{"id":22914,"date":"2018-09-06T12:53:15","date_gmt":"2018-09-06T12:53:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22914"},"modified":"2022-01-21T21:41:42","modified_gmt":"2022-01-21T21:41:42","slug":"7-coisas-que-os-meus-relacionamentos-falhados-me-ensinaram","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-coisas-que-os-meus-relacionamentos-falhados-me-ensinaram\/","title":{"rendered":"7 coisas que os meus relacionamentos fracassados me ensinaram"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ter o cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido \u00e9 sempre doloroso, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 d\u00favida sobre isso. Mas se fores suficientemente inteligente, podes transformar cada desgosto numa li\u00e7\u00e3o valiosa.<\/p>\n

And that was exactly what I did. Instead of lamenting my past relationships, I\u2019ve allowed each one of them to teach me something about romance, love, and life and about myself. Here are 7 things I\u2019ve learned from my failed relationships.<\/p>\n

1. Deixar o passado no passado<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

A primeira li\u00e7\u00e3o que aprendi com os meus desgostos amorosos \u00e9 que devemos deixar o passado no passado, onde ele pertence. Algumas pessoas e algumas coisas simplesmente n\u00e3o foram feitas para durar<\/a> e tens de aceitar isso, por muito que te doa.<\/p>\n

Em vez de passar os seus dias a pensar em como as coisas poderiam ter corrido e como poderiam ter sido, tem de se concentrar em tirar o melhor partido do dia de hoje. Deve concentrar-se em melhorar o seu presente e o seu futuro, sem permitir que as coisas ou as pessoas do passado o retenham.<\/p>\n

2. That I\u2019m the only one who can make myself happy<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Sadly, some girls are looking for a relationship which will complete them, thinking that the right guy will miraculously solve all of their problems and make their life better. He won\u2019t.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 tu podes fazer-te verdadeiramente feliz e n\u00e3o h\u00e1 ningu\u00e9m neste planeta que o possa fazer por ti. E o mesmo acontece quando nos tornamos infelizes e miser\u00e1veis.<\/p>\n

If you choose to focus on everything negative and everything that caused you pain in the past, you\u2019ll never achieve complete happiness.<\/p>\n

3. Colocar-me em primeiro lugar<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Podem chamar-me ego\u00edsta, mas uma das coisas que cada uma das minhas rela\u00e7\u00f5es anteriores me ensinou foi a p\u00f4r-me em primeiro lugar. N\u00e3o h\u00e1 nenhum homem vivo que deva ser mais importante para mim do que eu pr\u00f3pria.<\/p>\n

The last thing I\u2019m telling is that you should be self-centered or that you should completely disregard the needs and the desires of the person next to you. Just make sure not to disregard yourself in the process.<\/p>\n

4. That I\u2019m enough<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

When you enter a new relationship, you want to do everything possible for this person to like you more. That doesn\u2019t mean that you should change yourself for their sake or to be more lovable to them.<\/p>\n

What my failed relationships taught me is that I should never change for anyone. I am more than enough the way I am and anyone who can\u2019t accept the true me doesn\u2019t deserve a place in my life.<\/p>\n

Lembre-se, perder-se para atrair um homem \u00e9 a pior coisa que pode fazer! Porque se ele realmente a ama, aceitar\u00e1 todos os seus defeitos e qualidades. E nunca te far\u00e1 sentir que n\u00e3o \u00e9s suficiente.<\/p>\n

5. Que sou capaz de o fazer sozinho<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

Durante muito tempo, pensei que precisava de um homem para me completar. Pensava que era melhor estar com algu\u00e9m do que estar sozinha.<\/p>\n

Mas depois de in\u00fameras rela\u00e7\u00f5es falhadas, aprendi que nada disso \u00e9 verdade. Aprendi que consigo safar-me sozinha muito bem. Que a minha vida de solteira \u00e9 uma b\u00ean\u00e7\u00e3o que devo usar da melhor maneira poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n

I learned that I am an independent woman who can walk through life alone without needing any man to guide me. I learned that it\u2019s way better to be single than with the wrong man. And that I should permanecer solteiro at\u00e9 aparecer o homem certo<\/a>.<\/p>\n

6. Que sou mais forte do que toda a dor<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

When you get your heart broken and when the relationship you\u2019ve invested so much in breaks apart, you are positive that you\u2019ll break into pieces as well. But as time goes by, you see that you won\u2019t.<\/p>\n

With time, you see how strong you actually are and you realize everything you are capable of. And this is exactly what each one of my failed relationships has taught me. They made me see my strength and my bravery. They made me understand that there doesn\u2019t exist a man who can break me.<\/p>\n

They taught me that I\u2019m stronger than all the pain and stronger than everything that\u2019s been holding me down. Stronger than my past, stronger than all the men trying to put me down.
\nPor vezes, at\u00e9 me ensinaram que posso ser mais forte do que as minhas pr\u00f3prias emo\u00e7\u00f5es e mais forte do que eu pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

7. Que ningu\u00e9m te amar\u00e1 enquanto n\u00e3o te amares a ti pr\u00f3prio<\/strong><\/span><\/h1>\n

A \u00faltima, mas definitivamente n\u00e3o menos importante, coisa que as minhas rela\u00e7\u00f5es falhadas me ensinaram foi a import\u00e2ncia do amor-pr\u00f3prio. Fizeram-me perceber que deixar de amar a pessoa errada \u00e9 um ato de amor-pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

I grew to understand that sticking around someone who doesn\u2019t deserve you means you don\u2019t love yourself enough. It means that you subconsciously think you deserve this half-assed love you\u2019ve been getting.<\/p>\n

As minhas rela\u00e7\u00f5es falhadas fizeram-me perceber que ningu\u00e9m me pode apreciar ou respeitar at\u00e9 que eu pr\u00f3prio o fa\u00e7a. Que ningu\u00e9m me pode amar como eu quero ser amada at\u00e9 eu aprender a amar-me a mim pr\u00f3pria. <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Having your heart broken is always painful, there is no doubt about that. But if you are smart enough, you can turn every heartbreak into a valuable lesson. And that was exactly what I did. Instead of lamenting my past relationships, I\u2019ve allowed each one of them to teach me something about romance, love, and…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":22929,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22914","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/brunette-casual-curly-hair-458745.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22914","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22914"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22914\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/22929"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22914"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22914"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22914"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}