{"id":24621,"date":"2020-08-28T07:36:15","date_gmt":"2020-08-28T07:36:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=24621"},"modified":"2022-01-14T02:08:58","modified_gmt":"2022-01-14T02:08:58","slug":"porque-e-que-os-homens-tem-medo-de-abordar-as-mulheres-6-razoes-comprovadas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/porque-e-que-os-homens-tem-medo-de-abordar-as-mulheres-6-razoes-comprovadas\/","title":{"rendered":"Porque \u00e9 que os homens t\u00eam medo de abordar as mulheres? 6 raz\u00f5es comprovadas"},"content":{"rendered":"

Approaching new people is never an easy decision but it gets even harder if a guy likes a girl and wants to get to know her better. He would like to approach her but doesn\u2019t know how.<\/p>\n

He is afraid of rejection and he isn\u2019t sure about himself. He is afraid that he will make a fool out of himself if he says something inappropriate. And in most cases, he quits.<\/p>\n

Maybe he will try again once he drinks a bit more and gets an ego boost from alcohol but he surely won\u2019t come close to a beautiful girl sober. So, the question is: Why are guys afraid to approach some women?<\/p>\n

Somos t\u00e3o intimidantes que \u00e9 imposs\u00edvel convidar-nos para uma ch\u00e1vena de caf\u00e9? Descubra as respostas a todas estas perguntas na lista abaixo!<\/p>\n

T\u00eam medo da rejei\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Quando um homem v\u00ea uma mulher que lhe parece t\u00e3o atraente, perde imediatamente a cabe\u00e7a por ela. O seu c\u00e9rebro est\u00e1 a trabalhar ao m\u00e1ximo e ele tenta encontrar boas formas de a seduzir e de a tornar sua.<\/p>\n

Come\u00e7a a fazer coisas que nunca fez e sente-se mal por isso. Alguns rapazes ficam muito nervosos e come\u00e7am a ter alguns tiques que parecem totalmente antinaturais. E quando v\u00eaem como est\u00e3o ansiosos e com mau aspeto, decidem adiar esse momento.<\/p>\n

The worst thing for them would be if the girl they like so much rejects them because they don\u2019t look as natural as they really are.<\/p>\n

T\u00eam medo do que a rapariga de quem se aproximam possa pensar deles<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Por vezes, os homens pensam demasiado. Pensam demasiado nas coisas<\/a> that haven\u2019t happened yet and they are scared about what could happen if something goes wrong.<\/p>\n

Their wish to approach a girl is considerable but the fear of being ashamed is even bigger. They simply don\u2019t know how the girl they are approaching will react when they show up in front of her. They don\u2019t know what she will think of them.<\/p>\n

Ser\u00e1 que ela os vai achar estranhos, engra\u00e7ados ou est\u00fapidos? E enquanto pensam assim, perdem toda a vontade de abordar a rapariga e simplesmente desistem.<\/p>\n

They think they don\u2019t deserve her<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

Por muito bonito que um rapaz seja, vai ter medo quando quiser abordar uma rapariga. Ele vai pensar que n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficientemente bom para ela e que ela o vai rejeitar.<\/p>\n

He doesn\u2019t have autoestima suficiente<\/a> and he thinks that she will think the worst about him. That\u2019s why guys miss many chances to get to know a girl they like so much. Maybe that girl would be glad that a guy is interested in her and she wouldn\u2019t think anything bad.<\/p>\n

But since guys don\u2019t know that, they blow their chance of a great relationship.<\/p>\n

They are so anxious that they can\u2019t act normal<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

There are guys who are open and they don\u2019t have any problems with approaching a girl. But there are also guys who get so anxious when they want to approach a girl that they start having a real panic attack.<\/p>\n

Their palms start to get sweat, they feel dizzy, they don\u2019t know how to properly say normal sentences and they act like they have never spoken before. And because of something like this, they simply give up on approaching a girl.<\/p>\n

Por muito que queiram aquela rapariga e por muito que gostem dela, preferem afastar-se e ficar sozinhos porque t\u00eam medo do que possa acontecer se derem o primeiro passo.<\/p>\n

T\u00eam medo de ser criticados<\/h2>\n

\"um<\/p>\n

There are guys who have a fear that they will be judged and criticized by a woman they want to approach. They fear that she will think they are weird and that they even don\u2019t know how to hit on a woman.<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t want to get hurt or to feel bad and that is the reason they hold off from any contact with girls. Only one they drink another glass of wine will they get the ego boost they need to approach a girl and ask her out on a date.<\/p>\n

In a situation like that, they won\u2019t be scared of anything and they won\u2019t think about the bad things that could happen in the process.<\/p>\n

Acham que n\u00e3o s\u00e3o suficientemente bons<\/h2>\n

\"o<\/p>\n

Quando um rapaz pensa que n\u00e3o \u00e9 suficientemente bom, nunca ter\u00e1 coragem suficiente para abordar uma rapariga. Ele vai pensar que ela pode encontrar uma m\u00e3e melhor<\/a>n do que ele e ele perder\u00e1 a oportunidade de ser feliz.<\/p>\n

That is their biggest mistake because girls actually just want a normal and good boy who will treat them like they deserve. They will also be anxious and won\u2019t feel so comfortable in the beginning but as soon as they get to know a man, they will feel much better.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why we should never miss out on new things in life because we don\u2019t know which ones of them will be great!<\/p>\n

\"Porque<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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