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<\/p>\nBefore making this beyond complicated, I will tell you the truth from the start. The truth is that you don’t know and you will never know. But you can feel.<\/p>\n
Saber e sentir s\u00e3o duas direc\u00e7\u00f5es contradit\u00f3rias e, quando entrela\u00e7adas, podem criar um reino de confus\u00e3o, incerteza e at\u00e9 depress\u00e3o.<\/b><\/p>\n
Have you ever looked at your man and started thinking \u2018how in the world can I be sure that he is the one?\u2019 After that, you start weighing up some pros and cons, rewinding scenes of his socks under the bed or that last cake eaten by him\u2026<\/p>\n
Then you realize that there is no point in making a list of an \u2018anti-perfect man\u2019 and you start begging God and his assistants to enlighten you.<\/p>\n
Mas o \u00fanico problema \u00e9 que se dedica demasiado ao conhecimento e aos factos sobre o seu homem em vez de ouvir a sua intui\u00e7\u00e3o e o seu instinto. Saber e sentir s\u00e3o duas direc\u00e7\u00f5es contradit\u00f3rias e, quando entrela\u00e7adas, podem criar um reino de confus\u00e3o, incerteza e at\u00e9 depress\u00e3o.<\/p>\n
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Do you know the feeling when you question something to the extent that it becomes a haunting nightmare? If you want to forget that feeling (and I certainly would) then you have to stop asking yourself if he is the man who\u2019s going to pick you up in his spaceship and introduce you to his crew (aka his parents) all the while exploring the endless extent of space that is love.<\/p>\n
Kidding aside, you have to reach the level where you know that you don\u2019t know that he is the one. Try repeating: \u201cI don\u2019t know if he is the one and I don\u2019t give a damn. I will not let this overrated question manipulate me. I\u2019m a strong, independent woman and I choose to live carefree.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n Being too occupied with questions and answers kills all the fun and spontaneity that are crucial to your well-being. For example, your head is in his lap and he\u2019s playing with your locks while you\u2019re questioning his existence along with the whole universe and the theory of gravity.<\/p>\n Ele h\u00e1-de saber. Ele saber\u00e1 quando come\u00e7ares a fazer estas perguntas a ti pr\u00f3pria, porque os homens t\u00eam aquele radar estranho que lhes diz sempre que algo est\u00e1 errado com a mulher.<\/p>\n To avoid this, concentrate on feelings. If you feel like you\u2019ve attained nirvana (and I don\u2019t mean the band) when just hanging around with your man\u2014THAT\u2019S IT.<\/p>\n That\u2019s the thing we\u2019re looking for. Just listen to your intuition and embrace the feelings you get when thinking of that specific person and you\u2019ll get the answer.<\/p>\n YOU CAN\u2019T and that\u2019s the beauty of it. But if you\u2019re sure of your own existence, that will do. Cogito, ergo sum (I think, therefore I am).<\/p>\n Pensar sobre algo prova o facto de existirmos, mas n\u00e3o valida os nossos sentimentos. Por exemplo, Miranda<\/em> diz que tem a certeza de que Jim \u00e9 o tal, porque ele \u00e9 uma pessoa muito boa.<\/p>\n Mas que raio?! O que \u00e9 que isso quer dizer?<\/p>\n Miranda<\/em> provavelmente pensa que Jim<\/em> \u00e9 uma boa pessoa por um milh\u00e3o de outras raz\u00f5es que correspondem \u00e0 sua defini\u00e7\u00e3o de um bom rapaz. Mas como \u00e9 que isso a faz sentir? A verdadeira quest\u00e3o \u00e9 como \u00e9 que ele a faz sentir.<\/p>\n Do you want to be with him because he is such a good guy and \u2018the one\u2019 according to your scale and priorities or do you want to be with him because he makes you feel transcendent, blessed and utterly grateful?<\/p>\n N\u00e3o penses. SENTE.<\/p>\n P.S. If he can drive you beyond crazy and you still don\u2019t want him dead\u2014he\u2019s definitely the one.<\/p>\n Before making this beyond complicated, I will tell you the truth from the start. The truth is that you don’t know and you will never know. But you can feel. Knowing and feeling are two contradictory directions and when intertwined they can create a realm of confusion, uncertainty and even depression. 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<\/p>\n#3 COMO POSSO TER A CERTEZA DE QUE OS MEUS SENTIMENTOS N\u00c3O ME EST\u00c3O A ENGANAR?<\/h2>\n
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