{"id":25299,"date":"2020-04-08T13:08:00","date_gmt":"2020-04-08T13:08:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=25299"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:32:45","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:32:45","slug":"para-a-rapariga-que-deu-demasiado-de-si-ao-homem-errado","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/para-a-rapariga-que-deu-demasiado-de-si-ao-homem-errado\/","title":{"rendered":"Para a rapariga que deu demasiado de si ao tipo errado"},"content":{"rendered":"

J\u00e1 alguma vez <\/b>loved someone who didn\u2019t love you in return<\/b><\/a> da forma que merecias? J\u00e1 alguma vez se entregou totalmente a um homem que se revelou errado para si?<\/b><\/p>\n

A um homem que n\u00e3o fez mais do que engan\u00e1-la e tom\u00e1-la como garantida? A um homem que nunca apreciou o teu amor e que usou o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o da pior maneira poss\u00edvel?<\/p>\n

Se j\u00e1 o fez, sei tudo o que est\u00e1 a passar. Se j\u00e1 o fez, sinto a sua dor e sei exatamente como se sente. Porque Eu era tu.<\/b><\/p>\n

Sei que amaste um homem que se aproveitou dos teus sentimentos.<\/p>\n

Que te entregaste totalmente a um homem que te mordeu a m\u00e3o quando tentaste dar-lhe de comer. Que foste usada quando o tentaste ajudar.<\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

I know that you tried to fix a man who didn\u2019t want to be saved. Eu sei que deste todo o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o a algu\u00e9m que o despeda\u00e7ou. Eu sei que deste todo o teu ser a um homem que te esmagou.<\/b><\/p>\n

E I know you didn\u2019t get anything in return. <\/b> I know that this man didn\u2019t love you\u2014that he only loved everything you were giving him and that he just loved the way you loved him.<\/p>\n

I know he lied to you, telling you that he\u2019d change and you were the only one who mattered to him.<\/p>\n

Mas a verdade \u00e9 que ele n\u00e3o passava de um idiota ego\u00edsta que te deixava esgotada e exausta. Que ele era um idiota que te deixou a sentir como se tivesse tirado todo o amor que tinhas.<\/p>\n

That he left you feeling empty, like there was this huge void inside of you and like you didn\u2019t have anything more to offer to anyone who came into your life after him.<\/p>\n

\"jovem<\/p>\n

Mas isso est\u00e1 longe de ser verdade. E \u00e9 por isso que Quero dizer-te que \u00e9s uma pessoa fant\u00e1stica e altru\u00edsta, independentemente do que este tipo te tenha tentado dizer.<\/b><\/p>\n

Garanto-vos que s\u00e3o especiais e \u00fanicos porque fizeram o que s\u00f3 alguns conseguem fazer.<\/b><\/p>\n

Quero dizer-vos que you shouldn\u2019t be ashamed for <\/b>amar o homem errado<\/b><\/a>.<\/b> That you shouldn\u2019t blame yourself for not knowing better or for not choosing better.<\/p>\n

Nunca deves pensar em ti como um fracasso e nunca deves considerar-te fraca por n\u00e3o pensares duas vezes quando deste tudo a este homem.<\/p>\n

Em vez disso, devias estar orgulhoso de ti pr\u00f3prio. Deveria orgulhar-se da sua for\u00e7a e coragem. Deves orgulhar-te de ter um cora\u00e7\u00e3o t\u00e3o grande e cheio de amor.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Proud of being a caring and loving person who gave a chance to someone who clearly didn\u2019t deserve it.<\/b><\/p>\n

You should be proud because despite all the pain you are feeling now, deep down, you are peaceful. You know you\u2019ve never done anyone any harm.<\/p>\n

Sabes que deste o teu melhor a este homem e sabes que fizeste tudo o que estava ao teu alcance para que esta rela\u00e7\u00e3o funcionasse.<\/p>\n

Acima de tudo, sabe que tem a consci\u00eancia tranquila porque n\u00e3o \u00e9 respons\u00e1vel por nenhuma das coisas m\u00e1s que aconteceram entre voc\u00eas os dois.<\/p>\n

What I want to ask you is to stay this way, despite all the disappointments you\u2019ve been through.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

O que eu quero \u00e9 pedir-vos que se atrevam a <\/b>seja voc\u00ea mesmo<\/b><\/a>, despite all the emotional pain you\u2019ve experienced. To stay the girl with a soft heart, even though it cost you a lot.<\/b><\/p>\n

I\u2019m not going to lie to you\u2014 this wasn\u2019t and never will be an easy path. But it is one worth taking.<\/b><\/p>\n

The truth is that it is possible for you to get your heart broken again. It is likely that you\u2019ll run into more wrong men who don\u2019t deserve you.<\/p>\n

It is likely that you\u2019ll have more wounds and scars on your soul.<\/p>\n

But that should never discourage you. Men who don\u2019t deserve you should never change you.<\/p>\n

Porque um dia vir\u00e1 um homem que saber\u00e1 apreciar tudo o que tens para oferecer.<\/p>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Even though you don\u2019t believe it, there will come a man who will make you understand why all of this had to happen and who will make you realize why it never worked out with any of those guys.<\/b><\/p>\n

H\u00e1-de aparecer um homem que te amar\u00e1 tal como \u00e9s. Um homem que ficar\u00e1 mais do que feliz por te ter.<\/p>\n

And the best part is that you\u2019ll never have to hold yourself back in front of this guy.<\/b><\/p>\n

You\u2019ll never have to worry that he\u2019ll take you for granted if you show him too much of your love.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll never have to worry that he\u2019ll use the feelings you give him. You\u2019ll never have to worry that he\u2019ll break your heart <\/a> se lhe deres demasiado de ti.<\/p>\n

And you know why? Because he\u2019ll be just like you and he\u2019ll give you his entire self in return.<\/b><\/p>\n

\"Para<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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