{"id":23290,"date":"2020-05-14T06:33:40","date_gmt":"2020-05-14T06:33:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=23290"},"modified":"2021-08-12T12:38:06","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T12:38:06","slug":"ele-vai-arrepender-se-de-ter-perdido-a-mulher-que-esperou-que-ele-se-recompusesse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/ele-vai-arrepender-se-de-ter-perdido-a-mulher-que-esperou-que-ele-se-recompusesse\/","title":{"rendered":"Ele vai arrepender-se de ter perdido a mulher que esperou que ele se recompusesse"},"content":{"rendered":"

Eu sei o que ele est\u00e1 a pensar! Ele est\u00e1 a pensar: \"Ela \u00e9 uma boa mulher; ela vai perdoar-me, vai trabalhar para ultrapassar isto. Outra vez.\"<\/p>\n

Well, I wouldn\u2019t agree with that. Women are not quite like that.<\/p>\n

He thinks that she\u2019ll give him chance after a chance and keep putting up with his shit until he gets it together.<\/p>\n

She won\u2019t sacrifice her life waiting for him to \u2018find himself\u2019, to figure out what he wants. She\u2019s not an idiot.<\/p>\n

She doesn\u2019t hate herself, and she doesn\u2019t want to punish herself by waiting on a man who doesn\u2019t know what he wants.<\/p>\n

She needs someone who is sure about her. Someone who won\u2019t think twice when it comes to her. She needs it, and she deserves it.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Sabes que mais? A vida n\u00e3o \u00e9 um filme e nada acontece como nos filmes.<\/p>\n

Ela apaixona-se por ele; ele deixa-a porque ela \u00e9 demasiado para ele no momento; ele est\u00e1 a tentar encontrar-se a si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

Ent\u00e3o, ela sofre e ama-o ainda, e depois quando ele decide voltar, quando tem uma epifania, ela salta para os seus bra\u00e7os, e vivem felizes para sempre.<\/p>\n

Hate to say it like this, but women today don\u2019t buy that crap. They can give you a chance or two, but if you blow it, they are gone.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 \u00f3bvio que ele pensou de forma diferente, e a consequ\u00eancia disso \u00e9 estar magoado e arrependido de a ter deixado partir. Infelizmente para ele, nada do que fizer a trar\u00e1 de volta.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Women can really take a lot and put up with almost everything when they are in love. I know because I\u2019ve been there, and I\u2019ve done that.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

When a woman falls in love, she doesn\u2019t expect a man to be a done project, and, let\u2019s say, a wrapped package ready to be unfolded.<\/p>\n

Ela sabe que ele vai dar muito trabalho, mas apaixonou-se por ele porque viu potencial.<\/p>\n

Ela viu o tipo de homem que ele podia ser e ofereceu-se para o ajudar a crescer e a tornar-se uma pessoa melhor. Porque ela sabe que ele consegue, se se esfor\u00e7ar um pouco mais.<\/p>\n

Ela ofereceu o seu amor incondicional. Ofereceu-se para o apoiar, mas ele aproveitou-se disso como a maioria dos homens faz.<\/p>\n

Why can\u2019t there be someone who\u2019ll take this chance and become better? Why aren\u2019t <\/em>l\u00e1 men who\u2019ll see that the woman they are dating is the best thing that ever happened to them?<\/em><\/p>\n

Why does it always have to end up with her broken heart and him regretting he acted like a piece of shit? Only then, it\u2019s too late to bring her back because she doesn\u2019t care anymore.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

She\u2019s learned her lesson.<\/p>\n

As mulheres suportam tanto quando se trata de homens.<\/p>\n

Porque \u00e9 que acha que a maior parte delas se mant\u00e9m em rela\u00e7\u00f5es abusivas? Porque \u00e9 que algu\u00e9m no seu perfeito ju\u00edzo aguentaria manipula\u00e7\u00f5es e jogos mentais<\/a>?<\/p>\n

Bem, algumas mulheres acreditam. Algumas delas t\u00eam tanta paci\u00eancia e acreditam tanto que ele vai mudar.<\/p>\n

Investem as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es e a sua sanidade mental na tentativa de o ajudar e de o trazer para o caminho certo.<\/p>\n

Usually this doesn\u2019t end well, and it leaves her broken, on the verge of completely falling apart.<\/strong><\/p>\n

And for what? For trying to help someone be a better person. And that\u2019s her reward?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

The truth is, when a man screws up chance after a chance, she will leave without looking back. Because, when a woman is done, she\u2019s done. There is no way back.<\/p>\n

She will miss him, but she won\u2019t come back to him. She is way smarter than that. And when this happens, when he realizes that his life was so much better with her in it, he\u2019ll want her back.<\/em><\/p>\n

He\u2019ll want her back, and he\u2019ll try to do anything to succeed. He\u2019ll change. He\u2019ll become more responsible.<\/p>\n

He\u2019ll basically do everything she\u2019s been asking for so long. But that isn\u2019t going to cut it. Nothing he does will make her change her mind.<\/p>\n

No one in their right mind would come back to something they\u2019ve fought to run away from.<\/p>\n

S\u00f3 uma pessoa completamente louca voltaria a correr para a mentira, a manipula\u00e7\u00e3o e a falsifica\u00e7\u00e3o de promessas.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Usually, when men face this kind of emotional obstacle, they begin blaming their failures of getting back the women they\u2019ve lost on something else completely.<\/p>\n

Eles consolam-se dizendo que ela nunca foi a mulher certa para eles. Se fosse para ser, ela teria ficado.<\/p>\n

But deep down, they know it\u2019s not true.<\/p>\n

Agora que est\u00e1 sozinho, v\u00ea o quanto ela valia. Ele apercebeu-se que ela estava l\u00e1 para ele quando ele atingiu o fundo do po\u00e7o.<\/p>\n

Ela estava l\u00e1 para ele quando ele precisava de apoio e de um ombro para chorar.<\/p>\n

Ele nunca respeitou isso e nunca viu o esfor\u00e7o que ela estava a fazer.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Every other woman he meets will never live up to her. Those future women will never be remotely close to the one he didn\u2019t appreciate.<\/p>\n

Any other will only love him at his best, but when the problems come rushing in and when things aren\u2019t that great, she\u2019ll leave him because she doesn\u2019t love him enough to stay.<\/p>\n

In those moments, he\u2019ll be so sorry that he let her go. In those moments, he\u2019ll realize what he had and what he lost.<\/strong><\/p>\n

If you like Maria\u2019s work, check out her new book, \u201cOn Getting Over A Narcissist\u201d<\/a> <\/em><\/p>\n

\"Ele<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I know what he\u2019s thinking! He\u2019s thinking, \u201cShe\u2019s a good woman; she\u2019ll forgive me, she\u2019ll work to get through this. Again.\u201d Well, I wouldn\u2019t agree with that. Women are not quite like that. He thinks that she\u2019ll give him chance after a chance and keep putting up with his shit until he gets it together….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":89147,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29618],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-23290","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-moving-on"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29618,"label":"moving on"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/He-Will-Regret-Losing-The-Woman-Who-Waited-For-Him-To-Get-His-Shit-Together.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29618,"name":"moving on","slug":"moving-on","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29618,"taxonomy":"category","description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","parent":38,"count":200,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29618,"category_count":200,"category_description":"When nothing else works - inspiring stories about moving on are bound to help you let go of people and situations you never thought you could live without.\r\n","cat_name":"moving on","category_nicename":"moving-on","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23290","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=23290"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23290\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/89147"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=23290"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=23290"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=23290"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}