{"id":2373,"date":"2020-09-10T09:51:32","date_gmt":"2020-09-10T09:51:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=2373"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:28:01","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:28:01","slug":"rapariga-forte-longo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/rapariga-forte-longo\/","title":{"rendered":"Para a rapariga que foi demasiado forte durante demasiado tempo"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Tu \u00e9s \u00fanico. E este mundo devia sentir-se orgulhoso por ter algu\u00e9m como tu.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9s a rocha em que qualquer pessoa pode confiar ou apoiar-se mas, mais importante ainda, podes sempre contar contigo pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n<p>Porque \u00e9s um guerreiro. \u00danico no g\u00e9nero.<\/p>\n<p>The little secret is you\u2019ve been through the worst and you\u2019re still there. You\u2019re still standing.<\/p>\n<p><strong> You\u2019ve been brave so many times. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Because that was your only option in life. You stood up to everything that scared you and you\u2019ve confronted it.<\/p>\n<p><b> Mas agora tens medo. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Because you don\u2019t want to stay alone. Because you don\u2019t want to be your own rock forever. You need another person to be to you what you are to others.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o porque sejam uma coisa essencial para a sua vida, mas porque seria muito mais f\u00e1cil e muito mais agrad\u00e1vel caminhar pela vida com algu\u00e9m que o compreende.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-119484 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-desperate-young-woman.jpg\" alt=\"um retrato de uma jovem mulher desesperada\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-desperate-young-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-desperate-young-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-desperate-young-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-desperate-young-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-desperate-young-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-desperate-young-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-desperate-young-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-desperate-young-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Probably nobody ever told you this, but you are allowed to cry. It doesn\u2019t mean you are weak and it\u2019s not a sign of your weakness, it\u2019s proof you\u2019ve been strong for too long.<\/p>\n<p><b> You had everyone\u2019s back. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>No matter who came knocking at your door, he\u2019d find comfort in you. No matter how many people needed you, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/10-signs-people-pleaser-not-benefiting\/\">you\u2019ve always found a way to meet their needs<\/a> e estar l\u00e1 para eles.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9s o melhor amigo de todos os melhores amigos e eles sabiam que podiam contar contigo.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c9s a rapariga mais forte da tua fam\u00edlia, e n\u00e3o \u00e9s a \u00fanica a consolar, mas aquela a quem as pessoas recorrem quando precisam de algu\u00e9m forte.<\/p>\n<p><b>But when you needed people they weren\u2019t there.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Because they don\u2019t know when you need them. Unlike you, they can\u2019t notice little signs and the thing with strong people is they\u2019re never asked if they are OK.<\/p>\n<p>They\u2019re never offered any kind of help because they\u2019ve proven one too many times to people that they are strong enough to do it on their own.<\/p>\n<p><b>N\u00e3o procurais um cavaleiro.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-119485 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/an-attractive-African-American-woman-standing-in-a-wheat-field.jpg\" alt=\"uma atraente mulher afro-americana de p\u00e9 num campo de trigo\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/an-attractive-African-American-woman-standing-in-a-wheat-field.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/an-attractive-African-American-woman-standing-in-a-wheat-field-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/an-attractive-African-American-woman-standing-in-a-wheat-field-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/an-attractive-African-American-woman-standing-in-a-wheat-field-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/an-attractive-African-American-woman-standing-in-a-wheat-field-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/an-attractive-African-American-woman-standing-in-a-wheat-field-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/an-attractive-African-American-woman-standing-in-a-wheat-field-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/an-attractive-African-American-woman-standing-in-a-wheat-field-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>You aren\u2019t looking for anyone to save you. You are not looking for anyone to solve your problems and you\u2019re not expecting anything from others because you know better.<\/p>\n<p><b> Est\u00e1s \u00e0 procura da tua pr\u00f3pria espada. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re looking for the tools to fight your own battles. You are always trying to grow to be able to take care of yourself and you don\u2019t even have the slightest idea how people admire you.<\/p>\n<p>O facto \u00e9 que <b> a vida nunca foi f\u00e1cil para ti.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o eras tu que conseguias nada facilmente. Nunca conseguiste nada sem lutar.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00ednhamos sempre de provar o nosso valor e t\u00ednhamos de lutar por tudo o que quer\u00edamos ter na vida, porque s\u00f3 assim pod\u00edamos ter as coisas que quer\u00edamos.<\/p>\n<p>Por isso, era muitas vezes visto como frio e n\u00e3o s\u00f3.<\/p>\n<p><b> Mas continuamos sempre em frente. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Whenever life threw a curveball at you, you\u2019ve always managed to hit it hard and score a homerun.<\/p>\n<p><b>Tamb\u00e9m se cansa.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-119486 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-depressed-blonde-sits-on-the-sofa.jpg\" alt=\"uma loira deprimida senta-se no sof\u00e1\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-depressed-blonde-sits-on-the-sofa.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-depressed-blonde-sits-on-the-sofa-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-depressed-blonde-sits-on-the-sofa-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-depressed-blonde-sits-on-the-sofa-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-depressed-blonde-sits-on-the-sofa-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-depressed-blonde-sits-on-the-sofa-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-depressed-blonde-sits-on-the-sofa-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-depressed-blonde-sits-on-the-sofa-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Voc\u00ea <a href=\"http:\/\/www.walkingtheshoreline.com\/youre-tired-always-strong-one\/\" rel=\"noopener\">cansar-se de ser sempre forte<\/a>. You get tired of people always expecting something of you and you get tired of people constantly just taking and taking things from you\u2014your love, time, and whatever else they need.<\/p>\n<p><b> E, no entanto, levanta-se todas as manh\u00e3s. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Levanta-se com um sorriso. Levanta-se mais corajoso todas as manh\u00e3s, pronto para vencer o dia.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s your way to say to life: \u201cI am ready. Whatever you have for me, bring it on!\u201d<\/p>\n<p><b>Olhamos o desafio nos olhos e piscamos-lhe o olho.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Tens dificuldade em encontrar homens dignos de ti.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Because you don\u2019t play with boys. You don\u2019t need <i> apenas <\/i> anybody because that\u2019s not how things work for you.<\/p>\n<p>Precisas de um homem forte que te trate bem.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-119487 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-smiling-African-American-woman.jpg\" alt=\"um retrato de uma mulher afro-americana sorridente\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-smiling-African-American-woman.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-smiling-African-American-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-smiling-African-American-woman-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-smiling-African-American-woman-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-smiling-African-American-woman-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-smiling-African-American-woman-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-smiling-African-American-woman-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/a-portrait-of-a-smiling-African-American-woman-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b> Assim, encontra em si o valor que procura. <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Mesmo que fosse bom ter um homem que pudesse satisfazer as suas necessidades, s\u00f3 voc\u00ea \u00e9 suficientemente boa. \u00c9s mais do que suficiente e \u00e9s digna por ti pr\u00f3pria.<\/p>\n<p>You are one of those girls who were not born half but whole so when you\u2019re seen alone, nobody dares to ask, \u201cWhere is your other half?\u201d.<\/p>\n<p><b>Mesmo quando a vida nos bate com for\u00e7a<\/b> , when life throws sticks and stones at you, when you fall down to the point that you can\u2019t go lower, when every other person would give up on life and everything else&#8230; <b>you stand firm and you make others wonder how come you\u2019re still smiling. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>You do the thing called \u2018what <\/b><b><i>I<\/i><\/b><b> want\u2019 and you build a firm foundation with the bricks thrown at you.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><i> It&#8217;s OK if you fall down and lose your spark. Just make sure that when you get back up, you rise as the whole damn fire.<\/i><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-119488 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/To-The-Girl-Who-Has-Been-Too-Strong-For-Too-Long-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Para a rapariga que foi demasiado forte durante demasiado tempo\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/To-The-Girl-Who-Has-Been-Too-Strong-For-Too-Long-Pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/To-The-Girl-Who-Has-Been-Too-Strong-For-Too-Long-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/To-The-Girl-Who-Has-Been-Too-Strong-For-Too-Long-Pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/To-The-Girl-Who-Has-Been-Too-Strong-For-Too-Long-Pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/To-The-Girl-Who-Has-Been-Too-Strong-For-Too-Long-Pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You are one of a kind. And this world should feel proud to have someone like you. You are the rock who anybody can rely or lean on but more importantly, you can always count on yourself. Because you are a warrior. One of a kind. The little secret is you\u2019ve been through the worst&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":119483,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2373","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/To-The-Girl-Who-Has-Been-Too-Strong-For-Too-Long-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. 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