{"id":23306,"date":"2020-06-14T08:03:31","date_gmt":"2020-06-14T08:03:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=23306"},"modified":"2021-08-12T06:38:45","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T06:38:45","slug":"mereces-ter-saudades-dela","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/mereces-ter-saudades-dela\/","title":{"rendered":"Mereces sentir a falta dela"},"content":{"rendered":"

Tinhas uma mulher para amar. Tinhas aquela que estava disposta a fazer tudo por ti - sacrificar a sua felicidade, negligenciar os seus desejos e seguir-te no teu caminho.<\/p>\n

Ela at\u00e9 o ajudou a atingir os seus objectivos, empurrando-o para a frente porque era demasiado pregui\u00e7oso para fazer algo da sua vida.<\/p>\n

Ela amava-o como se nunca tivesse amado ningu\u00e9m<\/a> antes, e ela mostrou-vos isso todos os dias.<\/p>\n

She gave herself all in to something that didn\u2019t have a label from the beginning. She gave all her hopes and all her love to someone who couldn\u2019t even put a label on that relationship.<\/p>\n

Mas ela estava satisfeita. Nunca disse nada sobre isso porque se preocupava mais consigo do que com o seu estado de relacionamento.<\/p>\n

E<\/strong> esse foi o seu primeiro grande erro.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\"uma<\/p>\n

Ela era algu\u00e9m que aceitava todas as suas promessas vazias de que um dia casaria com ela, e esperava ansiosamente por isso.<\/p>\n

Nunca lhe passou pela cabe\u00e7a que a estava a usar para conseguir o que queria.<\/p>\n

Ela nunca pensou que estivesses com ela s\u00f3 at\u00e9 aparecer uma vers\u00e3o melhor de ti mesma. Ela estava loucamente apaixonada e acreditou cegamente em ti. Esse foi o seu segundo erro.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Ela era uma mulher que conhecia todos os teus segredos obscuros e que te aceitava com eles.<\/p>\n

Ela sabia que tu tens bagagem<\/a>, but it wasn\u2019t a problem for her to embrace you and every problem that you had, handling it all as if it were one of her own.<\/p>\n

She gave you love and respect, but she saw that you weren\u2019t giving anything in return.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Then, trying to win you back, she totally lost herself over a man who couldn\u2019t care less for her. E esse foi o seu terceiro e maior erro.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

After that mistake, she wasn\u2019t the same women anymore. She was just a shell of the person she once was. Now, there isn\u2019t any fire left in her eyes anymore.<\/p>\n

There isn\u2019t energy in her, nor will for life. She doesn\u2019t smile anymore like she used to. She doesn\u2019t feel happy because she is dead from the inside.<\/p>\n

Her heart got broken into pieces so small that they can\u2019t be glued together. In her head, there is only an echo of all those bad things you said to her. And they are on repeat all the time.<\/p>\n

No seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o, h\u00e1 tantas emo\u00e7\u00f5es<\/a> she doesn\u2019t know what to do with.<\/p>\n

She would like to scream to feel better, but she is too numb to even do that. That\u2019s how much you fucked her up.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

E mesmo que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o estejas com ela, ela continua a sofrer por tua causa.<\/p>\n

Because realizing that you gave all of yourself to someone who couldn\u2019t care less for you is mind fucking.<\/p>\n

And it makes you lose your temper in a second. That\u2019s why I wouldn\u2019t suggest that you try to find her.<\/p>\n

Podemos simplesmente olhar para ela \u00e0 dist\u00e2ncia e comermo-nos todos os dias por termos perdido a coisa mais preciosa que t\u00ednhamos.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t deserve to kiss her. You don\u2019t deserve to hug her. You don\u2019t deserve to be close to her. You just deserve to miss her. And to keep doing that for the rest of your life.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Mereces passar por tudo o que ela passou.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Mereces chorar at\u00e9 adormecer porque a pessoa que amas continua a magoar-te. Mereces ser negligenciado como fizeste com ela.<\/p>\n

Mereces que te partam o cora\u00e7\u00e3o e que sintas a mesma dose de dor que ela sentiu quando a deixaste. Nem mais nem menos, mas a mesma quantidade de dor.<\/p>\n

E tenho a certeza que vos vai doer como nada at\u00e9 agora. Ser\u00e1 a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o mais intensa que alguma vez sentiste. E a mais dolorosa.<\/p>\n

E quando passares por tudo o que a fizeste passar, espero que aprendas uma li\u00e7\u00e3o. Espero que aprendas como n\u00e3o tratar uma mulher.<\/p>\n

Espero que percebas que, mesmo que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o estejas com ela, ela continua a sofrer.<\/p>\n

Ainda h\u00e1 noites em que ela chora. H\u00e1 noites em que ela grita.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

H\u00e1 noites em que ela morre, rodeada pela sua dor<\/a>. That\u2019s how much harm you did to the woman who just wanted to be yours.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Mas, com o passar do tempo, aperceber-se-\u00e1 de que ela era a \u00fanica pessoa que o poderia ter salvo de si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

Vais arrepender-te de ter perdido a rapariga que te amava mais do que a si pr\u00f3pria.<\/p>\n

Acabar\u00e1s por ficar sozinho porque tentar\u00e1s encontr\u00e1-la em todas as mulheres que conheceres, mas nunca a encontrar\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

E sabem porqu\u00ea?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Because karma is a bitch! It will never give you another shot to be with her, but it won\u2019t let you forget about her either. It will just constantly remind you of her.<\/p>\n

Por isso, sentir\u00e1s a sua falta todos os dias para o resto da tua vida.<\/p>\n

Porque \u00e9 isso que mereces. E nada menos do que isso.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

\"Mereces<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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