{"id":24561,"date":"2020-05-27T08:09:51","date_gmt":"2020-05-27T08:09:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=24561"},"modified":"2021-08-12T10:18:41","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T10:18:41","slug":"11-sinais-de-que-esta-a-manter-as-opcoes-em-aberto","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/11-sinais-de-que-esta-a-manter-as-opcoes-em-aberto\/","title":{"rendered":"11 Sinais de que ele est\u00e1 a manter as suas op\u00e7\u00f5es em aberto"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>N\u00e3o falar de etiquetas tornou-se uma esp\u00e9cie de tend\u00eancia nos dias que correm.<\/p>\n<p>Pode dar-se o caso de estar a sair com uma pessoa h\u00e1 meses e ainda n\u00e3o saber se h\u00e1 exclusividade ou n\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s where assumptions kick in. You assume that if he is the only one you are seeing and you don\u2019t need anybody else, that he feels and acts the same.<\/p>\n<p>But without having \u201cthe talk\u201d, you really don\u2019t know if you are the only woman in his life. Don\u2019t assume, and get to the bottom of things.<\/p>\n<p>Verifique os sinais abaixo indicados e determine se ele est\u00e1 a manter as suas op\u00e7\u00f5es em aberto.<\/p>\n<p>Keep in mind that these signs individually don\u2019t mean much, but if he is ticking most of the boxes, you are probably not the only woman he is dating:<\/p>\n<h2>1. Ele ret\u00e9m-se<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86247\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/close-up-photo-of-man-and-woman-separated-hands-1.jpg\" alt=\"fotografia em grande plano de homem e mulher de m\u00e3os separadas\" width=\"800\" height=\"541\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/close-up-photo-of-man-and-woman-separated-hands-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/close-up-photo-of-man-and-woman-separated-hands-1-300x203.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/close-up-photo-of-man-and-woman-separated-hands-1-768x519.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He is still keeping you at an arm&#8217;s length. He doesn\u2019t seem too eager to open up and let you closer.<\/p>\n<p>You mostly talk about you or some other topics that don\u2019t include him or the two of you as a couple. Whatever you have, it won\u2019t progress any further until he lets you in.<\/p>\n<p>Ser capaz de partilhar e confiar em algu\u00e9m \u00e9 o que distingue uma verdadeira rela\u00e7\u00e3o de um namoro.<\/p>\n<p>Se se abriu com ele na esperan\u00e7a de que ele seguisse o seu exemplo, mas isso n\u00e3o a levou a lado nenhum, \u00e9 prov\u00e1vel que ele n\u00e3o seja t\u00e3o <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/7-ways-know-youre-serious-relationship\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">a s\u00e9rio sobre si<\/a>u como tu queres que ele seja.<\/p>\n<h2>2. S\u00f3 envia textos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86242\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/man-typing-on-his-laptop.jpg\" alt=\"homem a escrever no seu computador port\u00e1til\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/man-typing-on-his-laptop.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/man-typing-on-his-laptop-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/man-typing-on-his-laptop-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s easier to use texts, especially during the initial phases of dating when you are still getting to know one another.<\/p>\n<p>Mas se este comportamento se mantiver e s\u00f3 receber algumas mensagens de texto aqui e ali, h\u00e1 algo que deve ser motivo de preocupa\u00e7\u00e3o da sua parte.<\/p>\n<p>Um homem que s\u00f3 gosta de si pegar\u00e1 no telefone e ligar\u00e1 para ouvir a sua voz ou far\u00e1 uma videochamada para o ver de vez em quando.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s easier to bond this way and make more profound connections\u2014that is if you want them.<\/p>\n<h2>3. Utiliza termos gen\u00e9ricos para descrever os seus planos<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86233\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/angry-man-talking-with-his-upset-girlfriend.jpg\" alt=\"homem zangado a falar com a sua namorada chateada\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/angry-man-talking-with-his-upset-girlfriend.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/angry-man-talking-with-his-upset-girlfriend-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/angry-man-talking-with-his-upset-girlfriend-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Of course, he\u2019ll have other plans, and he won\u2019t be glued to you 24\/7. But pay attention to the way he explains his whereabouts.<\/p>\n<p>More often than not, you have no clue what he is up to. He has \u201ca family thing\u201d, \u201csomething at work\u201d, \u201csome errands to run\u201d, \u201csomething a friend needs help with\u201d, etc.<\/p>\n<p>Para al\u00e9m de ser vago sobre o seu paradeiro, nunca volta a contar-lhes mais tarde.<\/p>\n<p>He never shares where he\u2019s been, what he\u2019s done or how it went. It makes you wonder, doesn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n<h2>4. Tem o h\u00e1bito de cancelar os planos \u00e0 \u00faltima da hora<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86249\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/man-having-phone-call-1.jpg\" alt=\"homem a receber uma chamada telef\u00f3nica\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/man-having-phone-call-1.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/man-having-phone-call-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/man-having-phone-call-1-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Things happen. Fife is unpredictable, and it\u2019s only natural that plans are going to get moved or canceled sometimes. Sometimes yes, but not most of the time.<\/p>\n<p>If he is juggling a few women at once, it can be pretty hard to manage his schedule. That\u2019s why he gets lost in all of it.<\/p>\n<p>Preste aten\u00e7\u00e3o. Se os outros comportamentos dele parecerem um pouco estranhos, h\u00e1 definitivamente uma raz\u00e3o para se preocupar.<\/p>\n<h2>5. He doesn\u2019t add you on his social media accounts<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86248\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/two-woman-and-one-man-using-their-phone-1.jpg\" alt=\"duas mulheres e um homem a utilizar o telem\u00f3vel\" width=\"800\" height=\"542\"><\/p>\n<p>Pode descobrir muito sobre um homem se navegar pelas suas contas nas redes sociais.<\/p>\n<p>That\u2019s why a guy who is keeping his options open will try to leave you out of it. He will come up with some great and convincing story.<\/p>\n<p>He might say he usually doesn\u2019t add people he dates, that social media complicates things and creates jealousy or something down that lane.<\/p>\n<p>The odds are he is trying to sell that story to other women, too, and it\u2019s easier to date a few people at once when they have lesser chances of finding out about one another.<\/p>\n<h2>6. Nunca deixa o telem\u00f3vel sem vigil\u00e2ncia<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86235\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/close-up-photo-of-man-putting-his-phone-in-pocket.jpg\" alt=\"fotografia em grande plano de um homem a guardar o telem\u00f3vel no bolso\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/close-up-photo-of-man-putting-his-phone-in-pocket.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/close-up-photo-of-man-putting-his-phone-in-pocket-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/close-up-photo-of-man-putting-his-phone-in-pocket-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>His phone has a better protection system than the Pentagon, and you wouldn\u2019t be able to get in even if you wanted to.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, ele nunca deixou o telem\u00f3vel perto de si e saiu do quarto.<\/p>\n<p>He also never reads his texts or answers his phone around you. He doesn\u2019t want you to see or hear anything you shouldn\u2019t.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s also not too eager to give you his phone if you need to use it for some reason. A guy with nothing to hide wouldn&#8217;t act shady in these situations.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t have to know how to unlock his phone, but he will have no problem leaving it around, answering calls or reading texts when you are by his side.<\/p>\n<h2>7. Ele desaparece de vez em quando<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86240\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/man-leaving-upset-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem a deixar mulher aborrecida\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/man-leaving-upset-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/man-leaving-upset-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/man-leaving-upset-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ele vai ser muito querido, atencioso e n\u00e3o a larga durante algum tempo, e depois vai desaparecer.<\/p>\n<p>It won\u2019t be forever. He\u2019ll be back again, acting like nothing happened or having some lame excuse up his sleeve.<\/p>\n<p>Este tipo de comportamento \u00e9 inaceit\u00e1vel. Ele est\u00e1 a desrespeit\u00e1-la, a engan\u00e1-la e pode at\u00e9 ter algum <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/10-signs-he-has-a-side-chick\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">mi\u00fada do lado<\/a>. S\u00f3 isso j\u00e1 \u00e9 uma boa raz\u00e3o para o deixarmos.<\/p>\n<h2>8. Ele tem demasiadas amigas<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86237\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/group-of-friends-posing-outside.jpg\" alt=\"grupo de amigos a posar no exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/group-of-friends-posing-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/group-of-friends-posing-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/group-of-friends-posing-outside-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Sure, he can have a few good female friends but they are all friends you know\u2014or at least you will get to know\u2014when things get a bit more serious.<\/p>\n<p>But if he never talks about them, that\u2019s a red flag right there\u2014especially if you run into them and he introduces you as one more of his many friends. It\u2019s more than obvious that something is off.<\/p>\n<h2>9. Things aren\u2019t adding up<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86241\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/man-trying-talk-to-upset-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem a tentar falar com uma mulher perturbada\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/man-trying-talk-to-upset-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/man-trying-talk-to-upset-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/man-trying-talk-to-upset-woman-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s just a matter of time before a man who multi-dates gets tangled up in his own web of lies.<\/p>\n<p>Mesmo que ele <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/9-formas-de-o-mentiroso-patologico-quebrar-os-jogos\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">dominou a mentira<\/a> como uma das suas muitas aptid\u00f5es, \u00e9 natural que, a dada altura, cometa um deslize.<\/p>\n<p>A primeira coisa que o vai desmascarar \u00e9 o facto de ter todas estas vers\u00f5es diferentes da mesma hist\u00f3ria.<\/p>\n<p>So one day he\u2019ll talk about hanging out with his friends on Friday night, and if you ask him in a few days, he spent that same Friday night chilling at home watching movies.<\/p>\n<h2>10. Falar de compromissos \u00e9 algo que ele evita habilmente<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86238\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/man-and-woman-talking-in-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"homem e mulher a conversar num caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/man-and-woman-talking-in-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/man-and-woman-talking-in-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/man-and-woman-talking-in-cafe-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ele \u00e9 t\u00e3o bom com as palavras e \u00e9 capaz de transformar todas as situa\u00e7\u00f5es para o beneficiar.<\/p>\n<p>You might have even tried to have \u201cthe talk\u201d with him, but he somehow managed to change the topic.<\/p>\n<p>Ele tamb\u00e9m pode n\u00e3o o dizer diretamente, mas mencionar\u00e1 que n\u00e3o est\u00e1 interessado em nada s\u00e9rio neste momento.<\/p>\n<p>He has a wild nature and a free spirit. He doesn\u2019t want to complicate things. He needs time, etc.<\/p>\n<p>These indirect things are pretty direct if you look at them closely. Don\u2019t allow him to lead you on.<\/p>\n<h2>11. Your gut is telling you that something\u2019s off<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86236\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/confused-woman-looking-at-man-in-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"mulher confusa a olhar para um homem num caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/confused-woman-looking-at-man-in-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/confused-woman-looking-at-man-in-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/confused-woman-looking-at-man-in-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Quantas vezes acabou numa situa\u00e7\u00e3o complicada por ter optado por ignorar o seu instinto? Demasiadas vezes, certo?<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t do it this time. If you think that something is off, talk to him directly.<\/p>\n<p>Pergunte-lhe se \u00e9 a \u00fanica pessoa com quem ele anda a sair e se voc\u00eas s\u00e3o exclusivos ou n\u00e3o. A vida \u00e9 demasiado curta para andar com rodeios e fazer jogos.<\/p>\n<p>If you are not the only woman in his life as you thought you were, it\u2019s time to wave him goodbye.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-86229\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/11-Signs-Hes-Keeping-His-Options-Open-Pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"11 Sinais de que ele est\u00e1 a manter as suas op\u00e7\u00f5es em aberto\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/11-Signs-Hes-Keeping-His-Options-Open-Pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/11-Signs-Hes-Keeping-His-Options-Open-Pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Not talking about labels has become kind of a trend these days. You might find yourself in the situation where you are seeing someone for months and still not know if you are exclusive or not. That\u2019s where assumptions kick in. You assume that if he is the only one you are seeing and you&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":86230,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29646],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-24561","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-understanding-men"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29646,"label":"understanding men"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/11-Signs-Hes-Keeping-His-Options-Open.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29646,"name":"understanding men","slug":"understanding-men","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29646,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Wondering about what's going on inside his head? 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