{"id":2457,"date":"2020-07-11T13:13:44","date_gmt":"2020-07-11T13:13:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=2457"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:42:07","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:42:07","slug":"5-sinais-de-que-ele-so-esta-a-agir-como-se-nao-se-importasse","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-sinais-de-que-ele-so-esta-a-agir-como-se-nao-se-importasse\/","title":{"rendered":"5 sinais de que ele s\u00f3 est\u00e1 agindo como se n\u00e3o estivesse nem a\u00ed"},"content":{"rendered":"

Os homens s\u00e3o mesmo idiotas ou s\u00f3 se comportam como tal?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Well, most of them who act like it are really idiots, but there are men who just pretend they don’t give a fuck because they are hiding something. <\/p>\n

I can\u2019t quite figure out why they do it, but it\u2019s true. I\u2019ve been surrounded with men my whole life. Enough to see right through them.<\/p>\n

I’m not saying I’m an expert on the whole male psychology thing, but I think I’ve cracked a code or two on why men act like jerks when in fact they are nothing like that. <\/p>\n

Most of us think that men are not so complicated, but they are\u2014more complicated than you can imagine. <\/p>\n

You see, when a woman has a problem, she’ll reach out to a friend or a family member and she’ll get it out of her system.<\/p>\n

She’ll talk it out, get a bit of advice or support, whatever she needs the most and she’ll move on.<\/p>\n

She’s not going to keep it all bottled up, go out and get hammered to ‘deal’ with her troubles. She’s not going to turn into a repulsive jerk and hurt other innocent people. <\/p>\n

N\u00e3o. Os homens fazem-no. <\/em><\/p>\n

It\u2019s easy for us, women because in a way we are labeled as the emotional ones, with no problems when it comes to expressing our feelings.<\/p>\n

Por outro lado, espera-se que os homens sejam machos e corajosos. Espera-se que lidem com tudo com facilidade, sem qualquer liga\u00e7\u00e3o emocional.<\/p>\n

Mas, pense novamente. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\u00c9 claro que os homens s\u00e3o t\u00e3o emotivos como as mulheres. Eles S\u00c3O <\/i>humanos, certo? Eles apenas t\u00eam uma forma estranha de lidar com as suas lutas e emo\u00e7\u00f5es profundas.<\/p>\n

These behaviors of theirs label them as jerks, when actually they are just grieving and trying to find a way to cope with all that\u2019s bothering them.<\/p>\n

Aqui est\u00e3o alguns sinais que todos os homens que lutam com as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es profundas projectam, atrav\u00e9s de um total idiota:<\/p>\n

1. Ele est\u00e1 a fechar-te completamente.<\/b><\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

You get the feeling he\u2019s starting to distance himself. You\u2019re right. That is his way of dealing with his deep emotions, his inner struggle.<\/p>\n

He will never admit he\u2019s upset because he thinks it will make him a wuss in your eyes. And he doesn\u2019t want to lose his \u2018I\u2019m a big macho man\u2019 attitude\u2014not in front of you.<\/p>\n

When he\u2019s feeling a bit down, he will send you a bunch of mixed signals which you are supposed to interpret.<\/p>\n

And not to mention that you’re supposed to interpret them the right way. You’re supposed to read his mind and get that he is upset. <\/p>\n

2. He has a \u2018bad boy\u2019 attitude<\/b><\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

He appears to be angry and short-tempered all the time. Everything seems to bother him, so women label him as a jerk\u2014when he\u2019s actually not.<\/p>\n

You know he is not like that. You can see that he’s changed. All this behavior is triggered by trying to deal with emotions. It\u2019s his defense mechanism.<\/p>\n

It’s the only way he can cope with his problems. <\/p>\n

Ele est\u00e1 a usar esse mau comportamento sempre que se sente exposto. Mas, por tr\u00e1s de tudo isso, ele \u00e9 um \u2018goodie-goodie\u2019<\/i> \u00e0 espera de dizer tudo o que lhe vai na alma. <\/p>\n

Ver tamb\u00e9m:<\/strong> 7 raz\u00f5es simples pelas quais as raparigas adoram os Bad Boys<\/a><\/p>\n

3. He\u2019s partying all the time<\/b><\/h2>\n

 <\/p>\n

Os homens tornam-se normalmente festeiros sempre que algo os perturba, mas especialmente se acabaram de romper com algu\u00e9m.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s their way of showing they don\u2019t care, that they are better off without them, and that it\u2019s time to move on to the next girl.<\/p>\n

It’s their way to deal pretty much everything. They think if they get hammered, they’ll forget what is going on in their lives.<\/p>\n

E fazem-no, mas na manh\u00e3 seguinte, tudo est\u00e1 na mesma. <\/p>\n

But, what’s really at stake is that deep inside they are hurting.<\/p>\n

They are missing their partners or some other issue is on their minds but they won\u2019t ever show their vulnerable sides to anyone. They won\u2019t ever admit they\u2019ve been hurt.<\/p>\n

4. He\u2019s an adrenaline junkie<\/b><\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

He needs to dare life just to feel the excitement. He needs to dare life just to distract himself from thinking about something else\u2014maybe a woman who broke his heart or a problem he’s facing. <\/p>\n

He needs his adrenaline rush to let go of the pain someone caused him\u2014it will be either adrenaline or sorrow running through his veins.<\/p>\n

5. As suas piadas s\u00e3o inapropriadas<\/b><\/h2>\n

\"Homem<\/p>\n

Ele leva as piadas grosseiras um pouco longe demais. Ele n\u00e3o tem no\u00e7\u00e3o de quando contar uma determinada piada \u00e9 apropriado ou n\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Sometimes, you just want to punch him right in the face because he’s being a complete asshole.<\/p>\n

But on the other hand, you have to understand him. It\u2019s is a sua forma de lidar com emo\u00e7\u00f5es profundas.<\/a><\/p>\n

We all have our ways. His is rude and off-putting, but at the end of the day, it\u2019s a simple defense mechanism.<\/p>\n

Os homens t\u00eam as suas pr\u00f3prias formas de lidar com as emo\u00e7\u00f5es e deve respeitar isso.  <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

Por isso, antes de acabar com eles, veja se s\u00e3o apenas idiotas ou se est\u00e3o a esconder-se atr\u00e1s de m\u00e1scaras de idiotas para lidar com emo\u00e7\u00f5es destru\u00eddas.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

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