{"id":2441,"date":"2017-07-11T11:16:01","date_gmt":"2017-07-11T11:16:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=2441"},"modified":"2022-02-23T01:03:11","modified_gmt":"2022-02-23T01:03:11","slug":"o-melhor-amigo-decidiu-que-nao-podia-ser-mais-amigo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-melhor-amigo-decidiu-que-nao-podia-ser-mais-amigo\/","title":{"rendered":"Para o \"melhor amigo\" de quem decidi que j\u00e1 n\u00e3o podia ser amigo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Caro amigo,<\/p>\n

Estou aqui \u00e0 vossa frente, com o cora\u00e7\u00e3o na manga, a dizer-vos a dura verdade que j\u00e1 deviam ter ouvido h\u00e1 muito tempo.<\/p>\n

I decided I couldn\u2019t be friends with you<\/a> anymore. I don\u2019t know what exactly happened to me to make a decision like this but I am happy it did.<\/p>\n

Apercebi-me que fui eu quem partiu. Fui eu que me mudei para outro s\u00edtio, que fiz outros amigos.<\/p>\n

Mas eu nunca te esqueci. E, por outro lado, tu esqueceste-me.<\/p>\n

You should know that friendship is not a one-way street. You should know that you can\u2019t take advantage of me just because we are friends. You were taking me for granted for such a long time, thinking that I will be there no matter what happens.<\/p>\n

Mas estavas enganado. Eu sou um ser humano, com um cora\u00e7\u00e3o e uma alma. Aqueles dias em que desististe de mim foram os piores da minha vida. Tive uma montanha russa de emo\u00e7\u00f5es e estive sempre em estado de choque.<\/p>\n

I can see you now with other friends, posting happy photos of you on Facebook, tagging them like best friends. Don\u2019t you know it hurts me so much when I see that?<\/p>\n

As minhas feridas emocionais ainda est\u00e3o frescas e preciso de algum tempo para voltar a entrar nos eixos.
\nNow I can see you don\u2019t care for me. Because if you did, you wouldn\u2019t do things that are hurting my feelings.<\/p>\n

I am aware of the fact that you didn\u2019t love me all this time\u2014you were jealous of me. You decided we weren\u2019t friends anymore quando deixaste de ser o meu melhor amigo<\/a>mas esperava que eu fosse tua.<\/p>\n

You decided we weren\u2019t best friends when you chose a boyfriend over me. And that was tearing my heart.<\/p>\n

Sabes, quando amas algu\u00e9m, lutas por essa pessoa. A amizade \u00e9 igual ao amor<\/a>\u2014a constant fight for things to work. But no. You stopped fighting for me. And our friendship\u2019s heart stopped beating.<\/p>\n

I blame you for killing all those nice memories we had together. I blame you because you didn\u2019t give a damn about me. And on the other hand, I was always going an extra mile for you.<\/p>\n

Eu estava l\u00e1 quando chumbaste no teu primeiro exame, a consolar-te e a dizer-te que tudo vai correr bem. Eu estava l\u00e1 quando foste enganada, a pensar numa vingan\u00e7a para aquele idiota que te deixou em l\u00e1grimas. Eu estava l\u00e1 quando o teu pai morreu, para te dizer que agora tens de ser forte.<\/p>\n

But you didn\u2019t know to cherish that. And that is something I will never forgive.<\/p>\n

A triste verdade \u00e9 que tenho estado a escolher-te quando devia estar a escolher-me a mim. Bem, querida, agora est\u00e1s a ficar sem tempo, porque eu escolho-me a mim.<\/p>\n

Sei que fiz tudo o que estava ao meu alcance para salvar a nossa amizade, mas foste tu que desististe. Por isso, estou a deixar-te ir agora. J\u00e1 n\u00e3o tenho nada a que me agarrar.<\/p>\n

\"Namoradas<\/p>\n

 <\/p>\n

No final, s\u00f3 quero agradecer-vos. Talvez estejam a pensar porqu\u00ea, certo?<\/p>\n

Bem, apesar de tudo o que aconteceu, j\u00e1 fomos amigos, melhores amigos.<\/p>\n

Obrigado por todas as boas recorda\u00e7\u00f5es e noites selvagens enquanto o resto do mundo estava a dormir. Obrigado por me deixares chorar no teu ombro quando eu estava em baixo.<\/p>\n

Thank you for fighting for me, when I didn\u2019t have strength to do that for myself. Thank you for teaching me how to be a loyal friend.<\/p>\n

Mas, acima de tudo, obrigada por ser a pessoa que finalmente me levou a escolher-me a mim pr\u00f3pria.
\nCom amor,<\/p>\n

O teu ex-melhor amigo<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Dear Friend, I am standing here in front of you, with my heart on my sleeve, telling you the harsh truth you should have heard a long time ago. I decided I couldn\u2019t be friends with you anymore. I don\u2019t know what exactly happened to me to make a decision like this but I am…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":25,"featured_media":2442,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29624],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2441","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-friends-and-family"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29624,"label":"friends&family"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/StockSnap_T55DZBQCR6.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Amy Nicholson","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/amy\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29624,"name":"friends&family","slug":"friends-and-family","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29624,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Do you want to improve your relationship with friends and family? Following these tips will help you boost your connection with your favorite people.","parent":29620,"count":316,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29624,"category_count":316,"category_description":"Do you want to improve your relationship with friends and family? Following these tips will help you boost your connection with your favorite people.","cat_name":"friends&family","category_nicename":"friends-and-family","category_parent":29620}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2441","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/25"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2441"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2441\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2442"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2441"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2441"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2441"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}