Women are terrified to compete with each other, according to a recent study. For real, and in an unhealthy way. When women are pitted against each other in the workplace, they freeze. They\u2019re unsure how to respond, and experience heightened levels of stress and anxiety which leads to a sloppy, incomplete and haphazard output. The same response is not evident when women are pitted against men or when men are up against other men.<\/p>\n
Ok, porque \u00e9 que isto acontece? Porque \u00e9 que as mulheres t\u00eam medo de competir? Ou, a verdadeira quest\u00e3o aqui \u00e9 como \u00e9 que as mulheres competem?<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n As mulheres lidam com as situa\u00e7\u00f5es de forma diferente dos homens. Podem deparar-se com as mesmas circunst\u00e2ncias e reagir de uma forma completamente diferente das pessoas do sexo oposto. Por vezes, as suas reac\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o muito mais complicadas.<\/p>\n Men have no fear. They will go aggressively and territorially after each other, no-holds barred. Women who are vying for the same professional positions or social seats compete in a more underhanded way\u2014through manipulative and passive-aggressive tactics. They want to appear friendly while knocking each other out\u2026 figuratively.<\/p>\n Since women are also more emotionally in-tune with themselves, it\u2019s important to be able to trust one\u2019s instincts. This means, if you believe that \u2018friend\u2019 of yours is out to get something you have, you\u2019re probably right. A intui\u00e7\u00e3o deve prevalecer<\/strong> outward perceptions of any particular situation you\u2019re contemplating.<\/p>\n Many times, we talk about \u2018going with our gut\u2019 or \u2018trusting our instincts\u2019. This is important. It\u2019s our internal self\u2019s way of screaming, \u2018Something\u2019s not right here!\u2019 If someone\u2019s body language doesn\u2019t match what\u2019s coming out of their mouth, observar os seus movimentos e n\u00e3o os seus l\u00e1bios.<\/strong><\/p>\n As mulheres s\u00e3o mais suscept\u00edveis do que os homens de fazer amizade com os seus inimigos. E far\u00e3o de tudo para garantir que s\u00e3o confidentes de confian\u00e7a antes de exporem os seus verdadeiros motivos.<\/p>\n The moral of the story is this\u2014if you have something you\u2019re eager to keep to yourself, make sure you don\u2019t let your guard down too easily. It\u2019s best to wade in the waters for a bit while this alliance is still new to ensure you stay protected.<\/p>\n Of course, we can\u2019t live in fear of having our deepest secrets revealed or being unable to confide in someone else. As mulheres s\u00e3o criaturas sociais.<\/strong> It\u2019s important to develop lasting, trusted friendships with those of the same sex, and be able to rest, knowing your secrets are safe.<\/p>\n It\u2019s simply important to listen to your own inner voice first. And, realize when you may be on to something before it\u2019s too late. Everyone gives off energy\u2014positive or negative. Some are harder to read than others, but this just means we have to listen more closely, be more open.<\/p>\n Most women would prefer to work in environments with men rather than with other females. Why? Because the stress of having to compete in a complex way is eliminated. Not only that, but if a woman is surrounded by colleagues of the opposite sex, she suddenly becomes the center of attention. Everything she says or does is great, and if not, it\u2019s okay. She\u2019s allowed to make mistakes without permanently wearing a sign on her forehead.<\/p>\n The pressure is off when you\u2019re let off the hook. But, the silent competition that exists in a room full of women is exhausting and distracting. Even in situations in which the focus needs to be entirely on the task at hand, the whole room fills with catty chit-chat and sly tactics to plow each other over on the way to the top.<\/p>\n The real question is\u2014what\u2019s the big deal, anyway? Why do women do this to each other?<\/strong><\/p>\n Se todos fossem t\u00e3o genu\u00ednos e am\u00e1veis como a imagem que tentam projetar para os outros, o mundo seria um lugar melhor. As mulheres deixariam de se sentir pressionadas a competir ou a ser melhores do que a pessoa que est\u00e1 sentada ao seu lado.<\/p>\n Reflicta um pouco sobre a realidade desta afirma\u00e7\u00e3o. Soa-lhe a verdade? Est\u00e1 a competir silenciosamente com todos os outros?<\/strong> Ou tem a auto-confian\u00e7a para se manter de p\u00e9 e lutar por aquilo em que acredita, independentemente das consequ\u00eancias?<\/p>\n You see, the funny thing is\u2014women fazer<\/em> compete. We\u2019re all trapped by our own insecurities and we\u2019re all looking for that one person who isn\u2019t to guide us out of this cage, so we can finally be comfortable in our own skin.<\/p>\n Porque \u00e9 que continuamos a competir e a procurar essa seguran\u00e7a exterior quando dever\u00edamos estar a olhar para dentro de n\u00f3s? Chegue a um ponto em que possa confiar na sua pr\u00f3pria intui\u00e7\u00e3o sobre si pr\u00f3prio, sobre os outros e sobre as circunst\u00e2ncias que o rodeiam, porque confia em si pr\u00f3prio.<\/strong> E, nada mais importa.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Women are terrified to compete with each other, according to a recent study. For real, and in an unhealthy way. When women are pitted against each other in the workplace, they freeze. They\u2019re unsure how to respond, and experience heightened levels of stress and anxiety which leads to a sloppy, incomplete and haphazard output. 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