{"id":2436,"date":"2019-07-11T10:42:17","date_gmt":"2019-07-11T10:42:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=2436"},"modified":"2021-08-24T13:25:38","modified_gmt":"2021-08-24T13:25:38","slug":"o-amor-unilateral-nao-merece","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-amor-unilateral-nao-merece\/","title":{"rendered":"O amor unilateral n\u00e3o \u00e9 o que mereces"},"content":{"rendered":"

\u201c…unrequited love does not die; it’s only beaten down to a secret place where it hides, curled and wounded. For some unfortunates, it turns bitter and mean, and those who come after pay the price for the hurt done by the one who came before.\u201d<\/i><\/b> \u2013 Elle Newmark<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Dear \u201cWhoever is reading this\u201d,<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

A love that is a one-way street in which you are steering the wheel is not what you deserve. It’s not what anyone deserves.<\/span><\/p>\n

Maybe it\u2019s hard for you to understand and admit to yourself that you are a \u00fanica pessoa na vossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o que se importa com isso.<\/a> I get it. I\u2019ve been there. I\u2019ve felt that.  <\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c9 <\/span>IS<\/span><\/i> hard, but as soon as you stop fooling yourself into believing things are great and that they couldn\u2019t be better, it is going to be easier for you to finally understand you\u2019re <\/span>MISER\u00c1VEL<\/span><\/i>.   <\/span><\/p>\n

Quanto mais cedo perceberes isto, mais cedo ser\u00e1s poupado \u00e0 dor paralisante do amor unilateral.<\/span><\/p>\n

Se acha que est\u00e1 preso nesse c\u00edrculo vicioso de dar amor e n\u00e3o o receber de volta, saia dele e abra os olhos.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mereces mais do que isso.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

O amor unilateral \u00e9 uma tortura.<\/h2>\n

It\u2019s giving yourself entirely to someone who is totally indifferent. It\u2019s the constant fear that someone will leave you because their eyes are blank, empty when they look at you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Everyone\u2019s eyes are windows of their souls and one simple look will tell you how they actually feel about you.<\/span><\/p>\n

Don\u2019t deceive yourself into thinking they care for you when you see they don\u2019t. By doing that, you are only torturing yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n

Falando por experi\u00eancia pr\u00f3pria, sei que \u00e9 dif\u00edcil encarar o facto de a sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o n\u00e3o estar a dar em nada. Est\u00e1 disposta a fazer tudo o que estiver ao seu alcance para que resulte, mas, infelizmente, \u00e9 a \u00fanica.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mereces mais do que isso.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

O amor unilateral \u00e9 um desgosto.<\/h2>\n

It\u2019s seeing people are as cold as ice while you are burning up with all the love you have to give.<\/span><\/p>\n

Est\u00e1 disposto a fazer um esfor\u00e7o suplementar por eles, enquanto eles se recusam a dar um pequeno passo. <\/span>Isn’t that selfish?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

You are left with the void in your heart and there\u2019s no one there to fill it. It\u2019s as if they are so bored, so they decided to kill some time by being in a relationship with you.<\/span><\/p>\n

\"Rapariga<\/p>\n

That leaves someone crying (you) and someone smiling (them). You are the one left to cry and you know they are not worth your tears, but you still don\u2019t give up on them and your relationship because you care too much when you shouldn’t.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Mereces mais do que isso.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

O amor unilateral est\u00e1 a destruir a sua auto-confian\u00e7a.<\/h2>\n

You might deny this while it\u2019s happening, but when it\u2019s all over, you are left broken and alone. You will probably not be able to love someone that way anytime soon.<\/span><\/p>\n

Devido \u00e0 sua falta de apre\u00e7o, fica a questionar-se, <\/span>\u201cWhat did I do wrong? I gave him everything, why couldn\u2019t he love me back?\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Enviou-lhes mensagens de texto, levou-os a jantares rom\u00e2nticos, comprou-lhes presentes e deixou-lhes bilhetes bonitos e tudo o que recebeu em troca foi um afeto piedoso que durou cerca de 3 segundos.<\/span><\/p>\n

Depois disso, a indiferen\u00e7a deles voltou \u00e0 vida. \u00c9 assim que eles o apreciam.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Pergunto-me como \u00e9 que eles reagiriam se provassem o seu pr\u00f3prio rem\u00e9dio. Se houver alguma justi\u00e7a no universo, eles ter\u00e3o a oportunidade de o provar, s\u00f3 para verem como se sentiam e pelo que estavam a passar.<\/span><\/p>\n

No que lhe diz respeito, ponha a indiferen\u00e7a deles no gelo e esmague-a, porque ningu\u00e9m tem o direito de o fazer duvidar de si pr\u00f3prio.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mereces mais do que isso.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

O amor unilateral \u00e9 uma rua de sentido \u00fanico.<\/h2>\n

There is always one person who is doing all the work and the other one who lays back and enjoys. It shouldn’t be like that. The two of you should be equals. It’s the only way for a relationship to work\u2014to grow into a life-time partnership.<\/span><\/p>\n

You are the one who is left to choose where you are going to go on a date. You are the one who is initiating all your conversations because if it weren\u2019t for you, uncomfortable silence would dominate.<\/span><\/p>\n

They aren\u2019t able to feel the awkwardness between the two of you because they couldn\u2019t care less.<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c9 o iniciador dessas rela\u00e7\u00f5es quando, na verdade, os dois deviam estar a trabalhar em conjunto.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mereces mais do que isso.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m: <\/strong>6 sinais verdadeiros de que o amas muito mais do que ele te ama<\/a><\/p>\n

O amor unilateral \u00e9 uma obsess\u00e3o.<\/h2>\n

Being in a one-sided relationship is a 24\/7 job. You won\u2019t quit because you love them and you are giving your best to prove it to them, hoping that things will change. But they won’t and somewhere deep inside, you know that, but you won’t admit it.<\/span><\/p>\n

They have you by their side, but they don\u2019t respect you. They don\u2019t have a problem with making you lose your mind over the success of your relationship. They are turning you into an obsessive maniac.  <\/span><\/p>\n

Real love is not one-sided, it\u2019s reciprocated. Save yourself the trouble if that isn\u2019t the case in your relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n

You will end up obsessing over the fact your relationship is getting sick and you haven\u2019t got the cure to heal it.<\/span><\/p>\n

A sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 um navio a afundar-se e tem de o deixar para se salvar.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mereces mais do que isso.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

O amor unilateral est\u00e1 a fazer-te perder a f\u00e9.<\/h2>\n

How can it be that one person would sacrifice anything to make a relationship work, while the other one couldn\u2019t care less?<\/span><\/p>\n

Porque \u00e9 que essas pessoas insens\u00edveis se comprometem connosco se a \u00fanica coisa que nos v\u00e3o deixar \u00e9 uma perda de f\u00e9 nas pessoas?<\/span><\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que se pode confiar em algu\u00e9m depois de algu\u00e9m nos ter feito passar por parvos?<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso reagir a tempo e acabar com a rela\u00e7\u00e3o antes que ela o incapacite.<\/span><\/p>\n

Mereces mais do que isso.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n

\"Rapariga<\/p>\n

O amor unilateral \u00e9 uma batalha.<\/h2>\n

It\u2019s your battle\u2014the one you are struggling with on the inside. One moment you feel you are about to win, and the next moment you are surrendering and counting your dead.<\/span><\/p>\n

You’ve finally realized they don\u2019t reciprocate your love, but you can\u2019t help yourself from trying because you love them.<\/span><\/p>\n

At the end of the day, the ball is in your court. You have the power to end it, so you won\u2019t suffer, but do you have the guts to do it?<\/span><\/p>\n

Claro que sim, porque \u00e9s melhor do que isso.<\/span><\/i><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u201c…unrequited love does not die; it’s only beaten down to a secret place where it hides, curled and wounded. For some unfortunates, it turns bitter and mean, and those who come after pay the price for the hurt done by the one who came before.\u201d \u2013 Elle Newmark Dear \u201cWhoever is reading this\u201d, A love…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":2437,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2436","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/toa-heftiba-84798.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","parent":38,"count":426,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29614,"category_count":426,"category_description":"What is love? How does it affect us? How to know someone loves you or show someone you love them? What types of love are there? Learn all that and much more.","cat_name":"love talks","category_nicename":"love-talks","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2436","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/53"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2436"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2436\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2437"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2436"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2436"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2436"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}