{"id":23172,"date":"2020-06-12T09:10:15","date_gmt":"2020-06-12T09:10:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=23172"},"modified":"2022-01-20T15:41:11","modified_gmt":"2022-01-20T15:41:11","slug":"tudo-o-que-preciso-e-de-um-homem-que-se-preocupe-comigo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/tudo-o-que-preciso-e-de-um-homem-que-se-preocupe-comigo\/","title":{"rendered":"Tudo o que preciso \u00e9 de um homem que se preocupe comigo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>N\u00e3o acredito que ainda acredito no amor depois de tudo o que passei, mas acredito. Acredito que ele est\u00e1 algures l\u00e1 fora para mim. S\u00f3 que ainda n\u00e3o me encontrou.<\/p>\n<p>And just because I believe in love, it doesn\u2019t mean I am not scared of it at the same time. Every time I gave my heart to someone, they would only return it more scattered than before.<\/p>\n<p>Para ser sincero, estou farto disto. Parece que estou a bater numa parede de tijolo e a minha vida amorosa n\u00e3o vai a lado nenhum. Estou a andar em c\u00edrculos intermin\u00e1veis com homens que s\u00f3 me fazem perder tempo.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>The universe isn\u2019t paying attention. I said I want a man who actually gives a shit about me, not a man who treats me like shit. There is a huge difference.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>By now, all I experienced was lousy treatment, men who didn\u2019t know what they wanted from life\u2014let alone me\u2014the ones that give their all at first and suddenly pull away, the ones that aren\u2019t ready.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96215\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-man-outdoor-on-street-having-relationship-problems.jpg\" alt=\"Retrato de uma mulher jovem e de um homem ao ar livre na rua com problemas de relacionamento\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-man-outdoor-on-street-having-relationship-problems.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-man-outdoor-on-street-having-relationship-problems-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/Portrait-of-young-woman-and-man-outdoor-on-street-having-relationship-problems-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>To be honest, I am sick of it. That\u2019s why I decided to be clearer about what I want from a man. I decided it\u2019s time to change my bad taste in men and wait for someone who cares about me.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>I need a man who can\u2019t imagine the whole day passing without hearing from me.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/enquanto-tu-estavas-demasiado-ocupado-a-nao-te-importares-ela-desistiu-de-ti\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Ningu\u00e9m est\u00e1 demasiado ocupado<\/a> para enviar mensagens ou telefonar pelo menos uma vez por dia. Demora apenas alguns minutos, mas significa muito. Significa que ele est\u00e1 a pensar em si. Significa que ele est\u00e1 pronto para investir na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o. Significa que ele se preocupa.<\/p>\n<p>I can\u2019t make excuses anymore for men who forget all about me as soon as I leave their sight. I refuse to allow anyone who doesn\u2019t make even a tiny bit of effort to waste my time.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Preciso de um homem que esteja a arder com o desejo de me ver.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>I hate that feeling when somebody is \u201cmeh\u201d about you. I want someone who will miss me when he doesn\u2019t see me for a while. I want to feel my bones almost breaking from his hug.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96214\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-catching-woman-in-hug.jpg\" alt=\"homem que apanha mulher num abra\u00e7o\" width=\"800\" height=\"530\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-catching-woman-in-hug.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-catching-woman-in-hug-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-catching-woman-in-hug-768x509.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>I want a passionate kiss \u2018hello\u2019 and at least a smooch \u2018goodbye\u2019. I need a man who is sure about his feelings. I can\u2019t handle half commitments and flakiness. I need a real man who is all in.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Preciso de um homem que me d\u00ea mais do que palavras.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve had my fair share of empty words, false promises and \u201cI love you\u2019s\u201d which were never backed up with actions. Hearing things doesn\u2019t mean anything when you can feel it.<\/p>\n<p>I will value a man who shows me that he loves me more than the one who only talks about love. I want to feel like I am living in a dream because he treats me so well I can\u2019t believe it\u2019s real.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Preciso de um homem que note que estou em baixo e que fa\u00e7a o seu melhor para me levantar.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>No, I don\u2019t need a hero. I have been my own hero for a long time now. I just need a man who will be observant. Who won\u2019t leave when he sees how upset I am.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96213\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-comforting-to-crying-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem a consolar uma mulher a chorar\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-comforting-to-crying-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-comforting-to-crying-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/man-comforting-to-crying-woman-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Who will stand right by my side even when he doesn\u2019t know what to say? I need a man who will listen and understand.<\/p>\n<p>Que diz uma piada para me fazer sorrir por um momento. Eu faria o mesmo por ele.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Preciso de um homem que esteja disposto a resolver os problemas e n\u00e3o a p\u00f4-los debaixo do tapete.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>I want somebody who is ready to talk things out after every argument. Someone who doesn\u2019t turn his back on me and gives me the cold shoulder.<\/p>\n<p>I need somebody who doesn\u2019t blame me for everything and understands that our problems shouldn\u2019t be bigger than our love for each other. We can get through anything if we are both ready to work on it.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Preciso de um homem que goste de mim por mim.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96212\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/a-smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man.jpg\" alt=\"uma mulher sorridente a olhar para um homem\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/a-smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/a-smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/a-smiling-woman-looking-at-a-man-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Preciso de <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nunca-mudam-para-um-homem-a-nao-ser-que-estas-5-coisas-comecem-a-acontecer\/\">a man who won\u2019t try to change me<\/a>. Preciso de algu\u00e9m que goste de mim tal como sou. Ele \u00e9 o \u00fanico que saber\u00e1 lidar com os meus defeitos e apreciar as minhas virtudes.<\/p>\n<p>He will proudly hold my hand and won\u2019t hesitate to tell the world that I am someone special to him. He will never put me down. He will be the one who gives me the push I need to be even better.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>Preciso de um homem que se importe comigo.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Only then all the things I listed above will go smoothly. It will all flow naturally. He will make an effort, I will make an effort, and we\u2019ll find each other halfway.<\/p>\n<p>Em vez de ser a \u00fanica a dar o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o, corpo e alma na rela\u00e7\u00e3o, tudo ser\u00e1 rec\u00edproco. Eu vou esperar por ele, e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/por-favor-nao-te-contentes-com-alguem-com-quem-nao-era-suposto-estares\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">I won&#8217;t settle for anything less<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-96210\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/All-I-Need-Is-A-Man-Who-Actually-Gives-A-Shit-About-Me-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Tudo o que preciso \u00e9 de um homem que se preocupe comigo\" width=\"735\" height=\"1102\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/All-I-Need-Is-A-Man-Who-Actually-Gives-A-Shit-About-Me-Pinterest.jpg 735w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/All-I-Need-Is-A-Man-Who-Actually-Gives-A-Shit-About-Me-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/All-I-Need-Is-A-Man-Who-Actually-Gives-A-Shit-About-Me-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 735px) 100vw, 735px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I can\u2019t believe I still believe in love after all that I have been through, but I do. I believe it\u2019s somewhere out there for me. It just hasn\u2019t found me yet. And just because I believe in love, it doesn\u2019t mean I am not scared of it at the same time. Every time I&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":96211,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29621],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-23172","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-healthy-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29621,"label":"healthy relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/All-I-Need-Is-A-Man-Who-Actually-Gives-A-Shit-About-Me.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29621,"name":"healthy relationship","slug":"healthy-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29621,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","parent":29620,"count":254,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29621,"category_count":254,"category_description":"Explore this part of our site to learn how to recognize and nourish healthy patterns in your relationships and let go of the negative ones with ease.","cat_name":"healthy relationship","category_nicename":"healthy-relationship","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23172","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=23172"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23172\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/96211"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=23172"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=23172"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=23172"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}