{"id":23024,"date":"2020-07-10T11:35:02","date_gmt":"2020-07-10T11:35:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=23024"},"modified":"2022-04-22T01:18:12","modified_gmt":"2022-04-22T01:18:12","slug":"6-coisas-para-o-fazer-perceber-que-nao-o-quer-de-volta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-coisas-para-o-fazer-perceber-que-nao-o-quer-de-volta\/","title":{"rendered":"6 coisas para o fazer compreender que n\u00e3o o quer de volta"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Quando o seu ex-namorado lhe passa pela cabe\u00e7a, o que tem acontecido com demasiada frequ\u00eancia ultimamente, sente-se nost\u00e1lgica. Sente a falta dele e tem a certeza de que \u00e9 com ele que quer estar, apesar de tudo o que aconteceu entre voc\u00eas os dois.<\/p>\r\n<p>Well, it\u2019s time to start doubting your own feelings when it comes to this guy. Because there is a huge possibility that you only think you miss him and that you\u2019ve only convinced yourself you still have feelings for him.<\/p>\r\n<p>There is a huge possibility that you actually don\u2019t <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/quero-tanto-o-meu-ex-de-volta-que-ate-doi\/\">querer o seu ex de volta<\/a> na sua vida, e aqui est\u00e3o 6 coisas para o ajudar a compreender isso por si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\r\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">1. You don\u2019t love him\u2014you just got used to him<\/span><\/h1>\r\n<p>A verdade \u00e9 que este homem \u00e9 a sua zona de conforto, da qual tem medo de sair, embora seja exatamente isso que deve fazer. Habituou-se a ele e esta rela\u00e7\u00e3o representa algo familiar para si, apesar de toda a sua negatividade.<\/p>\r\n<p>Pensa que ama este homem, mas na verdade ele \u00e9 apenas um velho h\u00e1bito que tem dificuldade em mudar. Enquanto pensa que est\u00e1 a desejar o seu ex, na verdade est\u00e1 a desejar esta sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de familiaridade que ele lhe tem dado.<\/p>\r\n<p>Deep down, you don\u2019t want to get back on the dating market, and you don\u2019t feel like letting someone new into your life. So the best possibility for you would be to come back to this guy. After all, you know that to expect from him, and you know how things would turn out this time.<\/p>\r\n<p>Trust me on\u2014going back to someone just because you got used to them and the sense of belonging they gave you is one of the worst things you can ever do to yourself.<\/p>\r\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">2. Ele \u00e9 o mesmo homem que era<\/span><\/h1>\r\n<p>Quando pensa em voltar para o seu namorado, no fundo espera que desta vez as coisas sejam diferentes. Esperas que ele mude.<\/p>\r\n<p>But the truth is that he won\u2019t. You need to understand that this guy is the same man he was and that the of you will have all the same differences and problems if you get back together.<\/p>\r\n<p>Nothing has miraculously changed in your personalities and between the two of you just because you\u2019ve taken some time apart.<\/p>\r\n<p>Yes, it is likely that you will have a honeymoon phase when you get back together, but things will soon go back as they were. After all, you broke up for a reason, didn\u2019t you?<\/p>\r\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">3. You don\u2019t miss him\u2014you only miss having a boyfriend<\/span><\/h1>\r\n<p>If you\u2019ve been in a long term relationship, you\u2019ve gotten used to having a romantic partner. And this is what you actually miss. You miss this sense of belonging and partnership which you had while you were in a relationship.<\/p>\r\n<p>This means that you are actually scared of your single life. What you don\u2019t know is that this can be the time of your life if you just learn to embrace it and focus on taking the best of it.<\/p>\r\n<p>This can be a time in which you focus on yourself instead of on your partner. A time in which you understand that you actually don\u2019t need a man to be happy and that you are a complete person on your own.<\/p>\r\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">4. S\u00f3 se concentra nas belas recorda\u00e7\u00f5es<\/span><\/h1>\r\n<p>Quando olhamos para algo em retrospetiva, tendemos a concentrar-nos nos bons momentos e a afastar as m\u00e1s recorda\u00e7\u00f5es, porque s\u00e3o essas que queremos esquecer.<\/p>\r\n<p>E \u00e9 exatamente isso que faz quando se trata do seu ex. Esqueceu-se de todas as l\u00e1grimas que chorou por ele, e s\u00f3 se lembra de como ele a fazia sorrir. Esqueceu-se de todas as vezes que discutiram e s\u00f3 se lembra dos momentos felizes.<\/p>\r\n<p>You focus on the beautiful memories that the two of you had together and on this guy\u2019s qualities while you completely disregard his flaws.<\/p>\r\n<p>Ver a sua \u00faltima rela\u00e7\u00e3o atrav\u00e9s de \u00f3culos de sol cor-de-rosa faz com que ela pare\u00e7a tentadora. V\u00ea-a melhor do que realmente foi e \u00e9 natural que queira ter essa vers\u00e3o idealizada de volta.<\/p>\r\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">5. Tem medo de se sentir s\u00f3<\/span><\/h1>\r\n<p>It is natural to feel a little bit lonely and empty after you end a relationship. But that doesn\u2019t mean that you miss or love your ex.<\/p>\r\n<p>It just means that this feeling is unfamiliar to you, and it scares you. But what you don\u2019t know is that being single and alone isn\u2019t as same as being lonely.<\/p>\r\n<p>Remember\u2014you are more than enough for yourself. Besides, I\u2019m sure there are other people in your life who you deeply care about besides your ex and these are exactly the people you should focus on to help you fill this void.<\/p>\r\n<h1><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">6. O teu ego est\u00e1 ferido<\/span><\/h1>\r\n<p>There are times when you don\u2019t want to have someone back in your life because you really think they deserve to be there. Sometimes, you feel heartbroken but actually the only thing which is hurt is your ego.<\/p>\r\n<p>E n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada de errado em sentir-se assim.<\/p>\r\n<p>It\u2019s quite simple\u2014you want to prove to yourself that you can always have this person, who was once yours, back. You want to prove to yourself that you still have an impact on this guy and that you are still important in his life. <!--codes_iframe--><!--\/codes_iframe--><\/p>\r\n\r\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-41121\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/herway.net-13.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/herway.net-13.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/herway.net-13-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/herway.net-13-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When your ex boyfriend crosses your mind, which has been happening a little too often lately, you feel nostalgic. You miss him, and you are sure that he is the one you want to be with, despite everything that has happened between the two of you. Well, it\u2019s time to start doubting your own feelings&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":13,"featured_media":23029,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29628],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-23024","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dealing-with-breakup"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29628,"label":"dealing with breakup"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/beth-solano-313648.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"April Callaghan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/april\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29628,"name":"dealing with breakup","slug":"dealing-with-breakup","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29628,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Breakups are painful but worry not; you don't need to go through all of it alone. 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