{"id":25135,"date":"2020-10-05T08:49:13","date_gmt":"2020-10-05T08:49:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=25135"},"modified":"2021-08-11T12:17:52","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T12:17:52","slug":"o-amor-nao-e-para-ficar-com-alguem-que-nos-magoa","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/o-amor-nao-e-para-ficar-com-alguem-que-nos-magoa\/","title":{"rendered":"O amor n\u00e3o \u00e9 para ficar com algu\u00e9m que nos magoa"},"content":{"rendered":"

A verdade \u00e9 que o amor requer tempo e esfor\u00e7o porque as rela\u00e7\u00f5es saud\u00e1veis n\u00e3o acontecem de um dia para o outro.<\/p>\n

Em vez disso, requerem normalmente muitos sacrif\u00edcios e trabalho \u00e1rduo.<\/p>\n

Mas uma coisa \u00e9 lutar contra os seus problemas lado a lado com o seu parceiro e outra completamente diferente \u00e9 ser o \u00fanico a lutar.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t get me wrong\u2014I am not saying that you should back out of your relationship at the first sight of a problem.<\/p>\n

N\u00e3o estou a dizer para desistir sempre que aparece um pequeno inconveniente ou um desacordo. Porque o amor \u00e9 lutar e tentar fazer com que as coisas se resolvam.<\/p>\n

But it doesn\u2019t mean that you are required to stay with someone who is doing you harm. <\/b><\/p>\n

Porque amar n\u00e3o \u00e9 ficar com algu\u00e9m que nos est\u00e1 a magoar.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Mulher<\/p>\n

Sim, o amor tem tudo a ver com o perd\u00e3o. Mas \u00e9 preciso lembrar que existem alguns <\/b>coisas que nunca se deve perdoar<\/b><\/a>.<\/b><\/p>\n

Que h\u00e1 coisas que ficam enterradas dentro de n\u00f3s, mesmo que tentemos for\u00e7ar-nos a esquec\u00ea-las.<\/p>\n

Sim, o amor \u00e9 uma quest\u00e3o de compromisso. But that doesn\u2019t mean you should always be the one to compromise with yourself.<\/b><\/p>\n

Que deves ser tu a p\u00f4r de lado as tuas necessidades e a fazer todos os sacrif\u00edcios.<\/p>\n

Sim, o amor tem tudo a ver com esfor\u00e7o. But that doesn\u2019t mean you are required to move mountains for someone who isn\u2019t ready to lift a finger for your sake.<\/b><\/p>\n

Que deve ser aquele que tenta sempre levar as coisas para a frente e aquele que est\u00e1 constantemente a tentar encontrar a melhor solu\u00e7\u00e3o para os seus problemas.<\/p>\n

Sim, o amor \u00e9 uma quest\u00e3o de aperfei\u00e7oamento.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

But that doesn\u2019t mean that you should be with someone who tries to mold you his own way or with someone who wants you to fit his standards. <\/b><\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean that you should stick with a partner who wants to change you. <\/b><\/p>\n

Em vez disso, o que isto significa \u00e9 que precisa de estar com a pessoa que o empurra para a frente e que o inspira a tornar-se a melhor vers\u00e3o poss\u00edvel de si pr\u00f3prio.<\/p>\n

Remember\u2014love is never pain. Love is never staying with someone who takes you for granted and it\u2019s never about giving them unlimited chances to hurt you even more.<\/b><\/p>\n

It\u2019s not being with someone who abuses you in any way or with a person who does everything in his power to put you down.<\/p>\n

O amor nunca nos far\u00e1 sentir inseguros ou como se n\u00e3o f\u00f4ssemos suficientes.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not love if you have to fight for pieces of someone\u2019s attention or if you have to beg your other half to put you first.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Love is not staying with someone who doesn\u2019t deserve you. It\u2019s not being with a man who trata-te como merda<\/a> ou torna a sua vida num inferno.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s not about waiting for him to change and to come to his senses.<\/p>\n

Yes, love is all about being together through thick and thin. It\u2019s all about dealing with challenges and difficulties while holding each other\u2019s hand.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s about going through life\u2019s journey shoulder to shoulder. And it is all about not leaving someone hanging when times get rough.<\/p>\n

But this doesn\u2019t mean that you are required to put up with all the bad things this person might be doing to you, no matter how much you love them.<\/b><\/p>\n

It doesn\u2019t mean that you should forget about all of your deal-breakers and standards or that you should allow them to treat you the way they want, just because you care for them.<\/p>\n

Porque \u00c0s vezes, chegamos a um ponto de rutura. Por vezes, a pessoa que amamos passa dos limites.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Por vezes, come\u00e7am a afetar a nossa sa\u00fade mental e vemos que n\u00e3o s\u00e3o boas para n\u00f3s. Por vezes, vemos que nos trazem mais tristeza do que alegria.<\/p>\n

Quando isso acontece, a \u00fanica op\u00e7\u00e3o que tem \u00e9 ir-se embora. A \u00fanica op\u00e7\u00e3o que tens \u00e9 libertar-se desta rela\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00f3xica<\/a>.<\/p>\n

\u00c9 preciso esquecer toda a hist\u00f3ria que os dois t\u00eam juntos e deix\u00e1-la no passado.<\/p>\n

Por vezes, temos de escolher salvar-nos a n\u00f3s pr\u00f3prios em vez de salvar a pessoa de quem gostamos tanto.<\/p>\n

And there is nothing selfish about this. It doesn\u2019t make you weak and you definitely shouldn\u2019t feel guilty about doing it.<\/p>\n

Em vez disso, torna-o mais forte do que pensa, porque mostra que teve o poder de escolher a sua raz\u00e3o em vez do seu cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Mostra que teve o poder de se derrotar a si pr\u00f3prio e de fazer o que estava certo. <\/b><\/p>\n

Mostra que foste suficientemente inteligente para saber que o amor nunca deve tornar a tua vida mais dif\u00edcil.<\/b> <\/p>\n

\"O<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

The truth is that love takes time and effort because healthy relationships don\u2019t happen overnight. Instead, they usually require many sacrifices and hard work. But it is one thing if you fight your problems side by side with your partner and it is something completely different if you are the only one fighting. Don\u2019t get…<\/p>","protected":false},"author":40,"featured_media":118448,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29619],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-25135","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-stories-love"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29619,"label":"stories"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/Love-Isnt-About-Staying-With-Someone-Who-Hurts-You-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Tara Brown","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/tara-brown\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29619,"name":"stories","slug":"stories-love","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29619,"taxonomy":"category","description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","parent":38,"count":424,"filter":"raw","cat_ID":29619,"category_count":424,"category_description":"To all the souls struggling with complicated love experiences: These heartfelt stories about love, heartbreak, and moving on will be your voice of wisdom.","cat_name":"stories","category_nicename":"stories-love","category_parent":38}],"tag_info":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25135","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/40"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=25135"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/25135\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/118448"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=25135"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=25135"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=25135"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}