{"id":24829,"date":"2020-06-02T10:39:57","date_gmt":"2020-06-02T10:39:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=24829"},"modified":"2022-08-25T12:00:58","modified_gmt":"2022-08-25T12:00:58","slug":"10-coisas-que-os-narcisistas-nunca-fazem","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-coisas-que-os-narcisistas-nunca-fazem\/","title":{"rendered":"10 coisas que os narcisistas nunca fazem"},"content":{"rendered":"

L\u00ea-se sobre os sinais de alerta sempre que se abre um artigo sobre narcisistas. L\u00ea-se sobre como reconhec\u00ea-los, quais s\u00e3o as suas caracter\u00edsticas e que eles s\u00e3o mestres em manipula\u00e7\u00e3o<\/a>, enganos, etc.<\/p>\n

A narcissist will do this and that\u2014they lie, manipulate and act to be something they are not. But isn’t it almost impossible to recognize a narcissist by the things he does because as I recall, the most common warning sign is that they pretend to be something they are not?<\/p>\n

Como \u00e9 que se pode saber se est\u00e3o a fingir ser bons ou se o s\u00e3o realmente?<\/b><\/p>\n

Uma vez que engan\u00e1-lo e convenc\u00ea-lo de falsas verdades \u00e9 praticamente a melhor coisa que eles fazem, esta n\u00e3o \u00e9 uma boa maneira de desmascarar o seu disfarce e ter a certeza de que \u00e9 um narcisista.<\/p>\n

Mas o que se pode fazer \u00e9 procurar as coisas que um narcisista nunca faria<\/a>O que \u00e9 que o seu filho quer \u00e9 algo que n\u00e3o seja consistente com a sua personalidade, algo que envolva empatia ou preocupa\u00e7\u00e3o com os outros.<\/p>\n

No matter how good of an actor he is, a narcissist will never do something that doesn\u2019t concern him, something that doesn\u2019t benefit him.<\/p>\n

Here is where you can catch a narcissist off guard because they won\u2019t expect you to look at things from that angle. Here is where they will definitely make a mistake because they can\u2019t help themselves.<\/p>\n

They can act all they want but they can\u2019t act emotions and they can\u2019t fake good deeds. It\u2019s against who they are and how they think.<\/p>\n

Here is a list of things that will help you blow a narcissist\u2019s cover\u2014a list of things a narcisista<\/a> nunca o faria:<\/p>\n

1. Detestam perder o controlo<\/h2>\n

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Narcissists like acting like they own you, like they are your master. They like to think that you\u2019re completely incapable of doing anything without their supervision or their help.<\/p>\n

Mas tudo o que \u00e9 preciso para detetar um narcisista \u00e9 ver como ele age quando perde o controlo, quando j\u00e1 n\u00e3o manda na sua vida. Se o controlo for reduzido e voc\u00ea recuperar a raz\u00e3o, ele passa-se completamente.<\/p>\n

They\u2019ll become angry and upset and you won\u2019t know the reason why. If this is the case then you can be sure that his behavior is an indicator of a narcissistic personality.<\/p>\n

2. Nunca mostram quem realmente s\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

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When you first meet them they are perfect, maybe even a bit too perfect, which should be suspicious right from the start. They\u2019ll hide their manipulative behavior by pretending to be sweet and kind.<\/p>\n

They will reveal their true colors but only later when it\u2019s too late for you to walk away no strings attached.<\/p>\n

3. They don\u2019t let anyone prove them wrong<\/h2>\n

 <\/p>\n

Uma das suas armas mais fortes \u00e9 um ato de manipula\u00e7\u00e3o, quando tentam convencer-nos de coisas que n\u00e3o s\u00e3o reais, que nunca aconteceram.<\/p>\n

Even if they are caught lying to you, they won\u2019t let it go. They\u2019ll stick to their version of the truth.<\/p>\n

Having a discussion with a narcissist is just a waste of time. You won\u2019t win, that\u2019s for sure, you can only get hurt in this painful process.<\/p>\n

No final, eles manipulam-no para que compre a hist\u00f3ria deles, mesmo que tenha tido sempre raz\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Relacionadas: 52 Coisas Manipuladoras que os Narcisistas Dizem Numa Discuss\u00e3o<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

4. Nunca pedir\u00e3o desculpa<\/h2>\n

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Not only that they will manipulate you into thinking that you\u2019re wrong but they will truly believe that they are right.<\/p>\n

Pensam que s\u00e3o incapazes de cometer um erro porque, aos seus olhos, s\u00e3o a pura perfei\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Even if they make a mistake, you won\u2019t hear an apology. In their mind, everything that goes wrong around them is someone else\u2019s fault and never theirs.<\/p>\n

5. Eles nunca te v\u00e3o perdoar<\/h2>\n

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Their expectations is the only thing that matters. And if you fail them, if you don\u2019t live up to what they expect from you, they will never let it go.<\/p>\n

Even if you say that you\u2019re sorry, it won\u2019t cut it.<\/p>\n

De cada vez que discutem, a pessoa volta a falar da altura em que fez algo de errado e, apesar do pedido de desculpas, continua a empurrar-lhe esse erro na cara. Nunca o v\u00e3o esquecer.<\/p>\n

Quando t\u00eam de escolher entre o perd\u00e3o e a vingan\u00e7a, optam sempre pela vingan\u00e7a.<\/p>\n

6. They don\u2019t have an equal<\/h2>\n

 <\/p>\n

Na sua mente, n\u00e3o h\u00e1 ningu\u00e9m melhor do que eles. Ningu\u00e9m \u00e9 t\u00e3o inteligente ou t\u00e3o bonito como eles.<\/p>\n

S\u00e3o simplesmente um reflexo de pura perfei\u00e7\u00e3o. Est\u00e3o acima de todos os outros.<\/p>\n

Quando vemos uma pessoa com tanta confian\u00e7a, temos de perceber que algo est\u00e1 terrivelmente errado. Ningu\u00e9m deveria ter uma opini\u00e3o t\u00e3o elevada sobre si pr\u00f3prio e toda a gente tem inseguran\u00e7as.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s your huge, red, warning sign right there\u2014his gigantic ego.<\/p>\n

7. Nunca demonstram empatia<\/h2>\n

 <\/p>\n

Other people\u2019s suffering or happiness, whether it\u2019s a good or bad feeling, has no effect on narcissists. They are unable to understand feelings.<\/p>\n

The only thing they care about is themselves. They are extremely insensitive and they won\u2019t think twice about saying something hurtful to anyone because they don\u2019t care how that person is going to react or feel afterward.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t confuse honesty with lack of empathy. Because even when you have to be brutally honest, you\u2019re not going to be indifferent to that person\u2019s feelings.<\/p>\n

8. They don\u2019t listen<\/h2>\n

 <\/p>\n

They will pretend to listen to you until you shut up, and that is when they are going to blurt out everything that is on their mind. What you\u2019ve said doesn\u2019t interest them at all.<\/p>\n

This happens because they don\u2019t respect you or anything that\u2019s on your mind. The only important thing is what they think and how they feel. Others don\u2019t matter.<\/p>\n

9. N\u00e3o s\u00e3o educados<\/h2>\n

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It doesn\u2019t matter whether they are rude to a stranger on the street or your friends\u2014narcissists can\u2019t be polite because they don\u2019t care about other people\u2019s feelings.<\/p>\n

They will act rudely and be inconsiderate to the people you love because those people don\u2019t mean anything to them. The only person who matters is the narcissist himself.<\/p>\n

10. They don\u2019t give compliments<\/h2>\n

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They don\u2019t want others to feel good about themselves. They want others to feel like crap so narcissists can feel better, greater and more important than them.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why they never give compliments, they just want to get them. If you get a compliment from a narcissist, you should really look into it, because it\u2019s probably just a tactic for something far more serious.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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