{"id":24617,"date":"2020-02-20T07:17:39","date_gmt":"2020-02-20T07:17:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=24617"},"modified":"2022-01-30T21:15:42","modified_gmt":"2022-01-30T21:15:42","slug":"deixei-de-o-perseguir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/deixei-de-o-perseguir\/","title":{"rendered":"20 coisas que aprendi depois de parar de o perseguir"},"content":{"rendered":"

1. You can\u2019t catch happiness.<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o podes for\u00e7\u00e1-lo a bater \u00e0 tua porta. Acontecer\u00e1, mas n\u00e3o quando tu quiseres. Acontecer\u00e1 quando for a altura certa.<\/p>\n

2. Nenhum homem \u00e9 digno de tanto do teu tempo.<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Ele s\u00f3 estava a fazer-me perder tempo e a enganar-me. Ele sabia que n\u00e3o ia acontecer nada entre n\u00f3s os dois, mas gostava da aten\u00e7\u00e3o. Por isso, eu deixou de o perseguir<\/a> e comecei a dar um pouco mais de valor a mim pr\u00f3prio e ao meu tempo.<\/p>\n

3. Waiting for a text for more than an hour means he doesn\u2019t like you.<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Se ele gostasse mesmo de si, seria impaciente e teria o telem\u00f3vel sempre consigo caso lhe tenhas enviado uma mensagem<\/a>. He couldn\u2019t wait to hear from you.<\/p>\n

Tudo o resto significa que ele n\u00e3o est\u00e1 assim t\u00e3o interessado.<\/p>\n

4. Acabamos sempre por perseguir os errados.<\/h2>\n

\"rapariga<\/p>\n

The moment I realized he wasn\u2019t worth chasing or giving him any kind of attention, and I gave up, another man walked into my life.<\/p>\n

A man who deserved to be chased but a man who didn\u2019t let me chase him.<\/p>\n

Um homem que me perseguiu.<\/p>\n

5. Por vezes, uma pessoa tem de ser brutalmente honesta.<\/h2>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

That\u2019s the only way to salvar-se de maus relacionamentos e desgostos<\/a>. You have to be straight about what you like and don\u2019t like.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso ser transparente quanto ao que se pretende.<\/p>\n

6. Senti-me indesejada por causa dele.<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Ele fez-me sentir assim. De certa forma, rejeitou-me. Nunca disse essas palavras de rejei\u00e7\u00e3o, mas o facto de ter ficado calado foi uma rejei\u00e7\u00e3o em si mesmo.<\/p>\n

So, I felt like shit, I felt undesirable but just because he didn\u2019t like me, that didn\u2019t mean no one else did. I was just blind to see that. I saw only him.<\/p>\n

7. Eu queria um amor verdadeiro e ele queria algo para al\u00e9m disso.<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Let\u2019s say we weren\u2019t on the same page.<\/p>\n

8. Os rapazes jogam jogos, ao contr\u00e1rio dos homens.<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Men are honest and mature. Men don\u2019t string you along. Men mean what they say.<\/p>\n

9. Quase todas as rela\u00e7\u00f5es s\u00e3o uma tortura.<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You\u2019re always chasing someone who cannot be caught. You\u2019re trying your best, you\u2019re making their wishes come true but there is nothing in it for you.<\/p>\n

Acabamos de m\u00e3os vazias e magoados.<\/p>\n

10. Tu \u00e9 que mereces ser perseguido.<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You\u2019re smart and beautiful, and men should have to fight over you. Don\u2019t let yourself chase anyone, it never ends well.<\/p>\n

11. You\u2019ll wonder if there is something wrong with you.<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll feel like you\u2019re not good enough because despite your efforts, that person still doesn\u2019t appreciate you.<\/p>\n

A bunch of insecurities will come to the surface and a lot of time will have to pass for you to realize that it wasn\u2019t your fault he sent you sinais contradit\u00f3rios<\/a>.<\/p>\n

12. You\u2019re allowed to plan one or two dates but nothing more.<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

If you\u2019re the one planning where you\u2019ll go next, it means that you\u2019re the only one trying.<\/p>\n

13. Never get up and go to him in the middle of the night, especially if you haven\u2019t heard from him in a few days.<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

He\u2019s only calling because he needs someone by his side. He needs fun, distraction or whatever. He is not serious about you.<\/p>\n

14. Don\u2019t date him if he is not sure about you from the start.<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

He isn\u2019t going to change his mind. He is going to string you along until something better comes along.<\/p>\n

A man in love won\u2019t spend a second longer than he needs in order to be with you.<\/p>\n

15. You can\u2019t force someone to date you.<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Se gosta dele, tudo bem, mas se o sentimento n\u00e3o for m\u00fatuo, o melhor cen\u00e1rio \u00e9 acabar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o unilateral.<\/p>\n

16. N\u00e3o h\u00e1 qualquer significado oculto nas suas palavras.<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I know that every time he messages you or sends you something, you\u2019re trying to figure out whether he meant something else.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re hoping that his indifference toward you is actually love, in a hidden meaning.<\/p>\n

17. You\u2019re going to hate him for making you give him everything and getting nothing in return.<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Essa paix\u00e3o do in\u00edcio transformar-se-\u00e1 em ressentimento.<\/p>\n

18. No matter how attractive he is, don\u2019t fall for him.<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

He\u2019s picked up so many women like that before you and it always ended up the same. They were all chasing him.<\/p>\n

19. Uma coisa \u00e9 certa, ele nunca vai mudar de ideias.<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

So if you comfort yourself with the thought that he\u2019ll change, you\u2019re wrong. That is only prolonging your agony.<\/p>\n

20. A persegui\u00e7\u00e3o nunca acaba bem.<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Procure algu\u00e9m que goste de si tanto quanto voc\u00ea gosta dele. Essa rela\u00e7\u00e3o tem potencial para ser feliz.<\/p>\n

\"20<\/p>\n

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