{"id":24115,"date":"2020-04-24T09:35:35","date_gmt":"2020-04-24T09:35:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=24115"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:10:37","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:10:37","slug":"verdadeiras-diferencas-entre-estar-apaixonado-e-amar-alguem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/verdadeiras-diferencas-entre-estar-apaixonado-e-amar-alguem\/","title":{"rendered":"As verdadeiras diferen\u00e7as entre estar apaixonado e amar algu\u00e9m"},"content":{"rendered":"

Eu costumava confundir estes dois termos, como imagino que a maioria de v\u00f3s tamb\u00e9m o fa\u00e7a. \u00c9 muito f\u00e1cil confundi-los. N\u00e3o s\u00f3 como termos, mas tamb\u00e9m como sentimentos.<\/p>\n

Perdi tanto tempo a chorar por causa de homens que, para come\u00e7ar, nunca foram adequados para mim.<\/p>\n

I truly believed that by losing them, I lost love. I couldn’t have been more wrong.<\/p>\n

It wasn\u2019t until I met my pessoa para sempre<\/a> que eu realmente entendia a diferen\u00e7a entre estar apaixonado e amar algu\u00e9m. <\/b><\/em><\/p>\n

Nada do que senti antes pode sequer aproximar-se do que sinto agora.<\/b><\/em><\/p>\n

You see, \u2018being in love\u2019 is a form of an addiction we feel towards someone. We are so carried away by them that they are all we can think about.<\/p>\n

Queremos estar perto deles o mais frequentemente poss\u00edvel.<\/p>\n

\u2018Loving somebody\u2019 is what we have when reality kicks in when our hormones stop going wild. It\u2019s not an addiction; it\u2019s reality.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s about mutual happiness and growth. It\u2019s about complimenting each other\u2019s lives. It\u2019s the best thing in the world.<\/p>\n

To make everything clearer, let\u2019s look at the 6 differences between being in love and loving someone:<\/p>\n

Apaixonar-se acontece sem inten\u00e7\u00e3o, mas amar algu\u00e9m acontece por escolha<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Falling in love is beyond our control. It\u2019s about chemistry, lust and infatuation. It\u2019s about idealizing the other person and putting them on a pedestal.<\/p>\n

Loving somebody is what comes after all the infatuation, chemistry and lust. It\u2019s an emotional connection we form.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not about looking at your partner as a form of perfection. It\u2019s knowing that they are flawed and loving them anyway.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s about choosing to stay even when the sunshiny days pass.<\/p>\n

Estar apaixonado \u00e9 uma quest\u00e3o de conveni\u00eancia, enquanto amar algu\u00e9m \u00e9 dar prioridade a essa pessoa<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Being in love is needing somebody to fulfill your needs. It\u2019s being there when it\u2019s convenient.<\/p>\n

Loving, on the other hand, is selfless. It\u2019s not just about taking; it\u2019s about giving, too.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s about making time for someone. It\u2019s about enjoying the sole fact that your better half is present. It\u2019s about making them feel important.<\/p>\n

Estar apaixonado pode ser carente, mas amar algu\u00e9m nunca o \u00e9<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

It\u2019s in our human nature to have all kind of expectations from people. It\u2019s the same when we are in love. We expect a person to behave in a certain manner.<\/p>\n

Por exemplo, podemos querer que telefonem ou enviem mensagens de texto 24 horas por dia, 7 dias por semana. Podemos esperar grandes gestos rom\u00e2nticos e demonstra\u00e7\u00f5es constantes de afeto.<\/p>\n

However, the reality might be different. That\u2019s why our expectativas n\u00e3o satisfeitas<\/a> s\u00e3o as raz\u00f5es mais comuns para uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Loving someone is about compatibility. It\u2019s about mutual understanding. It\u2019s about not having to hear from each other 24\/7 but still knowing that you are loved.<\/p>\n

Loving somebody is all about trust while being in love doesn\u2019t have to be<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Being in love can also be full of uncertainties. We don\u2019t have to feel safe or completely trust the other person to fall in love with them. We just fall and hope that they will catch us.<\/p>\n

O verdadeiro amor, no entanto, \u00e9 constru\u00eddo sobre a confian\u00e7a. N\u00e3o h\u00e1 lugar para incertezas ou ci\u00fames. Sentimo-nos s\u00e3os e salvos nos seus abra\u00e7os e queremos que eles sintam o mesmo por n\u00f3s.<\/p>\n

Estar apaixonado \u00e9 uma quest\u00e3o de posse, enquanto amar algu\u00e9m \u00e9 libert\u00e1-lo<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Estar apaixonado d\u00e1-nos muitas vezes a no\u00e7\u00e3o errada de que estamos em d\u00edvida para com outra pessoa. Que ela nos pertence.<\/p>\n

Agarramo-nos demasiado a eles porque s\u00e3o os principais criadores da nossa felicidade.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why sometimes we sabotage our own chances for finding true love. We force the feelings. We suffocate our partners by wanting them too close.<\/p>\n

Loving someone is about giving them the freedom to love you back. It\u2019s not about trying too hard to keep them in your life.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s about loving them no matter whether they are by your side or not.<\/p>\n

True love should flow, and you should never have to beg for anyone’s attention, affection or presence in your life. It\u2019s about working as a team and growing together.<\/p>\n

Being in love doesn\u2019t have to last while love can be eternal<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Being in love can last for a shorter or a longer period of time, but it has its end. It\u2019s based on infatuation, lust, brain chemicals that give us that addicting feeling of desire.<\/p>\n

Love doesn\u2019t wear off. It doesn\u2019t decrease. It doesn\u2019t fade. O amor fica<\/a> no matter what. It\u2019s constant even though the honeymoon phase of the relationship is ancient history.<\/p>\n

In the end, it\u2019s important to remember that under no circumstances, being in love and loving someone excludes self-love.<\/b><\/em><\/p>\n

Pelo contr\u00e1rio, d\u00e1-lhe as boas-vindas. S\u00f3 quando nos amamos, aceitamos e apreciamos verdadeiramente \u00e9 que somos capazes de transmitir esses mesmos sentimentos puros a outra pessoa.<\/b><\/em><\/p>\n

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I used to mix up these two terms as I imagine most of you have as well. They are so easily mistaken. Not only as terms, but also as feelings. I wasted so much time crying over some men who were never right for me to begin with. I truly believed that by losing them,…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":84249,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-24115","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/True-Differences-Between-Being-In-Love-And-Loving-Someone.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24115","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=24115"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24115\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":163574,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24115\/revisions\/163574"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/84249"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=24115"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=24115"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=24115"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}