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<\/p>\nPode ser muito dif\u00edcil reconhecer se e quando voc\u00ea ou outra pessoa est\u00e1 a ser ego\u00edsta. Normalmente, quando uma pessoa se come\u00e7a a questionar e a perguntar, <\/b>Serei ego\u00edsta? <\/i><\/b>significa que j\u00e1 s\u00e3o ego\u00edstas h\u00e1 algum tempo (e n\u00e3o t\u00eam consci\u00eancia disso).<\/b><\/p>\n
Also, we often see our significant others in better lights than they actually are. We are vulnerable to selfish partners because we love them so much, and sometimes we can\u2019t think clearly.<\/p>\n
If you think that you (or someone close to you) might be selfish, below, you’ll find the <\/b>sinais de ego\u00edsmo<\/b> que todos <\/b>pessoas ego\u00edstas<\/b> t\u00eam em comum.<\/b> But before that, let’s first define what selfish behavior really is.<\/p>\nO que s\u00e3o comportamentos ego\u00edstas?<\/h2>\n
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Basically, selfish behavior means being concerned exclusively for oneself, one’s own needs, pleasure, advantage, etc. Como a palavra implica, o ego\u00edsmo \u00e9 o oposto do altru\u00edsmo (<\/b>altru\u00edsmo<\/b>).<\/b><\/p>\n
Ser ego\u00edsta significa n\u00e3o se preocupar com a forma como as outras pessoas se v\u00e3o sentir em rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e0s nossas decis\u00f5es, palavras e ac\u00e7\u00f5es. \u00c9 por isso que as pessoas ego\u00edstas tomam frequentemente decis\u00f5es impulsivas e evitam lidar com as consequ\u00eancias.<\/p>\n
Note-se que o ego\u00edsmo n\u00e3o \u00e9 a mesma coisa que <\/b>autocuidado<\/b>. <\/b>Praticar o autocuidado<\/a> significa colocar-se em primeiro lugar para o seu bem-estar, mas tamb\u00e9m ser atencioso, emp\u00e1tico e estar disposto a comprometer-se com os outros.<\/p>\n O comportamento ego\u00edsta pode estar ligado e\/ou ser causado por v\u00edcios, comportamento de controlo<\/a>, narcisismo<\/a>e inseguran\u00e7as numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Em suma, todas as vers\u00f5es do ego\u00edsmo baseiam-se em negligenciar os desejos e as necessidades dos outros, o que pode ser visto nos seguintes sinais de indiv\u00edduos ego\u00edstas.<\/p>\n A incapacidade ou falta de vontade de assumir compromissos, o comportamento manipulador e a falta de esfor\u00e7o s\u00e3o as principais caracter\u00edsticas dos indiv\u00edduos ego\u00edstas. Por vezes, estas caracter\u00edsticas s\u00e3o claramente vis\u00edveis, enquanto outras vezes, as coisas n\u00e3o s\u00e3o assim t\u00e3o simples.<\/p>\n Detecting selfish inclinations is the first step to dealing with them and improving your relationships with other people. With that said, below, you’ll find selfish traits explained in detail:<\/p>\n Being slightly selfish isn’t always a bad thing (especially when we’re talking about the need to have some “me time”). However, it can become a problem when someone becomes demanding and thinks only about their own interests.<\/p>\n Pessoas ego\u00edstas<\/b> always give the impression that it\u2019s their way or the highway. <\/b>By doing that, they’re taking advantage of others. Friendship or any type of relationship without compromise can never work.<\/p>\n Here’s an example of a <\/b>ato ego\u00edsta<\/b> numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o:<\/b><\/p>\n One partner always makes decisions for both of them regarding the places they go and things they do. They ignore their partner’s ideas or don\u2019t even want to listen to what they have to say.<\/p>\n Ser ignorado<\/a> numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 uma enorme bandeira vermelha, independentemente da sua origem. Por outras palavras, estar com uma pessoa ego\u00edsta que imp\u00f5e constantemente os seus modos ego\u00edstas ao seu parceiro \u00e9 uma receita para uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o infeliz e pouco saud\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n Os indiv\u00edduos ego\u00edstas t\u00eam esta necessidade de ter o controlo de tudo (especialmente quando se trata de rela\u00e7\u00f5es rom\u00e2nticas). They don’t allow others to express their opinions, make decisions, and so on.<\/b> Porqu\u00ea?<\/p>\n Because they love being in control of their own life, their partner’s life, and basically everyone else’s life. By doing that, selfish people damage their loved one’s mental health.<\/p>\n If we’re going to look at it from a psychological <\/b>ponto de vista<\/b>, sendo um <\/b>man\u00edaco por controlo<\/b> est\u00e1 muitas vezes intimamente ligado a uma profunda <\/b>quest\u00f5es de confian\u00e7a<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n Por exemplo, se algu\u00e9m j\u00e1 foi tra\u00eddo anteriormente (ou magoado por outros de qualquer outra forma), tornar-se-\u00e1 cauteloso em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a quem confiar no futuro.<\/p>\n This overly precautious behavior can turn into legit control-freak behavior. So, that’s when they become selfish, not because they want to hurt the other person, but because they want to protect themselves.<\/p>\n Este tipo de pessoas (leia-se: pessoas ego\u00edstas) s\u00e3o capazes de manipular n\u00e3o s\u00f3 pessoas aleat\u00f3rias, mas tamb\u00e9m os seus melhores amigos, amigos \u00edntimos e at\u00e9 familiares. S\u00e3o egoc\u00eantricas, mentirosos compulsivos<\/a>e n\u00e3o se preocupa com os outros, tanto nas redes sociais como na vida real.<\/p>\n A sua necessidade de manipula\u00e7\u00e3o baseia-se no seu comportamento orientado para objectivos e na obten\u00e7\u00e3o do que querem a qualquer custo.<\/b><\/p>\n A Dra. Nina Brown, no Psychology Today, explica este facto da seguinte forma:<\/p>\n \u201cVery self-absorbed people are clear in their minds as to what they want or need whether this occurs in the moment or longer term. It is not necessary for them to articulate their wants or needs so that others understand their goal or objective, and indeed, if asked, they may not be able to do so or want to verbalize this. However, <\/i>o seu comportamento \u00e9 orientado para um objetivo, e a sua aten\u00e7\u00e3o e ac\u00e7\u00f5es centram-se em conseguir o que querem, independentemente do custo ou do desconforto de qualquer outra pessoa.<\/i><\/b>“<\/i><\/p>\n Ent\u00e3o, ser honesto consigo pr\u00f3prio<\/a> when trying to answer the question, \u201cAm I selfish?\u201d Do you see any similarities (manipulative tendencies) in your behavior? Do you prioritize your goals over other people’s happiness and well-being?<\/p>\n Tal como a palavra implica, o ego\u00edsmo significa estar apenas concentrado em si pr\u00f3prio e obter coisas com o m\u00ednimo ou nenhum esfor\u00e7o. Indiv\u00edduos ego\u00edstas<\/b> querem TUDO, e querem-no AGORA. <\/b>They don’t care about the possible consequences or how their actions affect other people.<\/p>\n I know this very well because I’ve been in a relationship with a selfish person, resulting in me experiencing severe ansiedade na rela\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a> e desenvolver um estilo de liga\u00e7\u00e3o ambivalente<\/a>.<\/p>\n Por isso, tenho algumas coisas a partilhar convosco para vos ajudar a compreender melhor:<\/b><\/p>\n \u2022 When someone doesn\u2019t put in the effort to make things work, that\u2019s an obvious sign they’re not interested or engaged in a relationship.<\/p>\n \u2022 That kind of attitude tells you they probably don\u2019t have serious plans for the future.<\/p>\n \u2022 If only one side is investing time, energy, and even money, you know there is something wrong.<\/p>\n \u2022 Behavior like this is a clear sign that the person you\u2019re dating is immature, irresponsible, and selfish.<\/p>\n If you’re with a <\/b>pessoa ego\u00edsta,<\/b> and they don’t bother giving you their best, why should you?<\/b> This is something I should’ve asked myself a long time ago, but I guess it’s never too late.<\/p>\n Selfish people don’t understand the need to compromise and be a part of a team. Teamwork means listening and validating other people’s desires and ideas, which is something selfish individuals aren’t ready to do.<\/p>\n Em vez disso, desejam concentrar-se apenas em si pr\u00f3prios e em atingir os seus objectivos.<\/b> Given that teamwork is an essential part of every relationship, people who aren’t team players will have difficulty establishing a healthy relationship with their partners.<\/p>\n Sempre que se pergunta, Serei ego\u00edsta? <\/i>think about whether you’re a team player or more of an independent player ignorant of other people’s needs, goals, and wishes.<\/p>\n If you hate teamwork, there must be a reason you’re not fond of it.<\/b> Pensa que a \u00fanica forma correcta \u00e9 a sua e que o facto de fazer parte da equipa n\u00e3o lhe permitiria implement\u00e1-la? Bem, pense nisso.<\/p>\n Selfish individuals never apologize because they lack self-awareness. They are not even aware of their selfish actions because, in their minds, they’re doing the right thing. Here’s what I’ve learned about dealing with <\/b>pessoas ego\u00edstas<\/b> que nunca pedem desculpa:<\/b><\/p>\n \u2022 If you try talking to them about it, they’ll grab the focus and leave you wondering why you even bothered approaching them in the first place.<\/p>\n \u2022 They will also call you out on ser sens\u00edvel<\/a>.<\/p>\n \u2022 If someone is not able to admit their mistakes or doesn\u2019t even see them, you might be dealing with a very egoistic or pessoa narcisista<\/a>. Este tipo de comportamento ego\u00edsta \u00e9 sempre um sinal de alerta.<\/p>\n Does this sound familiar to you? Do you find it difficult to apologize when you hurt someone or make a mistake? Do you always think that you’re right and others should apologize to you instead?<\/i><\/p>\n Se a resposta for sim a todas as perguntas anteriores, ent\u00e3o sabe a resposta \u00e0 pergunta principal Serei ego\u00edsta?<\/i> \u00e9 um sim direto<\/b>.<\/p>\n Keep in mind that we all make mistakes, but apologizing after we\u2019ve said or done something hurtful or offensive should be a rule.<\/p>\n A selfish kind of person protects their own self-interests, which means generosity and selflessness aren’t in their vocabulary. Concentre-se em si pr\u00f3prio sem se sentir culpado<\/i><\/a> is their motto. Don’t get me wrong.<\/p>\n There’s nothing wrong with focusing on yourself, but if that’s the only thing you’re focused on, you might have a problem with self-centered <\/b>tra\u00e7os de personalidade<\/b> (<\/b>ego\u00edsmo mau<\/b>).<\/b><\/p>\n Isto tamb\u00e9m inclui ser ego\u00edsta na cama<\/a>O princ\u00edpio de dar e receber n\u00e3o \u00e9 algo que devamos tomar como garantido. O princ\u00edpio de dar e receber n\u00e3o \u00e9 algo que devamos tomar como garantido.<\/p>\n Se se aperceber que tem um problema em dar, pense na psicologia que est\u00e1 por detr\u00e1s disso:<\/b><\/p>\n Do you have difficulty putting yourself in someone else’s shoes, empathizing with them, and focusing on their happiness?<\/i><\/p>\n Est\u00e1 orientado para si pr\u00f3prio, ou seja, apenas concentrado em tirar tudo o que pode sem dar nada em troca?<\/i><\/p>\n Se receber \u00e9 a \u00fanica coisa que o pode fazer feliz e dar o faz sentir-se infeliz, ent\u00e3o sabe que tem tend\u00eancias ego\u00edstas.<\/p>\n Selfish people use sweet words just in case they need something from you. Most of their communication is negative or neutral because they don\u2019t feel like they need to make you feel better.<\/p>\n Se estiveres a lidar com algu\u00e9m que quase sempre s\u00f3 te diz coisas negativas e te culpa por tudo, isso pode ser um sinal de problemas verbais e <\/b>abuso emocional<\/b><\/a>.<\/b> Numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o saud\u00e1vel, n\u00e3o deve haver lugar para julgamentos e cr\u00edticas constantes.<\/p>\n As pessoas ego\u00edstas nunca se esquivam de falar nas tuas costas<\/a>, either. They don’t really care about how this will make other people feel as long as they’re “having fun” while gossiping.<\/p>\n They don’t understand the consequences of negative communication because they seldom think about it.<\/b> They’re primarily concerned with how they feel at the moment and not about how their choice of words impacts others.<\/p>\n Se se identifica com alguma destas situa\u00e7\u00f5es, ent\u00e3o deve definitivamente reavaliar o seu comportamento.<\/p>\n Am I selfish? Well, selfishness can manifest in many different forms, and one of them is disrespecting other people’s time. A selfish person doesn’t bother showing up on time or valuing other people’s time in other circumstances.<\/p>\n Al\u00e9m disso, pensam que as outras pessoas s\u00e3o obrigadas a estar ao seu lado sempre que precisam delas. <\/b>The problem here is that they aren’t ready to give the same treatment in return.<\/p>\n Se me perguntarem, o tempo \u00e9 a moeda mais valiosa, porque nunca se pode recuperar nada. Quem me dera saber isto antes de deixar que uma pessoa ego\u00edsta brincasse com os meus sentimentos, me fizesse esperar e enviasse sinais contradit\u00f3rios.<\/p>\n If you’re doing the same thing to others, then I’ll repeat: It’s time to re-evaluate your behavior and start practicing selflessness.<\/p>\n Selfish people don\u2019t recognize the hard work someone is putting into a relationship. Even though you\u2019re exhausted from giving so much of yourself, they never appreciate it because it\u2019s never enough for them.<\/p>\n Parceiros ego\u00edstas (a <\/b>esposa ego\u00edsta<\/b><\/a> ou um <\/b>marido ego\u00edsta<\/b><\/a>) will always require more than their partners can give, even though they don\u2019t try at all.<\/b><\/p>\n If someone never expresses gratitude for nice things you do all the time, then you\u2019re dealing with a very selfish individual who is always only about satisfying their needs. So, one of the biggest decis\u00f5es que mudam a vida<\/a> seria proteger-se deles.<\/p>\n No entanto, se pertence ao grupo dos ego\u00edstas e exige constantemente mais das pessoas que lhe s\u00e3o pr\u00f3ximas, pare por um momento e pense na validade das suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es ego\u00edstas.<\/p>\nSou ego\u00edsta? 10 tra\u00e7os de pessoas ego\u00edstas<\/h2>\n
1. Tudo tem de estar nas suas condi\u00e7\u00f5es<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n2. S\u00e3o loucos por controlo<\/h3>\n
3. A manipula\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 o seu passatempo favorito<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n4. Raramente (ou nunca) se esfor\u00e7am<\/h3>\n
5. Detestam o trabalho em equipa<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n6. As pessoas ego\u00edstas nunca pedem desculpa<\/h3>\n
7. N\u00e3o s\u00e3o generosas nem generosas de todo<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n8. A maior parte da comunica\u00e7\u00e3o com eles \u00e9 negativa ou neutra<\/h3>\n
9. They never value other people’s time<\/h3>\n
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<\/p>\n10. Nada do que fa\u00e7as \u00e9 suficiente para eles<\/h3>\n
Considera\u00e7\u00f5es finais<\/h2>\n