{"id":24258,"date":"2020-06-25T11:11:40","date_gmt":"2020-06-25T11:11:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=24258"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:05:33","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:05:33","slug":"6-coisas-que-os-homens-fazem-que-parecem-obscuras-mas-sao-verdadeiramente-inofensivas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-coisas-que-os-homens-fazem-que-parecem-obscuras-mas-sao-verdadeiramente-inofensivas\/","title":{"rendered":"6 coisas que os homens fazem que parecem obscuras, mas s\u00e3o realmente inofensivas"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u00c9 f\u00e1cil tornar-se demasiado desconfiado ou mesmo paranoico hoje em dia. Estamos habituados a tipos que s\u00e3o muito duvidosos.<\/p>\n

So we search for red flags even when there aren\u2019t any.<\/p>\n

Vemos sinais de batota em cada esquina. Infelizmente, as nossas m\u00e1s experi\u00eancias ou as experi\u00eancias das pessoas que nos rodeiam ensinaram-nos a pensar assim.<\/p>\n

Na maior parte das vezes, precipitamo-nos. Chegamos a conclus\u00f5es com base em ac\u00e7\u00f5es que podem muitas vezes ser enganadoras.<\/p>\n

Sabotamos as nossas rela\u00e7\u00f5es porque temos medo de ser enganados e, por isso, vemos amea\u00e7as em todo o lado.<\/p>\n

Estas s\u00e3o as coisas que os homens fazem que parecem obscuras mas que s\u00e3o verdadeiramente inofensivas:<\/p>\n

1. Ele demora muito tempo a responder a uma mensagem<\/h2>\n

\"6Come\u00e7ar\u00e1 automaticamente a criar diferentes cen\u00e1rios. Estar\u00e1 ele com outra mulher? O que \u00e9 que ele anda a fazer? Ser\u00e1 que perdeu o interesse<\/a>? Os pensamentos v\u00e3o passar-lhe pela cabe\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

Na realidade, ele pode estar apenas a dormir. Pense nisso, os homens t\u00eam esta tend\u00eancia para adormecer mais depressa do que se pode contar at\u00e9 tr\u00eas.<\/p>\n

Se sabe que ele \u00e9 assim, n\u00e3o precisa de se preocupar.<\/p>\n

Also, not getting an immediate response might signify that he actually works for a living or has friends and family he talks to, so don\u2019t give it too much thought.<\/p>\n

2. Por vezes, tapa o telem\u00f3vel<\/h2>\n

\"6This is usually a bad sign and not good at all if it happens all the time. But if it\u2019s just sometimes, odds are he is watching something embarrassing and he is too ashamed to show you.<\/p>\n

Also, he might be in the middle of a private conversation with one of his guy friends and he doesn\u2019t want to share that friend\u2019s business with you.<\/p>\n

Even though this looks pretty bad, don\u2019t overreact unless you believe you have a reason to. There is a huge difference between things that happen all the time and just sometimes.<\/p>\n

3. Passas sempre tempo em tua casa e nunca na dele<\/h2>\n

\"6Of course, your instincts are telling you that there is some shady business going on there. But it usually isn\u2019t as shady as you think.<\/p>\n

If you have been dating for a brief while, he is probably too embarrassed to say that he lives with his mother or a bunch of roommates because he can\u2019t afford his own place or that he is messy as hell.<\/p>\n

Tudo isto s\u00e3o coisas muito embara\u00e7osas para um homem admitir. Por isso, depois de pensar que j\u00e1 passou tempo suficiente, pe\u00e7a-lhe abertamente que lhe diga porque \u00e9 que nunca foi a casa dele.<\/p>\n

4. Passa muito tempo com os seus amigos<\/h2>\n

\"6Talvez at\u00e9 mais do que o faz consigo. Mas ser\u00e1 que h\u00e1 realmente algo com que se preocupar?<\/p>\n

Ele conhece-os h\u00e1 mais tempo do que a si, d\u00e1-lhes valor e \u00e9 provavelmente muito soci\u00e1vel.<\/p>\n

A \u00fanica coisa com que se deve preocupar \u00e9 se ele a cancela \u00e0 \u00faltima da hora ou se abandona um encontro porque tem algo melhor para fazer com os amigos.<\/p>\n

That kind of behavior should never be tolerated. You should be at the top, not at the bottom, of his priority list. Don\u2019t let him enganar-vos.<\/a><\/p>\n

5. He hasn’t introduced you to \u2018his people\u2019<\/h2>\n

\"6If he spends a lot of his time with his friends and you don\u2019t know them yet, that doesn\u2019t have to set alarm bells ringing. Ask yourself if you\u2019ve been dating long enough to get to the phase of introductions.<\/p>\n

The same goes for his family members; maybe he believes that the relationship is still in its beginning stages and he thinks it\u2019s too soon.<\/p>\n

Also, he might not have a good relationship with his family and doesn\u2019t want to get you involved<\/p>\n

But if enough time passes and he has not introduced you to his people, whether we\u2019re talking about his friends or family, it\u2019s time to talk to him because something is off and if he isn\u2019t cheating, he just might not be ready for a serious relationship.<\/p>\n

6. Ele nunca dorme em tua casa<\/h2>\n

\"6Se todos os outros aspectos da vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o estiverem a funcionar, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 motivo para se preocupar. Se acabaram de fazer sexo, abra\u00e7aram-se um pouco e ele diz que vai para casa dormir, \u00e9 prov\u00e1vel que sim.<\/p>\n

Men are very practical and they will go to sleep in their own bed because they are used to it or because it\u2019s more convenient for them to get to work.<\/p>\n

If you were to do the same it wouldn\u2019t hurt them so they don\u2019t see what all the fuss is about.<\/p>\n

If you immediately start to think that he just replaced your bed with some other woman\u2019s bed, you are probably wrong.<\/p>\n

Even though most men like to brag about how many times they can have sex in one night, it\u2019s just pure words. Anything more than once is usually too much for them.<\/p>\n

All in all, think before you react. Nobody’s perfect and all of us have some behaviors that might look shady at first but are harmless in their essence.<\/p>\n

Openly talk to him and see what his deal is. Don\u2019t attack him for cheating or not being into you if you don\u2019t know the whole story.<\/p>\n

Rapazes bons e decentes<\/a> out there shouldn\u2019t pay for the sins of all the liars and cheaters of the world.<\/p>\n

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