{"id":24822,"date":"2018-10-02T07:56:47","date_gmt":"2018-10-02T07:56:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=24822"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:27:44","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:27:44","slug":"se-lhe-estas-a-enviar-estas-7-mensagens-estas-quase-numa-relacao","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/se-lhe-estas-a-enviar-estas-7-mensagens-estas-quase-numa-relacao\/","title":{"rendered":"Se lhe est\u00e1s a enviar estes 7 textos, est\u00e1s quase a ter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o"},"content":{"rendered":"<h2>1. \u201cDo you want to come over?\u201d<\/h2>\n<p>Encontra sempre algo divertido para fazer. Convida-o para sair, encomenda comida, escolhe um filme ou uma s\u00e9rie no Netflix, cozinha uma refei\u00e7\u00e3o caseira, etc. A quest\u00e3o \u00e9 que faz tudo.<\/p>\n<p>And it\u2019s like that most of the time. You are the one <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/vou-dar-te-o-mesmo-esforco-que-me-das-a-mim\/\">fazer um esfor\u00e7o<\/a> e isso inclui fazer planos. Est\u00e1 a esfor\u00e7ar-se demasiado e ele quase nunca o faz, o que a coloca na posi\u00e7\u00e3o de quase namorada.<\/p>\n<h2>2. \u201cI had a great time the other night\u201d<\/h2>\n<p>Embora pare\u00e7a um gesto simp\u00e1tico enviar uma mensagem a dizer que se divertiu muito, tamb\u00e9m depende se realmente se divertiu muito e tem necessidade de partilhar isso com ele ou se est\u00e1 a arranjar uma desculpa para lhe enviar uma mensagem.<\/p>\n<p>Outro ponto importante \u00e9 que, se ele fosse seu namorado de verdade, voc\u00ea provavelmente diria isso a ele cara a cara e n\u00e3o se esconderia atr\u00e1s de um texto.<\/p>\n<h2>3. \u201cGood morning\/Goodnight.\u201d<\/h2>\n<p>Estes textos v\u00eam de ambos os lados? T\u00eam sempre de enviar mensagens de texto ou t\u00eam a oportunidade de o dizer cara a cara? Ele dorme c\u00e1 em casa ou vai a correr para casa depois de sair ou de ter rela\u00e7\u00f5es sexuais?<\/p>\n<p>Todas estas perguntas s\u00e3o importantes e devem ser respondidas com sinceridade. Se \u00e9 a \u00fanica a enviar mensagens de texto e se ele nunca ou raramente dorme c\u00e1 em casa, \u00e9 prov\u00e1vel que estejam numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o quase perfeita.<\/p>\n<h2>4. \u201cAre you free to go with me\u2026?\u201d<\/h2>\n<p>You don\u2019t really know if you can ask him to go with you somewhere like a family gathering, your friend\u2019s party, a concert next month, etc.<\/p>\n<p>But you ask him anyway and the answer is usually no. If he doesn\u2019t say right away, he says he\u2019ll see, then he cancels last minute.<\/p>\n<p>The sole fact that you are nervous about asking him indicates that you are with someone who you don\u2019t know where you stand with.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-24827 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Untitled-design-36.png\" alt=\"Se lhe est\u00e1s a enviar estes 7 textos, est\u00e1s quase a ter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o \" width=\"540\" height=\"810\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Untitled-design-36.png 540w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/Untitled-design-36-200x300.png 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 540px) 100vw, 540px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2>5. \u201cAre we still on for next week?\u201d<\/h2>\n<p>Esta \u00e9 uma pergunta a que ele n\u00e3o responde ou responde de forma vaga. Sabe-o no fundo do seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o, mas espera uma resposta positiva.<\/p>\n<p>Se j\u00e1 combinaram fazer alguma coisa na pr\u00f3xima semana e se j\u00e1 planearam isso, n\u00e3o vale a pena perguntar-lhe duas vezes. Se ele estivesse ansioso por ir, j\u00e1 lho teria dito.<\/p>\n<h2>6. \u201cHow was your day\/weekend\/work?\u201d<\/h2>\n<p>Let\u2019s face it\u2014these questions are pretty common in real relationships too. The big difference is that when you are in an almost relationship, you are the only one asking them.<\/p>\n<p>It hardly ever crosses his mind to do the same. He doesn\u2019t really care much about your day, weekend or work. It\u2019s a harsh reality but your life isn\u2019t his business and he is making it obvious.<\/p>\n<h2>7. \u201cWe need to talk.\u201d<\/h2>\n<p>This is the text you don\u2019t want to send but you will eventually. There will come a point in your almost relationship when it will be all or nothing.<\/p>\n<p>Vais ficar cansado de toda esta confus\u00e3o. Vai doer. Sentir-se-\u00e1 desvalorizado e <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/carta-que-o-homem-tomou-como-garantida\/\">dado por adquirido<\/a> e vai querer saber se voc\u00eas est\u00e3o a chegar a algum lado ou se \u00e9 altura de acabar com a quase rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>1. \u201cDo you want to come over?\u201d You always find something fun to do. You ask him to hang out, you order takeout, you choose a movie or a series on Netflix, you cook a homemade meal, etc. The point is you do it all. And it\u2019s like that most of the time. 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