{"id":22894,"date":"2019-09-06T12:31:45","date_gmt":"2019-09-06T12:31:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22894"},"modified":"2022-02-25T03:09:45","modified_gmt":"2022-02-25T03:09:45","slug":"prefiro-ficar-solteira-a-desperdicar-a-minha-vida-com-um-imbecil-imaturo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/prefiro-ficar-solteira-a-desperdicar-a-minha-vida-com-um-imbecil-imaturo\/","title":{"rendered":"Prefiro ficar solteira do que desperdi\u00e7ar a minha vida com um imbecil imaturo"},"content":{"rendered":"

As pessoas confundem frequentemente estar sozinho<\/a> com o facto de se estar realmente s\u00f3. Pensam que se estivermos numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o, isso significa que somos felizes, mas nunca ningu\u00e9m disse que s\u00f3 porque temos algu\u00e9m significa que somos sempre felizes com essa pessoa.<\/p>\r\n

Aprendi esta li\u00e7\u00e3o na minha pr\u00f3pria pele, por isso sei do que estou a falar. Sabem, sempre fui uma mulher forte, aquela que trata das coisas \u00e0 sua maneira. Depois conheci o homem por quem me apaixonei. Ele foi o meu primeiro amor, a minha raz\u00e3o de viver e o meu melhor amigo.<\/p>\r\n

Mas como o namoro n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma coisa simples e porque precisa de muito esfor\u00e7o, desfizemo-nos. Desfizemo-nos em peda\u00e7os t\u00e3o pequenos que parecia que nunca t\u00ednhamos estado juntos.<\/p>\r\n

E enquanto eu estava toda confusa, pensando que agora estou sozinha e fodida, algo me passou pela cabe\u00e7a.<\/p>\r\n

I figured out that just because I was single didn\u2019t mean that I needed to be sad. That moment was my epiphany, and I realized that breaking up with you was the best thing that could have happened to me.<\/p>\r\n

Percebi que \u00e9 melhor estar sozinho do que ter de aturar um idiota.<\/strong><\/em>
\u00c9 melhor viver uma vida em que eu possa ser eu pr\u00f3pria, sem fingir ser outra pessoa s\u00f3 para que o meu namorado goste de mim.<\/p>\r\n

If he can\u2019t accept all the bad things about me, he surely doesn\u2019t deserve the best ones as well. I refuse to settle for less than I deserve, and I refuse to be someone\u2019s doll to will play with whenever and however he wants.<\/p>\r\n

Apercebi-me que sou suficientemente forte para esperar pelo homem certo.<\/strong><\/em>
I have been through hell and back, and I know that life is a bitch. I also know that by speeding things up, I won\u2019t reach my ultimate goal and that this time, I just need to go with the flow.<\/p>\r\n

Preciso de deixar o destino fazer o seu trabalho e aceitar o que quer que ele me traga. Passei tanto tempo a criar as minhas pr\u00f3prias regras para o amor, mas nunca resultou. Por isso, a partir de agora, vou ficar quieta e deixar que o c\u00e9u me envie a pessoa certa.<\/p>\r\n

I realized I don\u2019t need anyone who doesn\u2019t need me.<\/strong><\/em>
I have been dating so many guys until now, and none of them could provide me with the love I craved. Every one of them disappointed me at least once, and that\u2019s why I decided to break up with them.<\/p>\r\n

Because if someone shows that he doesn\u2019t love me, why would I stay with him and beg for his attention? If I had my heart on my sleeve and if I could open up to him, he should have done the same things for me.<\/p>\r\n

But if someone refuses to do that, he simply can\u2019t be at the top of the list of my priorities.<\/p>\r\n

I won\u2019t settle for less than I deserve.<\/strong><\/em>
I only have one life to live, and I surely won\u2019t waste it on a guy who doesn\u2019t love me as much as I love him. I won\u2019t settle for a lack of love, a lack of attention and a lack of respect. I deserve to be loved.<\/p>\r\n

I deserve to be taken care of. I deserve to be chased. And I deserve all of that to happen naturally. And if a man can\u2019t provide me with that, then I don\u2019t need him at all.<\/p>\r\n

Serei a minha pr\u00f3pria raz\u00e3o de felicidade.<\/strong><\/em>
During my whole life, I searched for men to make me happy, but now I realized I am my own reason for happiness. I realized don\u2019t need a man to complete me. I don\u2019t need him to guide me or show me the right path.<\/p>\r\n

S\u00f3 preciso de um que me aceite completamente e que me ame incondicionalmente. Mas at\u00e9 ele chegar, vou apaixonar-me primeiro por mim pr\u00f3pria. Aprenderei a ser a minha pr\u00f3pria prioridade e a satisfazer os meus pr\u00f3prios desejos sem precisar que algu\u00e9m o fa\u00e7a por mim.<\/p>\r\n

Esperarei pelo homem cujo amor se sinta em casa.<\/strong><\/em>
I know that he won\u2019t come tomorrow or in a month, but he will eventually come. And I know that I won\u2019t be with anyone just to avoid being alone. I will wait for someone who is worth the wait.<\/p>\r\n

Eu vou esperar pelo homem<\/a> que ser\u00e1 o meu melhor amigo, a minha alma g\u00e9mea e o meu amante ao mesmo tempo. Aquele que me perseguir\u00e1 quando eu j\u00e1 for dele, que me amar\u00e1 at\u00e9 \u00e0 lua e que nunca desistir\u00e1 de mim.<\/p>\r\n

Esperarei pelo homem cujo amor se sinta em casa.<\/p>\r\n\r\n

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