{"id":22945,"date":"2020-09-07T10:54:24","date_gmt":"2020-09-07T10:54:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=22945"},"modified":"2022-02-27T10:43:01","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T10:43:01","slug":"agora-sentes-a-falta-dela-mas-a-culpa-e-tua-por-a-teres-deixado-ir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/agora-sentes-a-falta-dela-mas-a-culpa-e-tua-por-a-teres-deixado-ir\/","title":{"rendered":"Agora tens saudades dela, mas a culpa \u00e9 tua por a teres deixado ir"},"content":{"rendered":"

Ela podia ter ficado para sempre. Ela queria. Ela queria amar-te para o resto da sua vida. Mas sabes o que fizeste? <\/strong><\/p>\n

Deixaste-a ir. Deixaste-a ir embora<\/a> from your life, and now, you\u2019re sorry.<\/strong><\/p>\n

You broke that one hell of a big heart of hers. You took it, and you shredded it to pieces. And she\u2019s not sorry you did that because she knows if you want to fully love, you have to be prepared to get your heart broken.<\/p>\n

Se queres amar com todo o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o, tens de te abrir e derrubar as tuas paredes. Tens de ser vulner\u00e1vel<\/a>e temos de confiar na pessoa que amamos.<\/p>\n

Ela fez tudo isso, e o tiro saiu pela culatra. Ela confiava no amor, mas o amor mordeu-a de volta.<\/strong><\/p>\n

This horrible feeling is exactly what happened to her when you let her go\u2014right then, that second, when she was standing at the front door with tears in her eyes looking at you and hoping you\u2019ll do something to keep her in your life.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o fizeste nada. Foi demasiado cobarde para fazer algo que a impedisse de partir.<\/p>\n

Agora tens saudades dela.<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n

And you have absolutely no right to. You could have turned what you had into something that lasts forever. You had that pure and beautiful love. It was right in front of you, but you didn\u2019t appreciate it. And that\u2019s why you didn\u2019t deserve it either.<\/p>\n

So, don\u2019t miss her because you\u2019re not worthy of missing her.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Now that she\u2019s gone, you\u2019ve realized what you had and chased away. It\u2019s only now that you don\u2019t have her anymore that you see how lucky you were when she was in your life.<\/p>\n

Agora v\u00eas como \u00e9 a tua vida sem ela, e agora percebes quanta alegria e felicidade ela te trouxe com o seu sorriso todos os dias.<\/p>\n

\"o<\/p>\n

Outro homem matar para ser o namorado dela<\/a>. Outro homem daria tudo s\u00f3 para a ter, e tu deitaste-a fora t\u00e3o facilmente.<\/p>\n

No, you don\u2019t have the right to miss her.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Now that she\u2019s gone, you\u2019ve realized that while you were together, she brought out the best in you. You were a better person thanks to her. And admit it, you loved it.<\/p>\n

You were happy and satisfied, and you didn\u2019t know why.<\/p>\n

But now that you\u2019ve lost her, you\u2019ve realized she is the reason why, and you have made the biggest mistake of your life.<\/p>\n

Ela era carinhosa e leal. Cuidava de ti e punha-te em primeiro lugar porque te amava.<\/p>\n

She knew that you were kind of messed up, so she let so many things slide. She forgave you so many times that you didn\u2019t even know she was angry.<\/p>\n

Ela guardou essas coisas para si porque queria dar-te uma oportunidade de te encontrares a ti pr\u00f3prio. Ela queria ajudar-te a tornares-te uma pessoa boa e carinhosa.<\/p>\n

You didn\u2019t know how to appreciate that. You didn’t know how to respect everything she did for you, and you\u2019ve lost it. Do you see how terrible your life is without her in it?<\/p>\n

V\u00eas o que poderias ter tido se tivesses mantido os olhos abertos, se n\u00e3o a tivesses tomado por garantida?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

You saw how real everything was getting, and you got cold feet. You got scared of life, scared of commitment. You refused to grow up, and you stayed the same. Now, you\u2019re sorry, and now you want it all back.<\/p>\n

\"o<\/p>\n

Guess what? You don’t deserve it!<\/em><\/p>\n

Devias ter pensado nisso quando ela estava fechada no seu quarto a sufocar em l\u00e1grimas e a perguntar porqu\u00ea. Devias ter pensado nela quando o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o gritava o teu nome, mas tudo em v\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Nunca a devias ter deixado sofrer daquela maneira. Nunca devias ter-te deixado ser a raz\u00e3o da sua dor.<\/p>\n

She\u2019s crossed you out of her life<\/a>, and she’ll never go back to you. You had your chance and you blew it.<\/p>\n

You regret it now, and you\u2019re sorry that you let her go. But, know this\u2014that won\u2019t bring her back. Nothing will bring her back.<\/p>\n

Ela magoou-se, curou-se e seguiu em frente.<\/p>\n

Tu, tu vais ficar preso no momento em que te apercebeste que deix\u00e1-la ir foi o maior erro que cometeste na tua vida.<\/p>\n

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\"Agora<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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