{"id":23189,"date":"2020-06-12T10:34:42","date_gmt":"2020-06-12T10:34:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=23189"},"modified":"2022-06-21T00:01:13","modified_gmt":"2022-06-21T00:01:13","slug":"uma-carta-para-a-rapariga-que-ja-nao-acredita-no-amor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/uma-carta-para-a-rapariga-que-ja-nao-acredita-no-amor\/","title":{"rendered":"Uma carta para a rapariga que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o acredita no amor"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b><i>Ol\u00e1, mi\u00fada,<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>I know why you clicked on this article. You want to see that there is someone else who doesn\u2019t believe in love anymore, just like you.<\/p>\n<p>Quer ver que n\u00e3o est\u00e1 sozinho, que n\u00e3o \u00e9 estranho e que outros tiveram azar como voc\u00ea.<\/p>\n<p>Porque mesmo que seja t\u00e3o triste quando o amor morre e quando deixamos de acreditar nele, de alguma forma fica melhor quando vemos outra pessoa a passar por tudo o que pass\u00e1mos.<\/p>\n<p>Mesmo que tenhas pena de todas essas pessoas <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/e-por-isso-que-ela-nao-acredita-que-a-amas\/\">who don\u2019t believe<\/a> no amor, sente-se melhor por n\u00e3o estar sozinho em tudo isto.<\/p>\n<p>Suponho que lhe aconteceu algo muito mau e que, por causa disso, deixou de acreditar no amor.<\/p>\n<p>Talvez ele tenha sido o seu primeiro amor e tenha escolhido outra mulher. Talvez ele fosse a menina dos seus olhos, mas nunca a colocou em primeiro lugar. Talvez voc\u00eas os dois nunca estivessem destinados a ficar juntos. Seja qual for a raz\u00e3o, sente-se como est\u00e1 agora.<\/p>\n<p>Sente-se como se estivesse <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/caracteristicas-do-quebrantamento\/\">completamente avariado<\/a> e como se ningu\u00e9m pudesse fazer nada para o curar.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93327\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/portrait-of-thoughtful-women-leaning-against-street.jpg\" alt=\"retrato de mulheres pensativas encostadas \u00e0 rua\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/portrait-of-thoughtful-women-leaning-against-street.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/portrait-of-thoughtful-women-leaning-against-street-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/portrait-of-thoughtful-women-leaning-against-street-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You think that love won\u2019t come into your life anymore and that you are just so unlovable.<\/p>\n<p>You simply can\u2019t shake off all those negative thoughts in your head, and they consume you in the way you never believed they could.<\/p>\n<p>You feel that the way you think rules the life you run, and you can\u2019t do anything about that. And it gets worse and worse from day to day.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Mas espera.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Just because you had one bad love experience doesn\u2019t mean that all men are the same. Just because you ran into a jerk who broke your heart doesn\u2019t mean that every other man who comes along will do the same thing.<\/p>\n<p>Please bear in mind that good things don\u2019t happen overnight. And be prepared that you will have to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/7-coisas-que-nao-o-vao-assustar-se-ele-for-a-pessoa-certa\/\">esperar pela pessoa certa<\/a> para entrar na tua vida e mostrar-te como o amor pode ser belo.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Don\u2019t give up on love so easily.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93328\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/sad-woman-on-a-bench-park-thinking.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste num banco de jardim a pensar\" width=\"800\" height=\"545\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/sad-woman-on-a-bench-park-thinking.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/sad-woman-on-a-bench-park-thinking-300x204.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/sad-woman-on-a-bench-park-thinking-768x523.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t make walls around your heart, so nobody can win you over. Don\u2019t close your eyes in front of the blessings that heaven sends you. Maybe happiness is in front of your nose, but you don\u2019t see it.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why you need to change your perspective. You need to change your outlook on life because nothing is what it looks like.<\/p>\n<p>I know that you have been hurt and that there are deep scars on your heart, but what is the point of having a heart if you won\u2019t use it?<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Vais viver a tua vida sem amor s\u00f3 por causa de uma m\u00e1 experi\u00eancia?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Vai sentir falta de todas as manh\u00e3s abra\u00e7ada com o homem da sua vida? Vai sentir falta dos seus beijos, abra\u00e7os e palavras de amor?<\/p>\n<p>Are you going to miss every \u2018I love you\u2019 from his mouth when you are going through a rough period of your life? And the happy ones too?<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Vai apenas <\/i><\/b><b><i>desistir <\/i><\/b><b><i>t\u00e3o facilmente rapariga?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93329\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/sad-woman-on-grass-field.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste num campo relvado\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/sad-woman-on-grass-field.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/sad-woman-on-grass-field-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/sad-woman-on-grass-field-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Desistir do amor, dos momentos de felicidade e alegria, de todas as vezes que se perde o f\u00f4lego por causa das suas palavras cheias de amor e carinho?<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Diz-me, um homem errado vale a pena n\u00e3o arriscar no homem certo?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Queres dar prazer ao homem errado para te ver em baixo? Ser\u00e1 que ele merece ver que fechaste o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o ao amor verdadeiro por causa dele?<\/p>\n<p>Let me answer this question for you: He doesn\u2019t!<\/p>\n<p>Just because he broke you doesn\u2019t mean that you can\u2019t be glued together. Just because<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/carta-ao-namorado-a-expressar-sentimentos-de-magoa\/\"> ele feriu os seus sentimentos<\/a> doesn\u2019t mean you can\u2019t find happiness again.<\/p>\n<p>E s\u00f3 porque <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/a-verdade-e-que-ele-nao-esta-emocionalmente-destrocado-e-apenas-um-idiota\/\">ele \u00e9 um idiota<\/a> doesn\u2019t mean others will be like that, too.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why I want to show you how much you will lose if you continue behaving like that.<\/p>\n<p>Acredita em mim, ningu\u00e9m quer ficar sozinho a vida inteira sem amor, sem algu\u00e9m para fazer os seus dias, e sem algu\u00e9m que o ame incondicionalmente.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93330\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-lake.jpg\" alt=\"mulher triste sentada \u00e0 beira do lago\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-lake.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-lake-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/sad-woman-sitting-by-the-lake-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why I want to tell you that you should wake up. Wake up from that depression you got stuck into.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Wake up and live\u2014that is your purpose after all.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Just because others didn\u2019t give you love doesn\u2019t mean that you shouldn\u2019t give it to someone else. Just because your heart has been broken doesn\u2019t mean you shouldn\u2019t use it anymore.<\/p>\n<p>And just because you failed the first time doesn\u2019t mean you should give up on the next one.<\/p>\n<p>Acredito em ti, e sei que por detr\u00e1s daquela menina pequena e assustada, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/nao-magoes-uma-boa-mulher-so-porque-tens-medo-de-te-comprometeres\/\">h\u00e1 uma mulher<\/a> com o cora\u00e7\u00e3o de uma leoa que est\u00e1 pronta para assumir o controlo total da sua vida.<\/p>\n<p>I know that you can do so much more than you think. And every time you stop believing in yourself, I will be here to give you that wind to your back. I will always be there to tell you that you should try and that you don\u2019t have anything to lose.<\/p>\n<p>Eu serei o forte quando tu fores fraco, e nunca te deixarei desistir. Porque o amor \u00e9 uma coisa demasiado bela para se desistir dele.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93331\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/Emotional-portrait-of-the-beautiful-brunette.jpg\" alt=\"Retrato emotivo da bela morena\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/Emotional-portrait-of-the-beautiful-brunette.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/Emotional-portrait-of-the-beautiful-brunette-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/Emotional-portrait-of-the-beautiful-brunette-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You will realize that if you just open your heart a bit, You will see how blessed you can be with the right one. If you give a love a shot, you won\u2019t feel like the last time.<\/p>\n<p>Desta vez, ver\u00e1s como \u00e9 o verdadeiro amor. Quando o homem certo aparecer, ele vai trazer de volta a sua f\u00e9 no amor. Ele vai fazer-te sentir como nunca te sentiste antes.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>E ser\u00e1 a melhor sensa\u00e7\u00e3o para si.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p>E quando isso acontecer, espero que se lembrem das minhas palavras <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/o-que-o-estilo-de-caricias-dele-diz-sobre-os-seus-sentimentos-por-si\/\">enquanto se abra\u00e7a<\/a> nos seus bra\u00e7os de manh\u00e3 cedo, a sorrir de prazer. Espero que sejas finalmente feliz e que sintas a paz interior por teres dado a ti pr\u00f3prio uma nova oportunidade.<\/p>\n<p><b><i>Mi\u00fada, espero que te sintas orgulhosa de ti pr\u00f3pria por seres suficientemente forte para dares uma segunda oportunidade ao amor.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Eu sei que estou.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Com amor,<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><i>Aquele que um dia perdeu a f\u00e9 no amor<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-93325\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/A-Letter-To-The-Girl-Who-Doesnt-Believe-In-Love-Anymore-Pinterest-1.jpg\" alt=\"Uma carta para a rapariga que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o acredita no amor\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/A-Letter-To-The-Girl-Who-Doesnt-Believe-In-Love-Anymore-Pinterest-1.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/A-Letter-To-The-Girl-Who-Doesnt-Believe-In-Love-Anymore-Pinterest-1-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Hey girl, I know why you clicked on this article. You want to see that there is someone else who doesn\u2019t believe in love anymore, just like you. You want to see that you are not alone, that you are not weird and that others have had bad luck just like you. Because even if&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":93326,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-23189","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/A-Letter-To-The-Girl-Who-Doesnt-Believe-In-Love-Anymore.jpg",800,532,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. 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