{"id":22896,"date":"2020-08-06T12:37:13","date_gmt":"2020-08-06T12:37:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22896"},"modified":"2021-08-12T07:46:29","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T07:46:29","slug":"nao-magoes-uma-boa-mulher-so-porque-tens-medo-de-te-comprometeres","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-magoes-uma-boa-mulher-so-porque-tens-medo-de-te-comprometeres\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o magoes uma boa mulher s\u00f3 porque tens medo de te comprometeres"},"content":{"rendered":"

Porque \u00e9 que a trouxeste para o teu mundo quando n\u00e3o tinhas inten\u00e7\u00e3o de ficar? Ela n\u00e3o sonhou com todas aquelas mensagens, conversas, olhares doces e abra\u00e7os calorosos.<\/p>\n

Foi real. Tu estavas l\u00e1.<\/p>\n

Agiu como se isto fosse para algum lado. Esfor\u00e7aste-te. Deixaste-a de rastos. Estava tudo \u00f3timo e depois abandonaste-a. Sem explica\u00e7\u00f5es reais, sem nada.<\/p>\n

Are you even aware of how much damage you caused? There\u2019s nothing worse than awakening a woman\u2019s feelings without having any intention of loving her.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Mas tu tinhas inten\u00e7\u00e3o. Queria-a na sua vida. Gostavas dela. Estavas t\u00e3o interessado nela. S\u00f3 que ficaste assustado.<\/p>\n

You saw that things between you were getting a bit more serious and you were afraid her love would cage you. You felt like you couldn\u2019t breathe. You felt like you were losing your freedom.<\/p>\n

Por isso, fizeste o que sabes fazer melhor, correu<\/a>. Fugiste dela em vez de enfrentares os teus problemas. Deixou-a sem saber o que fazer e f\u00ea-la perguntar-se se ter\u00e1 feito alguma coisa que o tenha levado a partir.<\/p>\n

\"a<\/p>\n

You made her wonder if there was something wrong with her. You made her question if she was enough. And that\u2019s unforgivable. She didn\u2019t deserve to be treated like that.<\/p>\n

Se queria separar-se dela, ela merecia pelo menos uma explica\u00e7\u00e3o. Ela merecia uma despedida adequada. Ela merecia a tua honestidade.<\/p>\n

But it was easier this way, wasn\u2019t it? You got used to these kinds of scenarios. You pull away every time you get too attached. You freeze your heart when you are in front of the real deal.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

You would rather lose her than be vulnerable. You try to convince yourself that she didn\u2019t mean a thing to you when you know that couldn\u2019t be further from the truth.<\/p>\n

Nunca te permites sentir demasiado<\/a>. You try to block those emotions because you think you are safer that way. You keep repeating the same scenario because you feel that you don\u2019t deserve to be loved.<\/p>\n

Mas se algu\u00e9m olhava para ti como se fosses o melhor homem do mundo, era ela. Ela colocou-o num pedestal e no seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o sabia que merecia o seu amor.<\/p>\n

You were the last one who she thought would hurt her, but you did. She still isn\u2019t herself. The wounds are too deep. But she is fighting and she\u2019s not giving up\u2014that’s what makes her even more special.<\/p>\n

\"l\u00e1<\/p>\n

By pushing a good woman out of your life, you only end up hurting yourself. You will realize what you had when it\u2019s already too late.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

You will wonder what would’ve happened if you had been a bit braver. If you got out of your comfort zone and took the risk, maybe you wouldn\u2019t be so caught up in your thoughts now.<\/p>\n

You wouldn\u2019t be wondering if there\u2019s anybody in her life who is enjoying her smile like you once did.<\/p>\n

You wouldn\u2019t be wondering if there is a way back to her heart. You never thought that she would be strong enough to ignore all your calls and texts. You thought she would be waiting for forever.<\/p>\n

But even the best and the kindest of women give up when they exhaust all their strength. When they see that there is no point holding on to somebody who didn\u2019t want to stay.<\/p>\n

If you had enough courage maybe you would see that your fears were misplaced. Maybe you would find out that love doesn\u2019t trap you, it makes you free when you are with the right person.<\/p>\n

Se parasses de fugir e ficasses nos bra\u00e7os dela para sempre. Esse para sempre com ela assustava-te tanto e agora sabes que o para sempre sem ela \u00e9 ainda mais assustador.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n

\"N\u00e3o<\/p>\n

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Why did you pull her into your world when you had no intention of staying? She didn\u2019t dream all those texts, conversations, sweet gazes, and warm embraces. It was real. You were there. You acted like this was going somewhere. You made efforts. You swept her off of her feet. Everything was great and then…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":39,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29642],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22896","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-guy-talk"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29642,"label":"guy talk"}]},"featured_image_src_large":false,"author_info":{"display_name":"Owen Scott","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/hase\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29642,"name":"guy talk","slug":"guy-talk","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29642,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Welcome to the land of juicy topics and lots of helpful tips on love and relationships. You can fully relax because fun and transparency are guaranteed. ","parent":29638,"count":69,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29642,"category_count":69,"category_description":"Welcome to the land of juicy topics and lots of helpful tips on love and relationships. You can fully relax because fun and transparency are guaranteed. ","cat_name":"guy talk","category_nicename":"guy-talk","category_parent":29638}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22896","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/39"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22896"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22896\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22896"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22896"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22896"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}