{"id":24966,"date":"2020-05-03T11:18:40","date_gmt":"2020-05-03T11:18:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=24966"},"modified":"2021-08-11T13:34:03","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T13:34:03","slug":"e-por-isso-que-ela-nao-pode-continuar-a-perdoar-te","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/e-por-isso-que-ela-nao-pode-continuar-a-perdoar-te\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c9 por isso que ela n\u00e3o consegue continuar a perdoar-te"},"content":{"rendered":"

Durante muito tempo, esta rapariga acreditou em todas as suas promessas, enquanto voc\u00ea n\u00e3o fazia mais do que engan\u00e1-la.<\/p>\n

She kept trying to find excuses for you mistreating her and kept hoping that you\u2019d become the man you swore you\u2019d be.<\/p>\n

She kept justifying you and kept waiting for you to change your ways. She kept forgiving you for everything you\u2019d been putting her through.<\/p>\n

Podias ter pensado que ela era tola por acreditar em ti e por te perdoar sempre. Podias t\u00ea-la considerado louca. Mas a verdade \u00e9 que ela s\u00f3 estava louca por ti.<\/p>\n

Porque esta rapariga \u00e9 tudo menos est\u00fapida. E foi por isso que ela decidiu que j\u00e1 estava farta. \u00c9 por isso que ela decidiu p\u00f4r fim a esta charada e dizer o seu despedida final<\/a>.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

A verdade \u00e9 que ela ainda tem um cora\u00e7\u00e3o de ouro, mas j\u00e1 n\u00e3o h\u00e1 lugar para si nele.<\/p>\n

\u017eThe truth is that this girl is done with believing in your lies. The truth is that she can\u2019t keep forgiving you and that she doesn\u2019t want to let you play with her anymore.<\/p>\n

Tu sabes, she can\u2019t keep forgiving you because you\u2019ve violated her trust more than once. <\/b><\/p>\n

Porque de cada vez que ela come\u00e7ou a acreditar que desta vez seria diferente e que tu irias finalmente mudar, acabaste por fazer algo ainda pior do que antes.<\/p>\n

This girl isn\u2019t someone who will cut you off on your first strike because she believes in people. And she believed in you, even when that was the last thing you deserved.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

But she doesn\u2019t want to continue forgiving you because you\u2019ve really crossed the line. Because she is sick and tired of giving you endless second chances.<\/p>\n

Porque de cada vez que ela te aceitou de volta e de cada vez que decidiu dar outra oportunidade a esta rela\u00e7\u00e3o, tu estragaste tudo. Estragaste todas as oportunidades que ela te deu.<\/p>\n

Nunca viste o perd\u00e3o dela como uma oportunidade para fazeres melhor. Em vez disso, agiu como se ela lhe estivesse a dar permiss\u00e3o para continuar a mago\u00e1-la, como se lhe desse luz verde para continuar a partir-lhe o cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/b><\/p>\n

Ela n\u00e3o pode continuar a perdoar-te porque come\u00e7aste a tom\u00e1-la por garantida<\/b> h\u00e1 algum tempo.<\/p>\n

Porque come\u00e7ou a assumir que havia n\u00e3o h\u00e1 nada que possas fazer para que ela deixe de te amar <\/a> ou que ela se afaste de si para sempre, por muito que a magoe.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Porque a trataste sempre como se soubesses que ela ficaria ao teu lado, apesar de toda a dor emocional que lhe estavas a causar.<\/p>\n

The truth is that you\u2019ve been taking advantage of her and of the way she loves you.<\/p>\n

Que usou a gra\u00e7a e o cora\u00e7\u00e3o clemente dela como uma oportunidade para a tratar como queria, sem nunca pensar nas consequ\u00eancias emocionais que o seu comportamento lhe estava a causar.<\/p>\n

But most of all\u2014she can\u2019t force herself to continue forgiving you, even if she wanted to because nunca sentiu pena de nada do que a fez passar<\/b>.<\/p>\n

Sim, disseste-lhe que lamentavas centenas de vezes. Mas nenhuma das tuas desculpas foi honesta.<\/p>\n

\"o<\/p>\n

Nunca tentou p\u00f4r-se no lugar dela e ver as coisas do seu ponto de vista.<\/p>\n

You never put in the effort to really understand everything you\u2019d been doing to this girl for years.<\/p>\n

Nunca se sentiu realmente culpado por todos os danos emocionais que lhe causou. <\/b><\/p>\n

Nunca te sentiste culpado por nenhuma das suas l\u00e1grimas e nunca pensaste que eras respons\u00e1vel pelos seus desgostos.<\/b><\/p>\n

Talvez n\u00e3o tenhas tido consci\u00eancia de toda a dor que lhe causaste. Ou apenas tentou justificar-se, nunca olhando a verdade nos olhos.<\/p>\n

Or you are just an insensitive asshole who doesn\u2019t care what he is doing to someone who loves him.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Either way, the truth is that you\u2019ve never shown any sign of real resentment. <\/b><\/p>\n

A verdade \u00e9 que <\/b>hurting her doesn\u2019t haunt you<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

The truth is that you\u2019ve never shown her that you were honestly sorry for all the bad things you\u2019d done.<\/b><\/p>\n

And what is the point of constantly forgiving someone who clearly doesn\u2019t want to be forgiven?<\/b><\/p>\n

\"\u00c9<\/p>\n

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