{"id":24030,"date":"2020-03-21T11:19:07","date_gmt":"2020-03-21T11:19:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=24030"},"modified":"2022-02-27T14:24:24","modified_gmt":"2022-02-27T14:24:24","slug":"para-a-rapariga-que-se-cansou-de-ser-sempre-forte","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/para-a-rapariga-que-se-cansou-de-ser-sempre-forte\/","title":{"rendered":"Para a rapariga que se cansou de ser sempre forte"},"content":{"rendered":"

Desde que te lembras, eras o mais duro. A forte e a corajosa. A que conseguia sempre aguentar tudo o que a vida lhe punha \u00e0 frente.<\/b><\/p>\n

Aquele que sabia a melhor maneira de lidar com todos os desafios e problemas poss\u00edveis.<\/p>\n

A pessoa a quem toda a gente recorria quando precisava de orienta\u00e7\u00e3o ou seguran\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

You were known as a girl who always comes out stronger from every situation which should have destroyed her. As the girl who can\u2019t be hurt.<\/p>\n

Como a rapariga que se ergue sempre como uma F\u00e9nix das cinzas. Como uma rapariga que consegue suportar literalmente tudo.<\/p>\n

Como algu\u00e9m que sabe como lidar com qualquer dor emocional. Como uma rapariga que nunca teve o cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido.<\/p>\n

But these days, you feel like you can\u2019t take it anymore. You feel like you\u2019ve had too much of everything and like you just need a break from the world.<\/b><\/p>\n

A break from all the pain you\u2019ve been dealing with in silence. A break from all the people who expect too much from you.<\/p>\n

A break from all the burdens you\u2019ve been carrying for too long. You feel like you need a break from being strong.<\/p>\n

Because you got too tired. Actually, you are exhausted. And I\u2019m not talking about physical exhaustion here.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 mentalmente exausto e sente que o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o, a sua alma e a sua mente est\u00e3o prestes a partir-se devido a todo o peso que o mundo lhes imp\u00f4s.<\/b><\/p>\n

Sim, ser um independente F\u00eamea alfa<\/a> \u00e9 \u00f3timo. As pessoas admiram muitas vezes tudo aquilo de que somos capazes.<\/p>\n

Admiram a tua for\u00e7a e a tua coragem. Admiram o facto de nunca deixares que ningu\u00e9m te detenha ou te deite abaixo.<\/p>\n

They admire the fact that you never give up and that you don\u2019t need anyone to complete you.<\/p>\n

Que nunca precisamos de ningu\u00e9m para nos apoiar e que somos mais do que capazes de viver a vida sozinhos.<\/p>\n

But, you feel like putting up with this image of a badass gal has become too hard for you. You feel like you can\u2019t take it anymore and that you\u2019ll break into million pieces anytime soon.<\/p>\n

You are tired of meeting people\u2019s expectations. Cansado de estar l\u00e1 para todos os outros. Cansado de ser guardado e <\/b>duro<\/b><\/a>. <\/b><\/p>\n

Cansado de sorrir apesar de toda a dor e cansado de usar uma m\u00e1scara perante o mundo inteiro. Est\u00e1s cansado de lutar.<\/b><\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 cansado de dizer a toda a gente que est\u00e1 bem, mesmo quando sente que est\u00e1 a morrer por dentro.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Dois<\/p>\n

Tired of being everybody\u2019s shoulder to cry on, even on the days when you can\u2019t make yourself feel better. Tired of looking after others when there is no one to take care of you.<\/b><\/p>\n

And this is exactly what you need\u2014someone to take care of you. Someone to hold your hand when things get rough. Someone to listen to you and to tell you that everything will be just right.<\/p>\n

Algu\u00e9m que te ame no teu melhor e no teu pior. You need someone who will catch you whenever you feel like you\u2019ll fall and someone who will pick you up whenever you feel like you\u2019ll break.<\/b><\/p>\n

Well, let me tell you one thing\u2014there is nothing wrong with craving for something and someone like this. There is nothing wrong in feeling like you\u2019ve had too much and like you can\u2019t take it anymore.<\/b><\/p>\n

Because being vulnerable doesn\u2019t make you helpless. Not being tough all the time doesn\u2019t make you weak. <\/b> Precisar de algu\u00e9m que nos ame e cuide de n\u00f3s n\u00e3o \u00e9 motivo de vergonha.<\/p>\n

This doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019ve become someone you swore you\u2019d never become. It doesn\u2019t mean that you\u2019ve betrayed the girl you\u2019ve always been.<\/p>\n

O que \u00e9 preciso \u00e9 lembrarmo-nos de que tamb\u00e9m somos um ser humano. Que \u00e9s feito de carne e osso e que tamb\u00e9m tens emo\u00e7\u00f5es e um cora\u00e7\u00e3o que precisa de ser cuidado.<\/b><\/p>\n

Remember\u2014you are allowed to feel all the things you\u2019ve been feeling lately. \u00c9 permitido estar exausto e cansado. E, mais importante ainda, \u00e9 permitido pedir ajuda. <\/b><\/p>\n

Because that doesn\u2019t make you any less of a <\/b>mulher forte<\/b><\/a> do que tu.<\/b> <\/p>\n

\"Para<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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