that he does some bad things to you, and when he is with you, he pretends that he is an angel.<\/p>\n

Este \u00e9 um dos tra\u00e7os narc\u00edsicos mais comuns, mas muitas vezes as pessoas descobrem-no demasiado tarde. Por isso, se vir que o seu homem n\u00e3o \u00e9 totalmente honesto consigo, considere isso como um bandeira vermelha<\/a> que algo est\u00e1 errado.<\/p>\n

And whatever you do, don\u2019t let him make a fool out of you.<\/p>\n

2. Ele manipula<\/span><\/h2>\n

When you are in love, you consider your loved one to be an angel who would never hurt you. But behind the mask of an angel, there can often be hidden the face of a devil\u2014devil who knows how to get what he wants using your feelings and your love toward them. <\/p>\n

Os narcisistas usam isto abuso narc\u00edsico<\/a> A t\u00e9cnica de manipula\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 muito astuta. Quando querem manipular-nos, fazem-no de forma a que nunca nos apercebamos.<\/p>\n

They will tell you that they love you and that they need you to do something for them. In that way, they will get all they want, and they won\u2019t feel any remorse for hurting you.<\/p>\n

Por isso, se notar alguns sinais de manipula\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>, cort\u00e1-la a tempo porque pode ser demasiado tarde quando se apaixonar.<\/p>\n

3. Falta-lhe empatia<\/span><\/h2>\n

When you first start a relationship with someone, you can\u2019t see their real face. Only when you spend some time with them, you will be able to get to know them better.<\/p>\n

Se, no in\u00edcio da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, verificar que o seu namorado n\u00e3o tem empatia, talvez pense que ele j\u00e1 foi magoado demasiadas vezes e que est\u00e1 a tentar proteger-se.<\/p>\n

But if that continues later on and if he doesn\u2019t even show any empathy for you and your problems, then you have a problem.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 \u00f3bvio que o teu homem s\u00f3 fingiu que tinha problemas para te fazer sentir pena dele. Isso \u00e9 uma t\u00e1tica comum a todos os narcisistas<\/a> para convencer as suas v\u00edtimas de que tiveram uma vida dif\u00edcil e que t\u00eam de esconder os seus sentimentos para n\u00e3o serem novamente magoadas.<\/p>\n

4. Ele nunca teve uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o verdadeira<\/span><\/h2>\n

Se o seu homem disser que nunca teve uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o a s\u00e9rio porque ningu\u00e9m o compreendia, deve saber que algo est\u00e1 errado.<\/p>\n

I mean it can happen that one person doesn\u2019t understand you, but if more of them think the same about you, then the problem is in you and not in them.<\/p>\n

Isso significa que o teu homem can\u2019t make a firm relationship with anyone because of his narcissistic traits<\/a> que o fazem sempre parecer uma v\u00edtima, a pessoa especial que mais precisa de ajuda.<\/p>\n

A man like that will never understand your problems nor will he go the extra mile to make you happy. A man like that loves himself most, and he can\u2019t control it.<\/p>\n

5. Pensa que \u00e9 superior<\/span><\/strong><\/h1>\n

Maybe you won\u2019t see it right from the start, but a narcissist will always try to show off with things he didn\u2019t do.<\/p>\n

He will think that he is superior and that you are actually lucky that he chose you to be his partner. He doesn\u2019t understand that we all are the same and that we have the same rights.<\/p>\n

Na cabe\u00e7a dele, ele \u00e9 o especial e, como tal, merece tratamento especial onde quer que v\u00e1. E quando se entra numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o com esse tipo de homem, perde-se completamente a tentar satisfaz\u00ea-lo.<\/p>\n

Ele \u00e9 muito exigente e pede sempre que as suas necessidades sejam satisfeitas, ao passo que tu ser\u00e1s apenas algu\u00e9m que est\u00e1 sempre presente para fazer tudo o que ele quer.<\/p>\n

E esse n\u00e3o \u00e9 o tratamento que merece, especialmente de algu\u00e9m que mais ama.<\/p>\n

6. Ele \u00e9 passivo-agressivo<\/span><\/h2>\n

Todos n\u00f3s somos, por vezes passivo-agressivo<\/a> por causa das diferentes coisas que nos acontecem. Haver\u00e1 momentos em que sentir\u00e1 que o seu mundo se est\u00e1 a desmoronar e reagir\u00e1 assim.<\/p>\n

But if you see your man behaving like this all the time, you should know something is not right. This is not normal behavior, and you shouldn\u2019t put up with his shit just because you love him.<\/p>\n

In fact, if he says that he loves you that much, he should never do that to you. This is something you shouldn\u2019t forgive, and if this starts happening, it will be even worse as time passes.<\/p>\n

You need to know that people like this never change, and even if you ask him to do that for the both of you, he won\u2019t because he simply doesn\u2019t give a damn about anyone.<\/p>\n

7. Ele \u00e9 arrogante e abusivo<\/span><\/h2>\n

It happens to all of us that we get arrogant sometimes, especially if we are not in a good mood. But if your guy acts like this every day and if he doesn\u2019t try to change his behavior, then you have a serious problem.<\/p>\n

Imaginem o que seria estar com algu\u00e9m que est\u00e1 sempre zangado com o mundo e que se torna abusivo quando as coisas n\u00e3o s\u00e3o t\u00e3o perfeitas como ele quer.<\/p>\n

E o pior \u00e9 que \u00e9 apenas uma quest\u00e3o de tempo at\u00e9 ele come\u00e7ar a abusar de si.<\/p>\n

And that is not something you need in your life. You need a loving and caring man\u2014not someone who will use you as a punching bag to help him heal his frustrations.<\/p>\n

Confie em mim, se notar sinais como estes, deve correr o mais longe poss\u00edvel, porque este tipo de homem nunca lhe dar\u00e1 o amor de que precisa.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

None of us ever thought that we would end up with a narcissistic partner. Because when you dream about your dream guy, you surely don\u2019t picture him as a narcissist. But in some cases, it turns out that our dream man is actually a narcissist in disguise. Maybe at first you won\u2019t be aware of…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":21,"featured_media":22883,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29633],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22875","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-narcissism"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29633,"label":"narcissism"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/joelvalve-975142-unsplash-2.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Maria Parker","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/maria\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29633,"name":"narcissism","slug":"narcissism","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29633,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","parent":22911,"count":233,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29633,"category_count":233,"category_description":"Mind games and manipulations are narcissist's favorite controlling tactics. Learn how their mind operates so that you can protect yourself. ","cat_name":"narcissism","category_nicename":"narcissism","category_parent":22911}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22875","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/21"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22875"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22875\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/22883"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22875"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22875"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22875"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}