{"id":25019,"date":"2020-04-04T09:48:19","date_gmt":"2020-04-04T09:48:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=25019"},"modified":"2022-02-10T02:15:46","modified_gmt":"2022-02-10T02:15:46","slug":"5-sinais-de-que-ele-tem-medo-de-se-magoar-novamente","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-sinais-de-que-ele-tem-medo-de-se-magoar-novamente\/","title":{"rendered":"5 sinais de que ele tem medo de se magoar de novo"},"content":{"rendered":"

O que acontece quando as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es escondidas v\u00eam \u00e0 superf\u00edcie?<\/b><\/p>\n

Conheci um tipo h\u00e1 uns tempos. Apaixonei-me por ele assim que lhe pus os olhos em cima. Ele era absolutamente tudo o que eu procurava num homem.<\/p>\n

Ele era simplesmente perfeito. E o melhor de tudo \u00e9 que ele tamb\u00e9m gostava de mim.<\/p>\n

Ambos sab\u00edamos que est\u00e1vamos a gostar um do outro, era apenas uma quest\u00e3o de tempo at\u00e9 as coisas se tornarem s\u00e9rias.<\/p>\n

Sab\u00edamos que esse momento estava a chegar, mas quem resiste a um pouco de persegui\u00e7\u00e3o no in\u00edcio? Afinal de contas, essa \u00e9 a melhor parte.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

It\u2019s such a relief to get involved in a romance you know is going to work out.<\/p>\n

He wasn\u2019t sending any mixed signals, he wasn\u2019t being hot and cold. He was sure about me and I was sure about him.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o havia jogo com nenhum dos nossos cora\u00e7\u00f5es. Sab\u00edamos que \u00edamos dar certo. Por isso, tent\u00e1mos. <\/i><\/p>\n

Nada mudou muito, pelo menos no in\u00edcio da rela\u00e7\u00e3o, mas o que veio a seguir foi algo que nenhum de n\u00f3s esperava. <\/b><\/p>\n

Ele tomou conta de mim. Fez-me sentir segura. Era o homem dos meus sonhos. Mas algo mudou quando a nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o se tornou mais s\u00e9ria.<\/p>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Em vez de as coisas se tornarem ainda melhores e mais fortes, a nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o ficou mais fraca. Ele come\u00e7ou a afastar-se, tornou-se inseguro, como se algo o estivesse a impedir.<\/p>\n

Pensei que o problema era eu. Pensei que tinha feito alguma coisa para afugent\u00e1-lo <\/a> but I had no idea, it didn\u2019t even cross my mind, that o meu namorado tinha medo de me amar.<\/b><\/p>\n

He didn\u2019t see it coming either. I saw he was trying to fight it but the fear prevailed and paralyzed him.<\/p>\n

He showed that to me every day through his actions but I was too blind to see it. He didn\u2019t change, he didn\u2019t become an asshole all of a sudden. He was just scared of getting hurt again.<\/p>\n

Ele estava a evitar falar de rela\u00e7\u00f5es<\/h2>\n

\"casal<\/p>\n

Todos os problemas que t\u00ednhamos eram varridos para debaixo do tapete. Nunca fal\u00e1mos de nada. Ele evitava assuntos relacionados com o nosso futuro e com os problemas da nossa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

He was scared that we\u2019d reach a point where there would be something that we wouldn\u2019t be able to solve, which would result in us breaking up.<\/p>\n

And that meant he\u2019d get his heart broken once again.<\/p>\n

Ele tinha sentimentos contradit\u00f3rios<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

One moment he was over the moon and the next, he was the most depressed person you\u2019d ever met. His mood changed in a minute.<\/p>\n

Ele gostava de mim mas tinha medo de o admitir <\/a> . Alguma coisa o impedia de deixar de lado os seus medos.<\/p>\n

So he acted this way. It\u2019s like he was torn between doing what he really wanted and what his reason told him was the best for him.<\/p>\n

O seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o puxava-o para perto de mim e a sua mente puxava-o para longe.<\/p>\n

He wanted to make plans but he didn\u2019t<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Ele queria mesmo falar sobre o futuro. Queria fazer planos comigo porque o que importava era que nos am\u00e1vamos.<\/p>\n

Mas esse sentimento, esse medo, sempre o deteve.<\/p>\n

Era eu que tinha de planear as viagens e os encontros e, sinceramente, fartei-me disso.<\/p>\n

I thought he had given up on us and that he wasn\u2019t trying hard enough because he couldn\u2019t care less whether we made it or not.<\/p>\n

Mas a verdade \u00e9 que ele estava demasiado assustado para me deixar entrar um pouco mais na sua vida. Ele sabia que n\u00e3o havia como voltar atr\u00e1s.<\/p>\n

Tinha epis\u00f3dios de ci\u00fame<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Era a sua inseguran\u00e7a a falar. Foi aqui que a parte de um homem emocionalmente destru\u00eddo entrou em a\u00e7\u00e3o. Ele obviamente teve um passado dif\u00edcil.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 \u00f3bvio que ele tinha sido magoado e que tinha deixado o seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o em paz. Agora ele agiu antes que algo assim acontecesse.<\/p>\n

As suas ac\u00e7\u00f5es nunca tiveram qualquer motivo. As suas acusa\u00e7\u00f5es eram rid\u00edculas.<\/p>\n

He would freak out if I didn’t answer his text right away because he thought I was out there screwing someone else. He never asked, he only made assumptions.<\/p>\n

O ci\u00fame cegou-o completamente, impedindo-o de ver o que estava realmente a acontecer.<\/p>\n

Ele j\u00e1 tinha sido ferido antes<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

I know, this is not an excuse. You were hurt, I was hurt, we\u2019ve all been hurt before. But think back for a second and remember how you felt.<\/p>\n

Lembra-se do que estava a passar quando tentou juntar de novo os peda\u00e7os do teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o partido<\/a>.<\/p>\n

You\u2019d probably sworn off relationships for good. You thought men were stupid and you\u2019d never date again.<\/p>\n

You probably had a rebound relationship which didn’t work out because you were too scared you\u2019d get hurt again.<\/p>\n

Well, this is everything he is going through right now. Don\u2019t let it be a rebound. Believe in him and give him some space to heal and to allow himself to love again.<\/p>\n

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