{"id":23398,"date":"2020-05-17T07:43:17","date_gmt":"2020-05-17T07:43:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=23398"},"modified":"2022-01-14T10:52:49","modified_gmt":"2022-01-14T10:52:49","slug":"7-razoes-pelas-quais-ele-nao-quer-se-apegar-emocionalmente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/7-razoes-pelas-quais-ele-nao-quer-se-apegar-emocionalmente\/","title":{"rendered":"7 raz\u00f5es pelas quais ele n\u00e3o quer se apegar emocionalmente"},"content":{"rendered":"

The first thing you have to know is that you\u2019re not alone. You’re not the first and you won\u2019t be the last woman to encounter an emocionalmente indispon\u00edvel<\/a> homem e magoar-se.<\/p>\n

Today, this is more and more frequent. Maybe it\u2019s because the dating world has become too fast and too available. You can have literally anything you want in a short period of time.<\/p>\n

Basta olhar para o Tinder e outras aplica\u00e7\u00f5es de encontros. Os encontros tornaram-se insignificantes e algo que deve ser ultrapassado.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why men and women don\u2019t appreciate dating anymore. We don\u2019t even bother getting to know someone better.<\/p>\n

\"Casal<\/p>\n

If he or she doesn\u2019t work for us in the first hour or two, we move on because we know another one is just around the corner.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why women and men are more and more emotionally unavailable.<\/p>\n

Abrir o cora\u00e7\u00e3o e deixar a vulnerabilidade de lado n\u00e3o vale a pena.<\/p>\n

Embora todos n\u00f3s sejamos emocionalmente indispon\u00edveis, alguns estudos mostram que os homens s\u00e3o mais propensos a ser emocionalmente inseguros do que as mulheres.<\/p>\n

Why is that? Why is it that every guy you\u2019re interested in doesn\u2019t want to get emotionally attached?<\/strong><\/p>\n

He\u2019s self-centered<\/h2>\n

\"Um
\nHe\u2019s a bit selfish and the reason he can\u2019t emotionally attach to you, or pretty much anyone, is because he loves himself too much and there is no love left for anyone else.<\/p>\n

He is not evil, he doesn\u2019t do it on purpose. He doesn\u2019t want to hurt you intentionally.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s just who he is. He has prioritized things in his life and he has put himself first, then a few spots are blank and then other things and people can be considered.<\/p>\n

This is both good and bad. It\u2019s good because rarely anyone can hurt him. If you don\u2019t care for anyone, you can\u2019t get hurt.<\/p>\n

But it\u2019s bad because he\u2019ll end up alone. He\u2019ll get old and when he does, he\u2019ll be sorry that he pushed everyone out of his life.
\nEle \u00e9 um jogador<\/p>\n

Ele \u00e9 um jogador<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Ele mant\u00e9m-se emocionalmente afastado de si porque ele \u00e9 um jogador<\/a>. He isn\u2019t serious about you and that\u2019s why he avoids committing.<\/p>\n

Se lhe pedir para definir o que se passa entre voc\u00eas os dois, ele evitar\u00e1 dar-lhe a resposta.<\/p>\n

Homens como ele enviam constantemente mensagens contradit\u00f3rias. Num dia, est\u00e3o em cima de si, trazem-lhe flores e compram-lhe doces e, no dia seguinte, n\u00e3o est\u00e3o em lado nenhum.<\/p>\n

Se ele age desta forma, \u00e9 prov\u00e1vel que seja um jogador que nunca se vai ligar emocionalmente a si ou a qualquer outra pessoa.<\/p>\n

He can\u2019t admit he\u2019s wrong<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Maduro<\/a> men know to say when they are sorry. They know that if they\u2019ve made a mistake they have to answer for it and deal with the consequences.<\/p>\n

Mas este gajo age completamente ao contr\u00e1rio. Ele age como uma crian\u00e7a porque \u00e9 um homem-crian\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t want to admit he is wrong because it\u2019ll hurt his ego. A man like that can never get emotionally attached.<\/p>\n

Because when you\u2019re in a relationship, you have to make compromises and you have to admit when you\u2019re wrong.<\/p>\n

That way you\u2019re showing respect to your partner and you\u2019re taking their feelings into consideration.<\/p>\n

Ele \u00e9 um perfeccionista<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

He can\u2019t get emotionally attached because there will always be something about you that won\u2019t suit him.<\/p>\n

Ele quer que actueis de acordo com as suas regras, de acordo com o que ele pensa ser correto.<\/p>\n

Anything other than that bothers him because he thinks it\u2019s not perfect.<\/p>\n

Nothing can ever be perfect but the thing is, he doesn\u2019t understand that.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t get that his behavior is not perfect either and that everyone makes mistakes, including him.<\/p>\n

He can\u2019t see that maybe he has done something that bothers you but you got past that because you\u2019re a mature person.<\/p>\n

O passado j\u00e1 o tinha mordido uma vez<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Ele j\u00e1 foi magoado antes, no passado. Teve uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o que falhou e isso afectou-o.<\/p>\n

Provavelmente, ele amava aquela rapariga, mas n\u00e3o estavam destinados a ficar juntos. Provavelmente, ele abriu-se com ela e ela magoou-o.<\/p>\n

Once you get hurt, it\u2019s hard to start believing in love again. This is especially true when it comes to men.<\/p>\n

Ser abandonado \u00e9 a pior coisa que pode acontecer ao seu ego. Se isso acontecer, prometem a si pr\u00f3prios n\u00e3o voltar a passar por algo do g\u00e9nero.<\/p>\n

O resultado \u00e9 que se fecham por dentro e nunca se ligam emocionalmente, mesmo quando querem.<\/p>\n

Teve uma inf\u00e2ncia dif\u00edcil<\/h2>\n

\"rapaz<\/p>\n

A nossa inf\u00e2ncia molda o nosso futuro. Somos um produto de coisas que aconteceram no nosso passado.<\/p>\n

If your childhood was a happy one, you won\u2019t be traumatized, you won\u2019t have medos subconscientes irracionais<\/a>.<\/p>\n

But if you\u2019ve been traumatized like he probably was, then you\u2019ll struggle with that for the rest of your life.<\/p>\n

Foi ferido emocionalmente, ou n\u00e3o teve emo\u00e7\u00f5es quando era crian\u00e7a e o resultado disso \u00e9 que se recusa a ligar-se emocionalmente ou a dar a algu\u00e9m a m\u00ednima hip\u00f3tese de o magoar.<\/p>\n

Ele \u00e9 inseguro<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Ele tentar\u00e1 sair da rela\u00e7\u00e3o nas fases iniciais s\u00f3 para ver se voc\u00ea se importa o suficiente para o perseguir e tentar reconquist\u00e1-lo. \u00c9 isto que a inseguran\u00e7a dele faz com ele.<\/p>\n

His insecurity will make him test you how much you really like him and then he\u2019ll start emotionally pulling back, leaving you to wonder if there was something you did wrong and if you chased him away.<\/p>\n

But it was never you\u2014from the beginning, it was always him and the fact that he doesn\u2019t want to get emotionally attached.<\/p>\n

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