{"id":24363,"date":"2019-09-26T07:28:24","date_gmt":"2019-09-26T07:28:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=24363"},"modified":"2022-01-10T00:37:05","modified_gmt":"2022-01-10T00:37:05","slug":"a-verdade-e-que-so-um-homem-verdadeiramente-apaixonado-se-comprometera-imediatamente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-verdade-e-que-so-um-homem-verdadeiramente-apaixonado-se-comprometera-imediatamente\/","title":{"rendered":"A verdade \u00e9 que s\u00f3 um homem verdadeiramente apaixonado se comprometer\u00e1 de imediato"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><b>A pessoa que \u00e9 suposto ser o seu \"para sempre\" nunca o tratar\u00e1 como uma op\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Estamos todos \u00e0 procura de raz\u00f5es para <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/7-things-to-do-when-he-wont-commit-nor-let-you-go\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">men won\u2019t commit<\/a>Mas temos medo de admitir para n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios que, normalmente, n\u00e3o s\u00e3o as pessoas certas para n\u00f3s.<\/p>\n<p>Temos medo de encarar o facto de que, desta vez, tamb\u00e9m foi um sucesso e um fracasso.<\/p>\n<p><b>Porque \u00e9 que agimos assim?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>A verdade \u00e9 que nos cansamos de o procurar. Cansamo-nos de tentar e descobrir que ele foi apenas mais um fracasso, apenas mais uma tentativa.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re fed up with dating and getting to know him because usually, it doesn\u2019t end well.<\/p>\n<p>That disappointment we\u2019re faced with is what makes us blind to the truth that is right in front of us\u2014<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/6-coisas-que-o-homem-nunca-amara-verdadeiramente\/\">um homem que te ama verdadeiramente<\/a> won\u2019t hesitate to commit not even for a second.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s hard to accept this, but the reality is that deep down inside, you know it\u2019s the truth. A man who loves you won\u2019t make excuses all the time.<\/p>\n<p>He won\u2019t be late for your dates, and he won\u2019t pretend he didn\u2019t see you called him.<\/p>\n<p>Um homem que a ama por\u00e1 tudo de lado porque quer estar consigo. Porque se sente vazio sem ti na sua vida.<\/p>\n<p>If he is not sure about you, if even after months of relationship he still doesn\u2019t quite know where he stands and you do, if you already see him as a part of your future, then you should really stop wasting your time.<\/p>\n<p>This thing you have going on isn\u2019t going to last much longer.<\/p>\n<p><b>What happens to people usually is\u2026<\/b><\/p>\n<p>We don\u2019t see that our relationship is shit. We can\u2019t open our eyes to see the truth; instead, we continue to live in an illusion because it makes us happy at the moment.<\/p>\n<p>But what happens when we wake up from that dream? What happens when things don\u2019t seem so good anymore?<\/p>\n<p>Well, then you look back, and you realize that all this time you\u2019ve been lying to yourself. You\u2019ve been giving him second chances in the constant hope that maybe, just maybe, this time things will turn around.<\/p>\n<p>When \u2018bad\u2019 is written all over the relationship you\u2019re in, you\u2019re going to look for the signs to see, or better said to convince yourself, that he is the one.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re going to read dozens of articles on soulmates and men who do things that show they love you.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-large wp-image-47155\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/If-You-Don\u2019t-Want-Me-Now-You\u2019ll-Never-Have-Me-20-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"A verdade \u00e9 que s\u00f3 um homem verdadeiramente apaixonado se comprometer\u00e1 de imediato\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/If-You-Don\u2019t-Want-Me-Now-You\u2019ll-Never-Have-Me-20-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/If-You-Don\u2019t-Want-Me-Now-You\u2019ll-Never-Have-Me-20-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/If-You-Don\u2019t-Want-Me-Now-You\u2019ll-Never-Have-Me-20.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><b>But what all of us forget is that when you love someone unconditionally, when you want to spend your life with him, you don\u2019t need an article filled with signs that show he\u2019s the one to actually believe he\u2019s the one. <\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>Sabe-se que ele \u00e9.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>And for as long as you continue to think otherwise, you\u2019re only wasting your time. I\u2019m sorry, I know this is tough love, and maybe it\u2019s even hard to hear, but it\u2019s true.<\/p>\n<p>And if you don\u2019t want to admit it, you probably know it deep down, you\u2019re just not ready to accept it yet.<\/p>\n<p><b>Because when you do accept, it means that you\u2019re one step closer to finding your true love.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>If you want to live in denial that your forever person is actually someone you\u2019re currently dating but is still unsure about you, who am I to tell you otherwise.<\/p>\n<p>Just remember\u2014someone who truly wants to be with you, who wants to commit to you, will defy all spiritual and physical laws and do the impossible just to have you by his side.<\/p>\n<p>He won\u2019t give a fuck about any differences between you or what others are going to say. You know why? Because his deepest wish, his biggest goal is to spend his life with you.<\/p>\n<p>If you see that the person you\u2019re with is none of those things, please just leave them. It\u2019s a scary thing to do because you\u2019re going to have to face new problems.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019ll probably be single for a while. You\u2019ll probably date a ton of wrong men.<\/p>\n<p>But the thing is that you can never know when you\u2019re going to meet the man you\u2019ve been waiting for.<\/p>\n<p>Maybe it\u2019s a few hours from now, maybe it\u2019s a month, maybe it\u2019s years.<\/p>\n<p>If your man still doesn\u2019t know exactly how he feels about you, do both of you a favor and leave or make him come to a decision. Either he is going to commit or he\u2019s going to break it off.<\/p>\n<p>A sua resposta facilitar\u00e1 certamente a sua decis\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>But in case you feel doubtful and you don\u2019t know what to do, remember one thing. <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/parar-de-esperar-indecisao-decisao\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">A sua indecis\u00e3o \u00e9 uma decis\u00e3o<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Relationships are complicated, but sometimes they are way easier than we present them to be. Sometimes we make it much harder on ourselves because we don\u2019t want to face the truth.<\/p>\n<p>We don\u2019t want to admit he is not what we want him to be\u2014<b>a nossa pessoa para sempre.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-24367 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/The-Truth-Is-Only-A-Man-Truly-In-Love-Will-Commit-Immediately-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"A verdade \u00e9 que s\u00f3 um homem verdadeiramente apaixonado se comprometer\u00e1 de imediato\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/The-Truth-Is-Only-A-Man-Truly-In-Love-Will-Commit-Immediately-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/The-Truth-Is-Only-A-Man-Truly-In-Love-Will-Commit-Immediately-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/The-Truth-Is-Only-A-Man-Truly-In-Love-Will-Commit-Immediately.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The person who is supposed to be your \u2018forever\u2019 will never treat you as an option. We are all looking for reasons why men won\u2019t commit, but we are afraid to admit to ourselves that usually, they are just not the right ones for us. We are afraid to face the fact that it was&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":24366,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-24363","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/affection-black-and-white-couple-821534.jpg",800,540,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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