{"id":25112,"date":"2020-07-05T07:43:32","date_gmt":"2020-07-05T07:43:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=25112"},"modified":"2024-10-28T01:55:37","modified_gmt":"2024-10-27T23:55:37","slug":"uma-carta-a-mulher-que-eu-era-ha-um-ano","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/uma-carta-a-mulher-que-eu-era-ha-um-ano\/","title":{"rendered":"Uma carta para a mulher que eu era h\u00e1 um ano"},"content":{"rendered":"

Querida, eu,<\/p>\n

You really couldn\u2019t even guess how much could happen in one year. You never thought that the tears would stop.<\/p>\n

Nunca pensou que seria capaz de adormecer sem se revirar e pensar demasiado.<\/p>\n

You were haunted by your thoughts. You kept asking yourself: \u201c What went wrong?\u201d, \u201cCould I have done something differently?\u201d, \u201cWill he come back?\u201d and, \u201cSer\u00e1 que ele sente a minha falta?<\/a>\u201d…<\/p>\n

Mas aqui est\u00e1s, agora est\u00e1s calmo. Os teus pensamentos est\u00e3o silenciados. Sabes que nunca se tratou de ti.<\/p>\n

There was nothing you could’ve done or said that would have changed the outcome.<\/p>\n

Era sempre ele. Ele nunca viu o teu verdadeiro eu. Ele nunca viu o qu\u00e3o \u00fanica e especial tu eras.<\/p>\n

Ele brincou com os teus sentimentos e tomou o teu amor como garantido. E embora tenha do\u00eddo, ele fez-te um favor.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

You would still be hooked on him and stuck in something that was never right for you if he wasn\u2019t the one who left. You were too close and too in love that you couldn\u2019t see the real him.<\/p>\n

Olha para ti agora, est\u00e1s quase a ultrapass\u00e1-lo e pensavas que esse dia nunca chegaria. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You finally found the light after all the darkness and I couldn\u2019t be prouder. You are stronger than you gave yourself credit. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

It wasn\u2019t easy to get where you are now. When you are in pain, a year can really feel like a century.<\/p>\n

Sempre soubeste que precisavas de tempo, mas parecia que ele abrandava s\u00f3 para te irritar.<\/p>\n

Todas aquelas mem\u00f3rias agrad\u00e1veis que partilharam tornaram-se no vosso pior inimigo. A ideia de nunca mais poder reviver momentos como aqueles com ele fazia o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o em peda\u00e7os.<\/p>\n

A tua voz tremia e do\u00eda-te os ouvidos sempre que tinhas de dizer a algu\u00e9m que vos conhecia a ambos que voc\u00eas tinham acabado e que ele j\u00e1 n\u00e3o fazia parte da vossa vida.<\/p>\n

Today those painful feelings have turned into acceptance. You know that things had to go that way and that\u2019s it.<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

\u00a0Memories are just memories now and you proudly say you are \u201c<\/i><\/b>solteira e fabulosa<\/i><\/b><\/a>\u201d. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

You have a more positive outlook on life and on yourself. You don\u2019t dwell on the past anymore, your focus is on what’s ahead of you.<\/p>\n

Aprendeu a import\u00e2ncia de cuidar de si pr\u00f3prio e de se lembrar todos os dias do seu valor.<\/p>\n

Acreditou que ia conseguir e conseguiu.<\/p>\n

Tinha a sua f\u00e9, os seus amigos e a sua fam\u00edlia do seu lado e, com um sistema de apoio como este, n\u00e3o havia como a impedir. Est\u00e1s muito grata por todos eles.<\/p>\n

Sente-se como se estivesse a viver uma vida completamente nova. Est\u00e1 feliz e vibrante. Est\u00e1 a explorar o mundo \u00e0 sua volta, a ir a novos lugares e a conhecer novas pessoas.<\/p>\n

You have new goals to pursue and there\u2019s no stopping you.<\/p>\n

Ao perd\u00ea-lo, encontraste-te a ti pr\u00f3pria. Descobriu de que \u00e9 feita e est\u00e1 pronta para enfrentar o que quer que lhe apare\u00e7a pela frente.<\/p>\n

Keep your head up high, your dreams big and just keep on going forward and everything will work out when it\u2019s supposed to. You know that, don\u2019t you?<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n

\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n

\"Uma<\/figure>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Dear me, You really couldn\u2019t even guess how much could happen in one year. You never thought that the tears would stop. You never thought you would be able to fall asleep without tossing and turning and overthinking. You were haunted by your thoughts. You kept asking yourself: \u201c What went wrong?\u201d, \u201cCould I have…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":176626,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29653],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-25112","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-letters"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29653,"label":"letters"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/A-Letter-To-The-Woman-I-Was-A-Year-Ago-1024x576.jpg",1024,576,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Martha Sullivan","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/martha-sullivan\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29653,"name":"letters","slug":"letters","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29653,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","parent":29651,"count":207,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29653,"category_count":207,"category_description":"Regardless if you're looking for moving on, romantic, emotional, or open letters on various topics, you can be sure that you'll find it all here. ","cat_name":"letters","category_nicename":"letters","category_parent":29651}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25112","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=25112"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25112\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":176627,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25112\/revisions\/176627"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/176626"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=25112"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=25112"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=25112"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}