There is only one thing they want from you. It\u2019s your energy, your capability to make them happy. It\u2019s called a \u2018narcissistic supply\u2019 and for as long they are getting it from you, they will stick around.<\/p>\n
Se cortar o fornecimento, eles passar\u00e3o para a pr\u00f3xima v\u00edtima e agir\u00e3o como se nunca o tivessem conhecido, o que \u00e9 algo que o deixaria muito feliz.<\/p>\n
After so much bullying, because narcissists are indeed bullies, the only thing you\u2019d want is for them to leave you alone.<\/p>\n
Por que \u00e9 que est\u00e1 a fornecer um narcisista?<\/strong><\/p>\n You\u2019re not doing it on purpose. It is in human nature (at least most humans) to help others when they need it, especially if we\u2019re talking about someone close to you, a loved one.<\/p>\n You\u2019re completely going to ignore your needs and run to save someone you love. Whether it\u2019s your child, or any of your family members, that\u2019s the thing your instinct will make you do.<\/p>\n Now, the man you\u2019ve sadly fallen in love with happens to be a narcissist. Of course, you could never see that coming. He was charming, a real piece of work. And that, of course, also changed over time.<\/p>\n All that charm and kind of suspiciously good behavior disappeared overnight, and he showed his true colors. B then, though, it was too late. You\u2019d already loved him, and you couldn\u2019t just walk away.<\/p>\n This is their game. This is what they do best. They fool you long enough to fall for them, and then they start terrorizing you because they know you won\u2019t leave that easily.<\/strong><\/p>\n Porque o amava, pensou que o podia ajudar. Este foi o teu maior erro e foi assim que lhe deste o suprimento.<\/p>\n Every time he did something awful, every time he hurt you, you backed down and showed compassion. You fed him enough energy to keep on living until he runs out. Then he\u2019d do it all over again.<\/p>\n Para o desarmar e fugir dele, temos de ser mais espertos do que ele. Tens de estar mais preparado, e quero dizer preparado para tudo.<\/p>\n Existem alguns tipos de narcisistas<\/a>e nem todos actuam da mesma forma. Acredite ou n\u00e3o, h\u00e1 narcisistas que parecem ser t\u00edmidos \u00e0 primeira impress\u00e3o, narcisistas que s\u00f3 est\u00e3o numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o pelo dinheiro, ou os tradicionais e cl\u00e1ssicos que fingem ser algo que n\u00e3o s\u00e3o.<\/p>\n You have to define what type of narcissist you\u2019re dealing with in order to learn everything about his behavior, to try to understand why he does certain things and why he acts the way he acts.<\/p>\n Tens de aprender o jogo dele se o quiseres vencer. Tens de estar um passo \u00e0 frente dele.<\/p>\n This is not an easy step to do. You\u2019ll have to swallow your pride and put up with a lot of shit to complete this one. It\u2019s not easy, and not everyone has the nerve and courage to complete it.<\/p>\n What you have to do is to shut up, agree with everything they say, practically make him think that everything is fine and continue playing his game, but don\u2019t let him doubt your commitment to him.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t make him doubt that you\u2019re doing all of this just to get his mind off of the fact that you might leave him. You have to fool him into thinking that everything\u2019s fine, and it has never been better.<\/p>\n When you have everything planned out and when you\u2019ve firmly decided that you can leave him and never see him again, then do it.<\/p>\n Mas, primeiro, \u00e9 preciso encontrar um lugar para viver e certificar-se de que tem apoio e que est\u00e1 rodeado de pessoas que gostam de si.<\/p>\n Decidam quais s\u00e3o os vossos limites, mas h\u00e1 mais uma coisa que t\u00eam de fazer.<\/p>\n Since narcissists have the power to twist everything you\u2019ve said and to convince you that some things which actually happened didn\u2019t\u2014or they happened differently from what you are claiming\u2014the smartest thing would be if you write down your boundaries, so he doesn\u2019t trick you into thinking something else.<\/p>\n This way, you have written on a piece of paper exactly what you\u2019ve said, and no one can convince you otherwise.<\/p>\nQue tipo de narcisista ele \u00e9<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nFingir que est\u00e1 tudo bem<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nE no momento certo sair<\/h2>\n
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<\/p>\nEstabelecer limites<\/h2>\n
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