{"id":25276,"date":"2020-08-08T12:50:53","date_gmt":"2020-08-08T12:50:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=25276"},"modified":"2022-04-04T02:58:45","modified_gmt":"2022-04-04T02:58:45","slug":"quando-se-sente-que-e-altura-de-dizer-adeus","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/quando-se-sente-que-e-altura-de-dizer-adeus\/","title":{"rendered":"Quando se sente que \u00e9 altura de dizer adeus"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Para chegarmos a uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o que nos complete e que consideremos duradoura a longo prazo, \u00e9 necess\u00e1rio passar por aquelas que n\u00e3o foram boas para n\u00f3s.<\/p>\n<p>Por vezes, podemos dizer com certeza que <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/afastar-se-de-alguem-e-mais-do-que-simplesmente-acabar-com-essa-pessoa\/\"> algu\u00e9m n\u00e3o \u00e9 para n\u00f3s <\/a> e acabamos com a rela\u00e7\u00e3o, mas e quando n\u00e3o conseguimos tomar uma decis\u00e3o?<\/p>\n<p>E perguntamo-nos se devemos esperar e dar mais uma oportunidade \u00e0 rela\u00e7\u00e3o? Ou gastar energia desnecess\u00e1ria em algo que n\u00e3o faz sentido?<\/p>\n<p>Se se reconhece na maioria destas situa\u00e7\u00f5es, talvez seja altura de seguir em frente.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s hard to say <b>quando \u00e9 a altura certa para uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o<\/b> e quando se aperceber\u00e1 com certeza que n\u00e3o tem mais nada para procurar nessa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>Por vezes, as pessoas decidem porque h\u00e1 uma discuss\u00e3o constante entre os parceiros, por vezes h\u00e1 trai\u00e7\u00e3o e, por vezes, trata-se de discord\u00e2ncia em rela\u00e7\u00e3o a atitudes, desejos e possibilidades.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-101766\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-arguing-at-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"casal a discutir num caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-arguing-at-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-arguing-at-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-arguing-at-cafe-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-arguing-at-cafe-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-arguing-at-cafe-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Os cen\u00e1rios s\u00e3o sempre diferentes, mas a verdadeira quest\u00e3o \u00e9: quando \u00e9 que \u00e9 a altura certa para uma separa\u00e7\u00e3o? Quando \u00e9 que \u00e9 altura de dizer adeus?<\/p>\n<p>Por vezes, quando acabamos a rela\u00e7\u00e3o, apercebemo-nos de que era suposto isto ter acontecido muito mais cedo.<\/p>\n<p>When you are hiding some feelings and problems in your head, without telling your partner about them, you are creating more problems you don&#8217;t need.<\/p>\n<p>Por vezes, significa que a rela\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e1 na sua fase cr\u00edtica, mas isso n\u00e3o significa que os problemas n\u00e3o possam ser resolvidos.<\/p>\n<p>They can be resolved and ignoring them won&#8217;t help. If you don&#8217;t feel the need to talk about them with your partner, think about breaking up.<\/p>\n<p>Se as pessoas que gostam de si est\u00e3o preocupadas consigo porque parece infeliz nesta rela\u00e7\u00e3o, n\u00e3o as considere irrelevantes.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-101767\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-holding-sad-woman-for-arms.jpg\" alt=\"homem a segurar uma mulher triste pelos bra\u00e7os\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-holding-sad-woman-for-arms.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-holding-sad-woman-for-arms-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-holding-sad-woman-for-arms-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-holding-sad-woman-for-arms-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/man-holding-sad-woman-for-arms-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ouvir o que eles t\u00eam a dizer, pois por vezes <b>we don&#8217;t see the situation objectively.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Isto pode ser uma grande ajuda. Se existe uma raz\u00e3o justificada para n\u00e3o confiar no seu parceiro, se a desconfian\u00e7a se tornou parte da rela\u00e7\u00e3o, ent\u00e3o os problemas est\u00e3o a caminho.<\/p>\n<p>Deve saber que a melhor solu\u00e7\u00e3o para esta situa\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 terminar a rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p>If your partner is someone who&#8217;s focused on himself, paranoid, defensive, easily angry, or often has bad thoughts and moods, that&#8217;s <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/life\/10-maneiras-de-conseguir-o-encerramento-que-precisa-depois-de-uma-separacao\/\"> n\u00e3o \u00e9 um homem com quem se queira ter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o <\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>Do not hesitate to tell him goodbye. A good reason to end the relationship is when you have realized that you have life goals that do not even match your partner\u2019s, as sometimes two good people simply have no plans or ambitions that match.<\/p>\n<p>Quando t\u00eam pontos de vista diferentes sobre quest\u00f5es importantes da vida, por exemplo, discordam sobre quest\u00f5es sociais, pol\u00edticas, f\u00e9, filhos ou finan\u00e7as, n\u00e3o podem esperar um bom futuro juntos. Isso n\u00e3o \u00e9 real.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-101768\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-arguing-in-the-kitchen-2.jpg\" alt=\"casal a discutir na cozinha\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-arguing-in-the-kitchen-2.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-arguing-in-the-kitchen-2-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-arguing-in-the-kitchen-2-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-arguing-in-the-kitchen-2-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/couple-arguing-in-the-kitchen-2-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Comunica\u00e7\u00e3o numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o <b>n\u00e3o pode ser superficial<\/b> porque se assim for, n\u00e3o est\u00e1 em posi\u00e7\u00e3o de conduzir conversas sinceras e construtivas.<\/p>\n<p>Nessa altura, \u00e9 dif\u00edcil que a rela\u00e7\u00e3o progrida.<\/p>\n<p>Se n\u00e3o conseguir resolver os conflitos, deve definitivamente acabar com eles. Nas rela\u00e7\u00f5es fortes, as pessoas esfor\u00e7am-se muito por ultrapassar os conflitos, o que as torna mais fortes em conjunto.<\/p>\n<p>Sem isso, a rela\u00e7\u00e3o tornar-se-\u00e1 t\u00f3xica para ambos.<\/p>\n<p>Also if you do not feel that you have 100% support and the person you&#8217;re concerned about shows little interest in your ambitions and <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/5-boas-razoes-para-partir\/\"> insiste constantemente em falar de si pr\u00f3prio <\/a>n\u00e3o ser\u00e1 feliz.<\/p>\n<p>Um dos sinais de que est\u00e1 na altura de acabar com a rela\u00e7\u00e3o \u00e9 se o seu namorado lhe contar que teve de partilhar o quarto com uma colega bonita numa viagem de neg\u00f3cios e voc\u00ea nem pestanejou. Sabe que isso n\u00e3o est\u00e1 certo.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-101769\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-with-blue-eyes-looking-at-distance.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de olhos azuis a olhar para longe\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-with-blue-eyes-looking-at-distance.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-with-blue-eyes-looking-at-distance-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-with-blue-eyes-looking-at-distance-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-with-blue-eyes-looking-at-distance-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/woman-with-blue-eyes-looking-at-distance-720x481.jpg 720w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Se se sentir assim, deve falar com o seu parceiro sobre o que est\u00e1 a pensar. Se o seu parceiro n\u00e3o quiser falar sobre o assunto, d\u00ea algum tempo a si e a ele.<\/p>\n<p>Try to fight for it, as you may find out something that will change your mind, but if it does not, don&#8217;t stay in a relationship which does not make you happy.<\/p>\n<p><b>Esta conversa n\u00e3o vai ser f\u00e1cil para ningu\u00e9m.<\/b><\/p>\n<p>You once liked the guy, you still love him in some way, but it&#8217;s time to turn a new page, though you may already share a lot\u2014an apartment, a circle of friends, pets or whatever.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why you have to <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/5-frases-que-os-homens-usam-para-acabar-uma-relacao-e-o-que-significam\/\"> diga-lhe honestamente o que sente <\/a>neste momento e porque \u00e9 que acha que deve terminar a rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/mensagens-de-despedida-e-de-boa-sorte\/\">Dizer adeus<\/a> A verdade \u00e9 que falar com algu\u00e9m parece terr\u00edvel, mas n\u00e3o se pode dizer que n\u00e3o seja bonito. Tenha apenas o cuidado de falar de si e dos seus sentimentos, sem o atacar ou culpar. Ele vai apreciar a sua honestidade.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-101765\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/When-You-Feel-It-Is-Time-To-Say-Goodbye-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Quando se sente que \u00e9 altura de dizer adeus\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/When-You-Feel-It-Is-Time-To-Say-Goodbye-pinterest.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/When-You-Feel-It-Is-Time-To-Say-Goodbye-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/When-You-Feel-It-Is-Time-To-Say-Goodbye-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In order to reach a relationship that completes us and which we see as lasting in the long run, it is necessary to pass through those that have not been good for us. Sometimes we can say with certainty that someone is not for us and we break up the relationship but what about when&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":53,"featured_media":101770,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29614],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-25276","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-love-talks"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29614,"label":"love talks"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/When-You-Feel-It-Is-Time-To-Say-Goodbye.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Ariel Quinn","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/ariel\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29614,"name":"love talks","slug":"love-talks","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29614,"taxonomy":"category","description":"What is love? 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