{"id":25056,"date":"2019-10-04T11:10:56","date_gmt":"2019-10-04T11:10:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=25056"},"modified":"2022-02-23T11:18:31","modified_gmt":"2022-02-23T11:18:31","slug":"a-coisa-mais-corajosa-que-alguma-vez-faras-e-amar-de-novo","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/a-coisa-mais-corajosa-que-alguma-vez-faras-e-amar-de-novo\/","title":{"rendered":"A coisa mais corajosa que alguma vez far\u00e1s \u00e9 amar de novo"},"content":{"rendered":"

Only the ones who have been hurt beyond repair know how hard it is to love again. How hard it is to place your heart in somebody’s hands and pray that they won\u2019t drop it.<\/p>\n

You are marked by your past, and there\u2019s nothing you can do about it. You want love, but you don\u2019t want the risk that comes with letting somebody in.<\/p>\n

J\u00e1 conhece a hist\u00f3ria demasiado bem. Come\u00e7a como um sonho e acaba por ser um pesadelo. Levanta-te e acaba contigo em ru\u00ednas. Come\u00e7a com gargalhadas e acaba em l\u00e1grimas.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want that again. You don\u2019t want your mind to be messed with. You don\u2019t want to trust in somebody and get betrayed. You don\u2019t want your emotions played with.<\/p>\n

That\u2019s why you guard your heart. You built walls so high that it seems they are impossible to climb. It\u2019s easier that way.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s safer than giving love a chance and picking up the pieces once more. It\u2019s safer than opening up and being vulnerable. It\u2019s safer to be alone.<\/p>\n

You are used to be on your own after all. It\u2019s not so much different than the relationships you are used to. They left you feeling so lonely that being alone actually feels better.<\/p>\n

Concordo que estar sozinho \u00e9 sempre melhor do que estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o errada. Mas ser\u00e1 realmente uma resposta fecharmo-nos emocionalmente e mantermo-nos afastados das rela\u00e7\u00f5es?<\/p>\n

Claro que n\u00e3o, e um dia destes vais perceber isso.<\/p>\n

You will realize that nothing in this life is worth it like love. It\u2019s worth the risk. It\u2019s worth the hurt. It\u2019s worth all the wrong ones if they pave the path for the right one.<\/p>\n

Quando se aperceber disso, ver\u00e1 que tem mais coragem do que pensa. Estar\u00e1 disposta a arriscar-se e a dar mais uma oportunidade ao amor.<\/p>\n

Nem sequer te apercebes disso, mas tudo o que passaste fez-te engrossar a pele. Tornou-te mais forte. Tornou-te mais <\/b><\/em>resistente. Transformou-nos em pessoas que se levantam sempre, por mais dura que tenha sido a queda.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Tamb\u00e9m nos fez filtrar o bom e o mau. Fez-nos reparar nos sinais de alerta. Tornou-o mais cauteloso. Tornou-o mais perspicaz e um melhor juiz de car\u00e1cter.<\/p>\n

It made you see what you want and what you absolutely won\u2019t tolerate. It made you establish standards and not go beneath them. It made you see your own worth, so you would never again settle for less than you deserve.<\/p>\n

And even though there is no guarantee that you won\u2019t get hurt again, it will give you a head start and better odds in choosing in whom you place your trust.<\/p>\n

Pode parecer imposs\u00edvel agora, mas voltar\u00e1s a amar<\/a>. Conhecer\u00e1 algu\u00e9m que ser\u00e1 diferente de todas as pessoas que conheceu at\u00e9 agora.<\/p>\n

Conhecer\u00e1 algu\u00e9m que far\u00e1 as suas paredes cair<\/a>. You will meet someone who will make you realize why it didn\u2019t work with anyone else before.<\/p>\n

It won\u2019t be easy for you to give love a chance. It will take all of your strength. It will make you face your fears and conquer them. And you will\u2014there is no doubt about it.<\/p>\n

You will love again, and it\u2019ll be the bravest thing you\u2018ll ever do.<\/p>\n

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