{"id":23332,"date":"2018-09-14T11:51:34","date_gmt":"2018-09-14T11:51:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=23332"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:04:43","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:04:43","slug":"nao-fiques-surpreendido-quando-ela-comecar-a-jogar-os-teus-jogos","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nao-fiques-surpreendido-quando-ela-comecar-a-jogar-os-teus-jogos\/","title":{"rendered":"N\u00e3o fiques surpreendido quando ela come\u00e7ar a jogar os teus jogos"},"content":{"rendered":"

Pensas que \u00e9s a \u00fanica que estabelece as regras nesta rela\u00e7\u00e3o? O \u00fanico a quem \u00e9 permitido fazer jogos mentais e enviar <\/b>sinais contradit\u00f3rios<\/b><\/a>?<\/b><\/p>\n

You think you are the only one who has the right to vanish from this girl\u2019s life whenever you feel like it? The one who can come crawling back every time you want to have her back? The only one who can ignore this girl and slide into her calls and texts when you want some of her attention?<\/span><\/p>\n

You assume that you are the one who is allowed to live the life of a bachelor while she patiently waits for you? That you are the one who can flirt with other girls and expect her to stay loyal to you? The one who doesn\u2019t want to put a label on your relationship but you expect her to be fully committed to whatever is going on between the two of you?<\/span><\/p>\n

Well, think again. Because trust me\u2014two can play this game.<\/b><\/p>\n

A verdade \u00e9 que esta rapariga gosta de ti. Ela gosta muito de ti. A verdade \u00e9 que ela se apaixonou por ti e que pensou que eras algu\u00e9m com quem ela podia realmente estar. <\/span><\/p>\n

And if you treat her right and if you give her the love and attention she deserves then trust me\u2014you\u2019ll see how much this girl has to offer. You\u2019ll see that you are actually blessed for having her in your life.<\/span><\/p>\n

But just because she has a huge heart, that doesn\u2019t mean that she will chase you. Just because she cares for you, it doesn\u2019t mean that she will be stupid enough to put up with you not treating her the way she deserves.<\/b><\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean that she\u2019ll beg for you to be with her and it definitely doesn\u2019t mean that she\u2019ll allow you to disrespect her or her time. She won\u2019t allow you to humiliate her in any way because she knows her worth.<\/span><\/p>\n

The truth is that this girl won\u2019t tolerate your shitty behavior. She will give you a taste of your own medicine as soon as she sees that you are trying to play with her mind and heart.<\/span><\/p>\n

But she won\u2019t play your games just to get even with you. She won\u2019t do it to make you realize what you\u2019ve lost or to make you chase her. She won\u2019t ignore you just to get your attention.<\/span><\/p>\n

She will do it because she has high standards and because she isn\u2019t ready to settle for someone not treating her right or someone trying to put her down.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"N\u00e3o<\/p>\n

Ela f\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 para te mostrar que s\u00f3 jogaste contra ti pr\u00f3prio quando tentaste jogar com ela. F\u00e1-lo-\u00e1 para te mostrar que \u00e9 capaz de vencer um jogador no seu pr\u00f3prio jogo.<\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s pretty simple\u2014this girl will never be in a one-way relationship in which she is the only one trying and the only one putting in all the effort. <\/span>She won\u2019t prioritize you while you keep treating her like your backup plan and <\/b>segunda op\u00e7\u00e3o<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

She won\u2019t cancel her plans every time you remember that she exists in your life. She won\u2019t sit at home, waiting for you to unexpectedly call, asking her to hang out. She won\u2019t disregard her own life just so she could always be available for you.<\/span><\/p>\n

She won\u2019t answer your text the moment you send it, after you\u2019ve been ignoring her for days. She won\u2019t answer your late-night call, after you\u2019ve pretended like she didn\u2019t exist while you were sober. She won\u2019t be putting all of her energy into this relationship, while you couldn\u2019t care less about it.<\/span><\/p>\n

And she definitely won\u2019t give you her love while you treat her like shit.<\/b> She won\u2019t waste her time on some emotionally immature jerk who isn\u2019t ready to give her what she wants, needs or deserves. She won\u2019t allow you to break her heart because she knows you are not worth it.<\/span><\/p>\n

So don\u2019t act all surprised when <\/b>ela come\u00e7a a jogar os seus jogos<\/b><\/a>.<\/b> Don\u2019t be shocked when she cancels your plans at the last minute, when she tells you she is too busy to hang out, when she starts ignoring your texts or when she disappears from your life without a word. <\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get mad when she starts putting you last and treating you the way you\u2019ve been treating her all along because you are the one who caused her to behave this way. And you are the one who has to deal with the consequences of your actions.<\/b> <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

You think that you are the only one setting the rules in this relationship? The only one allowed to play mind games and to send mixed signals? You think you are the only one who has the right to vanish from this girl\u2019s life whenever you feel like it? The one who can come crawling…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":23341,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-23332","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/rob-potter-398564-unsplash-2.jpg",800,497,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23332","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=23332"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/23332\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/23341"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=23332"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=23332"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=23332"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}