{"id":23549,"date":"2020-09-18T08:25:47","date_gmt":"2020-09-18T08:25:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=23549"},"modified":"2022-06-10T12:19:10","modified_gmt":"2022-06-10T12:19:10","slug":"10-maneiras-de-lidar-com-um-marido-traidor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-maneiras-de-lidar-com-um-marido-traidor\/","title":{"rendered":"10 maneiras de lidar com um marido traidor"},"content":{"rendered":"

The feeling of rejection, of being replaced by someone else because you are no longer enough, is devastating. It can kill your marriage, tear the two of you apart, erasing every feeling and memory that you\u2019ve ever had together.<\/p>\n

When a man cheats, there are two options you\u2019re left with. One is to fechar o neg\u00f3cio e ir embora<\/a> e a outra \u00e9 encontrar uma raz\u00e3o para o perdoar.<\/p>\n

Se pensa que pode encontrar uma forma de ultrapassar esta situa\u00e7\u00e3o, quem sabe, talvez o seu casamento se torne melhor do que nunca, especialmente se n\u00e3o houver outros painful signs your husband doesn’t love you anymore.<\/a> Or if you think you could never forget what he has done to you, it\u2019s better to leave, no matter how hurtful it is, and move on with your life.<\/p>\n

Como lidar com um marido traidor?<\/strong><\/p>\n

1. Don\u2019t make any sudden decisions<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

What you\u2019re feeling right now is rage, depression, anger\u2026 all kinds of feelings mixed together at the same time. You\u2019re not able to think straight because you\u2019ve been hurt.<\/p>\n

Talvez a raz\u00e3o para a sua batota<\/a> se for mais profundo, talvez tenha algo a ver com o vosso casamento. Mas a quest\u00e3o \u00e9 que, se calhar, ele est\u00e1 sinceramente arrependido e lamenta o que fez. Talvez haja uma maneira de resolver a situa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you have to sleep on it. Let some time pass before you decide what to do by judging from the way he acts and whether he is sorry or not.<\/p>\n

2. Pensar em si pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Use this time, until you reach a decision, to take care of yourself. Don\u2019t let the pain destroy you. You have to keep it together because there is an important decision before you.<\/p>\n

Infidelity can cause you to overeat or stop eating, to have insomnia or all kinds of other disorders. Don\u2019t let it affect your well-being.<\/p>\n

3. Tentar descobrir a raz\u00e3o pela qual ele o fez<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Tentar chegar ao fundo da quest\u00e3o. Talvez ele o tenha feito porque simplesmente queria. Se calhar ele \u00e9 assim t\u00e3o irrefletido<\/a> e a infidelidade \u00e9 algo que o excita. Nesse caso, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada que possas fazer.<\/p>\n

But on the other hand, maybe there is something he is lacking from you. Maybe something happened to him when he was a child and he\u2019s been traumatized and now he\u2019s seeking approval from a random woman.<\/p>\n

Whatever the reason is, you have to find it out to be able to decide what\u2019s next, whether you\u2019ll leave or give him another chance<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Relacionadas: Marido dominante: 10 maneiras de ser o alfa no seu casamento<\/a><\/p>\n

4. Pedir ajuda<\/h2>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

There is nothing wrong with asking for help when you need it. Talk to your friends, the people who won\u2019t judge you, and ask them what they think of the situation you\u2019re in.<\/p>\n

Or if he agrees to it (and he probably will), try couples counseling. Try talking to a professional who knows what they\u2019re doing. Maybe they will help you find the solution which is best for the both of you.<\/p>\n

5. Seja honesto com os seus filhos<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Children see everything. Even if they don\u2019t know what is going on, they know that something is wrong. Don\u2019t be the bad guy and shut them out. They are also a part of the family and they have a right to know what\u2019s going on.<\/p>\n

This way, if you tell them, you\u2019re going to be able to talk to them and assure them that they are going to be loved the same as before and that everything will be okay, one way or another.<\/p>\n

Altere a abordagem em fun\u00e7\u00e3o da idade e o mais importante \u00e9 nunca lhes mentir.<\/p>\n

6. Don\u2019t communicate with the other woman<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You have nothing to say to her. It\u2019s not your responsibility. This goes especially if he wants you to do his dirty work for him. Don\u2019t go down that road.<\/p>\n

He made the mess and he has to clean it up. If you do it for him, it won\u2019t teach him responsibility and he\u2019ll know that every time he screws things up, he\u2019ll have you to clean up after him.<\/p>\n

7. \u00c9 preciso tempo para sarar e voltar a confiar<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

If you stay with him, don\u2019t expect everything to be normal right away. You won\u2019t trust him for a long time. Even if he is the best husband ever, you still won\u2019t trust him.<\/p>\n

O tempo tem de passar e temos de fazer as pazes com o facto de que ele traiu-a<\/a>. You\u2019ll be stressed for a long time and a lot of things you see or do will remind you of the fact that he cheated on you.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 esse o processo de luto pelo qual temos de passar. Temos de estar zangados, temos de chorar e, no fim, acabamos por ficar em paz com isso. Mas s\u00f3 se vires que ele est\u00e1 verdadeiramente arrependido e que se arrepende de ter feito a coisa mais est\u00fapida que podia.<\/p>\n

Relacionadas: Porque \u00e9 que os maridos traidores continuam casados? 12 raz\u00f5es mais comuns<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

8. Pr\u00f3s e contras<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Seja pr\u00e1tico. Verifique as finan\u00e7as e a situa\u00e7\u00e3o da habita\u00e7\u00e3o. Veja se tem alguma possibilidade de o deixar, porque antes de o fazer, certifique-se de que tem um s\u00edtio para viver e dinheiro suficiente para tratar das coisas essenciais.<\/p>\n

9. Either learn to forgive…<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

You have to decide what you want. You can\u2019t live in-between because that gets you nowhere. If you\u2019re going to forgive him, do it.<\/p>\n

Mas quando o fazemos, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 volta a dar. N\u00e3o h\u00e1 como chatear e trazer o passado \u00e0 baila.<\/p>\n

10. \u2026 or just leave<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

If you see and feel in your heart that the fact he cheated on you will always bother you, that whenever he goes out you\u2019ll wonder if he is with another woman, then do yourself a favor and leave.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s better to be single and happy than casado e infeliz<\/a>.<\/p>\n

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