{"id":24585,"date":"2020-04-27T10:19:53","date_gmt":"2020-04-27T10:19:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=24585"},"modified":"2022-02-23T11:03:52","modified_gmt":"2022-02-23T11:03:52","slug":"estou-farto-de-ter-o-meu-coracao-partido-e-altura-de-novas-regras","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/estou-farto-de-ter-o-meu-coracao-partido-e-altura-de-novas-regras\/","title":{"rendered":"Estou farto de ficar com o cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido - \u00c9 altura de novas regras"},"content":{"rendered":"

Sei que \u00e9 quase imposs\u00edvel proteger completamente o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o, mas vou fazer o meu melhor para reduzir as probabilidades de ele se partir.<\/p>\n

Estou exausta de ter de repetir as mesmas situa\u00e7\u00f5es.<\/p>\n

I sometimes admire myself, and all the women who have been in my shoes. We\u2019ve fallen so many times but we encontrar uma forma de se erguer de novo<\/a>. Mais forte, mais corajoso e mais determinado a seguir em frente.<\/p>\n

Depois de ter sido t\u00e3o destru\u00eddo, ser forte \u00e9, na verdade, a \u00fanica coisa que se tem.<\/p>\n

\u00c0 medida que se vai construindo, apercebe-se de que, na verdade, aprendeu muito com as suas experi\u00eancias.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s just a matter of transferring your knowledge into actions.<\/p>\n

And though it\u2019s not as simple as it sounds, sometimes it\u2019s inevitable. There comes a point in every woman\u2019s life where she has to demand to be treated as she deserves.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why I established some new rules that I am sharing with you just in case you were or are heartbroken, as I once was:<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t date a man I can\u2019t trust<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

If you don\u2019t have trust, you don\u2019t have anything. That\u2019s one of the most important things to keep in mind but I seemed to lose track of it way too often.<\/p>\n

A confian\u00e7a tem de ser conquistada. Eu sei que nem todos os homens ser\u00e3o sacana traidor<\/a> or manipulative asshole that I am used to…<\/p>\n

Mas ter\u00e3o de baixar o ritmo, ir devagar e dar-nos a oportunidade de nos conhecermos antes de passarmos de um namoro para uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Serei mais selectiva quanto ao tipo de homens com quem saio<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Estou farta de homens t\u00f3xicos. Agora consigo cheir\u00e1-los a uma milha de dist\u00e2ncia porque eles resumem a minha vida amorosa.<\/p>\n

Sou capaz de reconhecer todas as bandeiras vermelhas e todos os sinais de aviso.<\/p>\n

Sei que, por vezes, tamb\u00e9m vou fazer as coisas mal. Sei que existe a possibilidade de me magoar novamente, mas pelo menos saberei o que n\u00e3o devo tolerar.<\/p>\n

Ignorarei as mensagens que chegam demasiado tarde<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I will resist the urge to answer a message that comes when it\u2019s already too late. When my heart is broken and my dreams are shattered.<\/p>\n

Ignorarei as mensagens que chegam tarde da noite e que s\u00e3o claramente uma engate<\/a>. Nunca enviarei uma mensagem de seguimento se n\u00e3o obtiver resposta.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t be anybody’s toy<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I am tired of playing games. I don\u2019t want to be taken for granted or messed around with. The only way I will prevent that is if I don\u2019t allow it.<\/p>\n

Quero algu\u00e9m que seja consistente. Algu\u00e9m que mande mensagens, telefone, apare\u00e7a e arranje tempo para mim.<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t want empty promises or lame excuses. I want to know that somebody cares about me as much as I do for him.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t chase after love<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

There’s no point in chasing after love. Love has to go both ways. All the affection, attention and investments have to be reciprocated.<\/p>\n

Estou farto de ser aquele que d\u00e1 mais e n\u00e3o recebe nada em troca. Estou farto de estar com algu\u00e9m e sentir-me sozinho.<\/p>\n

I want someone who makes the efforts. Someone who matches my investments. Someone who cares and isn’t afraid to show it.<\/p>\n

Serei a minha pr\u00f3pria prioridade<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

It\u2019s hard to admit but I used to lose sight of myself because of love. I was so focused on that other person.<\/p>\n

Concentrei-me nas necessidades deles e esqueci-me das minhas. E repeti esse mesmo erro mais do que uma vez.<\/p>\n

Demorei muito tempo a perceber que tamb\u00e9m sou necess\u00e1ria, que tamb\u00e9m sou importante e que sou digna de amor. Mas, primeiro, tenho de dar esse mesmo amor a mim pr\u00f3pria.<\/p>\n

Reconstru\u00ed a minha vida. Tenho os meus interesses, sonhos e objectivos. Tenho uma vida. Agora sei que amar algu\u00e9m nunca deve excluir amor-pr\u00f3prio<\/a>, deve dar-lhe poder.<\/p>\n

Estabelecerei normas e mant\u00ea-las-ei<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t tolerate being treated badly anymore. I know I deserve better. I won\u2019t stick around when I know I have to walk away. I refuse to be strung along.<\/p>\n

I won\u2019t allow anybody to mess with my feelings and complicate my life. There is someone out there who will show me that love should never make me suffer.<\/p>\n

Com o passar do tempo, acrescentarei a esta lista, tenho a certeza. O que sei \u00e9 que, com estas novas regras, as coisas j\u00e1 est\u00e3o a melhorar.<\/p>\n

I am more satisfied with myself and my life. And that’s where it all begins. Within me.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o me estou a fechar ao amor, mas estou a guardar o meu cora\u00e7\u00e3o por agora. Estou a mant\u00ea-lo t\u00e3o seguro quanto poss\u00edvel at\u00e9 que apare\u00e7a algu\u00e9m que mere\u00e7a uma oportunidade de estar presente.<\/p>\n

\"Estou<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I realize that it is almost impossible to protect my heart completely but I am going to do my best to lower those odds of it getting broken. I am just exhausted from going through the same scenarios all over again. I sometimes admire myself, and all the women who have been in my shoes….<\/p>","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":80048,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29644],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-24585","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-self-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29644,"label":"self-love"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/09\/I-Am-Done-With-Getting-My-Heart-Broken-It\u2019s-Time-For-New-Rules.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tina Navarro","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tatiana\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29644,"name":"self-love","slug":"self-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29644,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","parent":29643,"count":290,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29644,"category_count":290,"category_description":"Self-love is not an option but a necessity. Boost your self-confidence, learn to love yourself and ditch toxicity because you deserve to be happy.","cat_name":"self-love","category_nicename":"self-love","category_parent":29643}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24585","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=24585"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/24585\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/80048"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=24585"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=24585"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=24585"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}