{"id":23427,"date":"2019-09-17T09:03:12","date_gmt":"2019-09-17T09:03:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=23427"},"modified":"2022-05-09T00:20:43","modified_gmt":"2022-05-09T00:20:43","slug":"e-um-reflexo-do-seu-amor-por","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-um-reflexo-do-seu-amor-por\/","title":{"rendered":"O seu esfor\u00e7o \u00e9 um reflexo do seu amor por ti"},"content":{"rendered":"

J\u00e1 alguma vez esteve numa situa\u00e7\u00e3o em que deu todo o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o a algu\u00e9m que n\u00e3o podia retribuir? <\/strong><\/p>\r\n

In a situation where you invested all of your energy into a relationship with someone who wasn\u2019t giving you anything back?<\/strong><\/p>\r\n

J\u00e1 alguma vez esteve \u00e0 espera que algu\u00e9m colocasse o esfor\u00e7o<\/a> para te mostrar que se preocupava contigo? <\/strong><\/p>\r\n

J\u00e1 alguma vez se agarrou a algu\u00e9m, sabendo que devia deix\u00e1-lo ir e sabendo que essa pessoa nunca lhe daria o amor de que precisava?<\/strong><\/p>\r\n

Well, I have and I can tell you it is one of the worst feelings in the world. You keep trying with a guy who tells you he loves you but who acts like he couldn\u2019t care less about you.<\/p>\r\n

You keep prioritizing someone who doesn\u2019t give you a place in his life.<\/p>\r\n

E em vez de receber o seu amor, continua a receber desculpas e justifica\u00e7\u00f5es esfarrapadas. Continuas a receber telefonemas a altas horas da noite e pedidos de desculpa.<\/p>\r\n

Continua a receber falsas promessas de que as coisas v\u00e3o melhorar e que ele a ama.<\/p>\r\n

Em vez de ac\u00e7\u00f5es, recebemos palavras vazias.<\/p>\r\n

If you\u2019ve ever found yourself going through something like this, let me give you a piece of advice\u2014if he acts like he doesn\u2019t care about you<\/a>Comece a acreditar nele.<\/p>\r\n

Esque\u00e7a as coisas que ele lhe est\u00e1 a dizer, esque\u00e7a as falsas esperan\u00e7as que ele lhe est\u00e1 a dar. Concentre-se no esfor\u00e7o que ele est\u00e1 a fazer por si. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n

Porque o seu esfor\u00e7o \u00e9 o \u00fanico reflexo do seu amor por ti.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n

A energia que ele coloca nesta rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 um reflexo do seu interesse por si. O tempo e a paci\u00eancia que ele dedica a si \u00e9 um reflexo dos seus sentimentos por si. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n

Detesto ter de vos dizer isto, mas tudo o resto s\u00e3o tretas.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n

And this is the last thing you deserve from anyone. You don\u2019t need to waste your time chasing some guy who doesn\u2019t know what he wants.<\/p>\r\n

You don\u2019t need to be waiting for anyone to choose you and to come to his senses. You don\u2019t need to be caring for someone who is leading you on and who can\u2019t give you his entire self.<\/p>\r\n

You don\u2019t need to be giving your entire heart to someone who can give you only half of his.<\/p>\r\n

Por favor, compreender o seu valor<\/a> and walk away from this man who clearly doesn\u2019t deserve you. Stop putting first someone who doesn\u2019t have the decency to put you at the top of his priority list.<\/p>\r\n

Deixar de arranjar tempo para algu\u00e9m que est\u00e1 sempre demasiado ocupado<\/a> para ti. P\u00e1ra de te preocupares com um tipo que s\u00f3 se ama a si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\r\n

Em vez de o escolher, escolha-se a si pr\u00f3pria. Em vez de o amares, come\u00e7a a amar-te a ti pr\u00f3pria como deves.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n

E, em vez de tentar encontrar os lados bons e as qualidades dele, concentre-se no seu pr\u00f3prio valor.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n

It\u2019s time for you to start appreciating your own time, energy and efforts. And it\u2019s time for you to stop wasting it on the wrong people who will never reciprocate and who will never respect everything you\u2019ve done for them.<\/p>\r\n

Porque n\u00e3o \u00e9s a segunda melhor e tens de perceber isso. Precisas de um homem que s\u00f3 tenha olhos para ti.<\/p>\r\n

A man who won\u2019t be giving you just crumbs of his love.<\/p>\r\n

Um homem que lhe dar\u00e1 toda a sua aten\u00e7\u00e3o em todos os momentos.<\/p>\r\n

Um homem que nunca te far\u00e1 duvidar das suas inten\u00e7\u00f5es. Um homem que saber\u00e1 apreciar-te e que ficar\u00e1 mais do que feliz por te ter na sua vida.<\/p>\r\n

Mereces um homem que te d\u00ea todo o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\r\n

E talvez n\u00e3o o saibas agora, mas esse homem anda por a\u00ed e vai entrar na tua vida. E ele vai fazer-te compreender que tudo o resto era apenas contentar-se com menos<\/a>.<\/p>\r\n

So, stop settling for less and stop holding on to someone who isn\u2019t enough. See yourself for who you really are and see your true value. <\/strong><\/p>\r\n

P\u00e1ra de te preocupares com esse tipo e segue a tua vida, como se ele nunca tivesse existido.<\/strong><\/p>\r\n

Porque \u00e9 exatamente isso que ele merece e \u00e9 isso que deve a si pr\u00f3pria.<\/p>\r\n\r\n

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