{"id":22932,"date":"2020-04-06T13:01:45","date_gmt":"2020-04-06T13:01:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22932"},"modified":"2022-01-28T00:15:09","modified_gmt":"2022-01-28T00:15:09","slug":"ela-esta-a-afasta-lo-porque-esta-a-tentar-proteger-o-seu-coracao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ela-esta-a-afasta-lo-porque-esta-a-tentar-proteger-o-seu-coracao\/","title":{"rendered":"Ela est\u00e1 a afast\u00e1-lo porque est\u00e1 a tentar proteger o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"

N\u00e3o, ela n\u00e3o \u00e9 insens\u00edvel. Eu sei que ela parece ser dura. E a verdade \u00e9 que ela \u00e9 muito mais forte do que se possa pensar.<\/p>\n

Mas, ao mesmo tempo, continua a ter uma rapariga sens\u00edvel e pequena escondida no seu \u00edntimo.<\/p>\n

You know, the truth is that this girl has been through a lot and she isn\u2019t ready to put up with you if you are not the man for her.<\/p>\n

She had her heart broken more than once and she was hurt multiple times in the past. But this doesn\u2019t mean she has ever allowed herself to take on the role of a victim.<\/p>\n

Em vez disso, tomou o assunto nas suas pr\u00f3prias m\u00e3os e decidiu que era a \u00fanica pessoa que se podia proteger.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ela percebeu que o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 a coisa mais preciosa do mundo e que ela \u00e9 a \u00fanica que o pode curar. A \u00fanica que pode garantir que nunca mais ser\u00e1 magoada.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Mas, no fundo, ela ainda tem medo de que o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o seja novamente partido. <\/strong><\/p>\n

E \u00e9 s\u00f3 por isso que ela construiu estas paredes grossas e altas \u00e0 sua volta. <\/strong>A \u00fanica raz\u00e3o ela tornou-se cautelosa<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ela est\u00e1 a afast\u00e1-lo porque est\u00e1 aterrorizada. Terror de amar novamente e ter o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o despeda\u00e7ado mais uma vez.<\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

She is doing it because she\u2019s used to being on her own. Because life has taught her that she shouldn\u2019t count on anyone and that people will betray her sooner or later.<\/p>\n

This girl will never give you a place in her life until she sees that you really deserve it. Because she\u2019s done settling for less.<\/p>\n

And because she\u2019d rather remain alone, in case you turn out to be a man who isn\u2019t right for her.<\/p>\n

You see, she doesn\u2019t plan on wasting years of her life, waiting for you to change. Waiting for you to see her true value and waiting for you to love her for real.<\/p>\n

This girl hasn\u2019t lost her faith in love. She just knows it is a risk and you\u2019ll have to try hard and prove it to her that it\u2019s a risk worth taking with you.<\/strong><\/p>\n

The truth is that deep down, she is afraid of getting too attached because she doesn\u2019t want to end up giving you her entire self while you don\u2019t give her anything back.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t want to be the only one putting all the effort in while you couldn\u2019t care less.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

She isn\u2019t letting you in because she doesn\u2019t believe you just yet. Because she is positive that you\u2019ll end up hurting her, the same way every other man in her life did.<\/p>\n

That you\u2019ll end up taking advantage of her love and that you\u2019ll just use her.<\/p>\n

She isn\u2019t showing you the depths of her heart and she isn\u2019t showing you her love because she is afraid that you won\u2019t love her back the way she expects to be loved. The way she deserves to be loved.<\/strong><\/p>\n

She isn\u2019t showing you her vulnerabilities and insecurities because she\u2019s been keeping them hidden inside for far too long. Because she doesn\u2019t want to give you a chance to use them against her.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t trust you because she had her trust violated multiple times before. She doesn\u2019t rely on you because she learned that she is the only person she can count on.<\/p>\n

This girl doesn\u2019t give you her entire heart because she is afraid that she\u2019ll end up losing herself if she does something like this once again.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Ela est\u00e1 a afast\u00e1-lo porque est\u00e1 a tentar defender-se. Est\u00e1 a tentar proteger os seus sentimentos, agindo como se n\u00e3o os tivesse.<\/p>\n

Tenta proteger-se de todas as l\u00e1grimas e de toda a dor emocional que lhe pode causar se ela o permitir.<\/p>\n

She isn\u2019t making you a priority because she is scared that you\u2019ll put her last.<\/p>\n

That you\u2019ll start taking her for granted and that you\u2019ll stop trying, the moment you see you have her. That you\u2019ll start thinking that she\u2019ll always stay by your side, no matter what. Because trust me\u2014she won\u2019t.<\/p>\n

Ela vai virar-lhe as costas no momento em que vir que n\u00e3o \u00e9 o homem que merece ficar com ela. No segundo em que vir que a est\u00e1 a maltratar.<\/p>\n

Ela vai afastar-se de si no momento em que notar uma falta de apre\u00e7o, uma falta de respeito ou uma falta de amor nesta rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Por outro lado, se provar-lhe que \u00e9 digno do seu amor<\/a> then trust me\u2014this girl will love you like no other. You just have to be patient.<\/p>\n

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No, she isn\u2019t heartless. I know she appears to be tough. And the truth is that she is way stronger than anyone might think. But at the same time, she still has this sensitive, little girl hidden deep inside of her. You know, the truth is that this girl has been through a lot and…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":56,"featured_media":89776,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29639],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-22932","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-women"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29639,"label":"understanding women"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/12\/She-Is-Pushing-You-Away-Because-She-Is-Trying-To-Protect-Her-Heart.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Katie Burns","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/katie\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29639,"name":"understanding women","slug":"understanding-women","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29639,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","parent":29638,"count":336,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29639,"category_count":336,"category_description":"Women are not that complicated once you learn to understand them, seduce them and treat them the way they deserve. Here you'll learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"understanding women","category_nicename":"understanding-women","category_parent":29638}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22932","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/56"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=22932"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/22932\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/89776"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=22932"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=22932"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=22932"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}