{"id":24930,"date":"2018-10-03T06:47:44","date_gmt":"2018-10-03T06:47:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=24930"},"modified":"2022-01-20T15:44:48","modified_gmt":"2022-01-20T15:44:48","slug":"nunca-deves-mudar-quem-es-para-te-tornares-numa-esposa-material","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nunca-deves-mudar-quem-es-para-te-tornares-numa-esposa-material\/","title":{"rendered":"Nunca deves mudar quem \u00e9s para te tornares \"material de esposa\""},"content":{"rendered":"<p>O que \u00e9 exatamente o material da esposa? Quem \u00e9 que escreve as regras? Quem define os padr\u00f5es? Quem garante que o facto de se encaixar na caixa de material de esposa garantir\u00e1 um casamento feliz?<\/p>\n<p>I really started to worry when I read some articles about what makes good wife material. It\u2019s like the 1950\u2019s all over again.<\/p>\n<p>Basicamente, est\u00e3o a dizer que uma mulher deve ser obediente e servir o marido, que deve ter instintos maternais e ser dona de casa, etc., etc.<\/p>\n<p><em><b>And all I can say is that is all BS. A woman doesn\u2019t have to do anything or be anything unless she wants to. For the right men, that will constitute perfect wife material.<\/b><\/em><\/p>\n<p>There are so many things people say a woman should and shouldn\u2019t do, but there is only one that is true: all you should do is stay true to yourself, and be honest about it.<\/p>\n<p>So what if you don\u2019t want to give up your career, ambitions and dreams to fit the role of a wife? The two shouldn\u2019t exclude one another.<\/p>\n<p>Why wouldn\u2019t you cook and prepare delicious meals if you enjoyed doing that? Why wouldn\u2019t you be a stay-at-home mom if you wanted to?<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/8-razoes-comuns-pelas-quais-um-homem-nao-quer-por-etiqueta-numa-relacao\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Quando se trata de rela\u00e7\u00f5es, os r\u00f3tulos<\/a> s\u00e3o uma coisa positiva. Mas quando se trata de rotular uma mulher, os r\u00f3tulos s\u00e3o completamente desnecess\u00e1rios.<\/p>\n<p><em><b>Podes fazer e ser tudo o que quiseres. Afinal, \u00e9s uma mulher.<\/b><\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-24933 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/8-Things-He-Will-Do-ONLY-If-You-Are-In-A-Committed-Relationship-2-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Podes fazer e ser tudo o que quiseres. Afinal, \u00e9s uma mulher.\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/8-Things-He-Will-Do-ONLY-If-You-Are-In-A-Committed-Relationship-2-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/8-Things-He-Will-Do-ONLY-If-You-Are-In-A-Committed-Relationship-2-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/8-Things-He-Will-Do-ONLY-If-You-Are-In-A-Committed-Relationship-2.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let anybody shape you to fit their box. Don\u2019t let them tell you that a woman who is wife material laughs when she feels like crying.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let them tell you that a woman stays silent when she feels the need to speak. Problems should be faced and discussed, not mopped under the carpet.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let them tell you that a woman should sacrifice her own happiness for the man she loves. When love is true, there is no need for sacrifice and putting yourself last.<\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t let them tell you that you should put up with somebody&#8217;s poor behavior, cheating or abuse because you are his wife on paper. If you were truly a wife in his heart, he would never treat you like that.<\/p>\n<p>O homem com quem \u00e9 suposto estar ir\u00e1 aceit\u00e1-la tal como \u00e9. Admirar\u00e1 as suas virtudes e abra\u00e7ar\u00e1 os seus defeitos, tal como voc\u00ea os dele.<\/p>\n<p>He won\u2019t<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/nunca-mudam-para-um-homem-a-nao-ser-que-estas-5-coisas-comecem-a-acontecer\/\"> tentar mudar-te<\/a>. He won\u2019t push you to do anything you don\u2019t want to do. He will never try to make you feel less. Instead, he will adore your uniqueness.<\/p>\n<p><em><b>A verdade \u00e9 para o homem certo, <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/diferenca-entre-alma-gemea-e-parceiro-de-vida\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">a sua alma g\u00e9mea<\/a>Se o seu marido for o seu melhor amigo, o seu melhor amigo e o seu amante, ser\u00e1 uma esposa sem tentar s\u00ea-lo. Ser\u00e1s a melhor esposa que existe porque ele vai amar-te tal como \u00e9s.<\/b><\/em><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-24932 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/8-Things-He-Will-Do-ONLY-If-You-Are-In-A-Committed-Relationship-1-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"Nunca deves mudar quem \u00e9s para te tornares &quot;material de esposa&quot; \" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/8-Things-He-Will-Do-ONLY-If-You-Are-In-A-Committed-Relationship-1-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/8-Things-He-Will-Do-ONLY-If-You-Are-In-A-Committed-Relationship-1-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/8-Things-He-Will-Do-ONLY-If-You-Are-In-A-Committed-Relationship-1.jpg 735w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What is wife material exactly? Who writes the rules? Who makes up the standards? Who guarantees that fitting the box of wife material will guarantee a happy marriage? I really started to worry when I read some articles about what makes good wife material. It\u2019s like the 1950\u2019s all over again. Basically, they are saying&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":24931,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-24930","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/jose-martinez-776754-unsplash.jpg",800,533,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. 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