{"id":25454,"date":"2020-03-10T11:07:14","date_gmt":"2020-03-10T11:07:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=25454"},"modified":"2021-08-12T08:50:20","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T08:50:20","slug":"10-sinais-de-que-ele-so-esta-a-brincar-com-as-suas-emocoes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/10-sinais-de-que-ele-so-esta-a-brincar-com-as-suas-emocoes\/","title":{"rendered":"10 sinais de que ele s\u00f3 est\u00e1 a brincar com as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes we\u2019re so fixed on searching for \u2018<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/17-sinais-de-linguagem-corporal-de-que-ele-gosta-secretamente-de-si-e-esta-interessado-em-si\/\">sinais de que ele gosta de si<\/a>\u2019 that we fail to see the huge, red flags glowing in the dark.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o conseguimos ver que ele \u00e9 um completo idiota manipulador cujo maior divertimento \u00e9 torturar-te e transformar a tua vida num inferno.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s frustrating to face the fact that all you\u2019ve wanted was someone to love, someone who loves you back and you\u2019ve got a manipulative, immature, toxic person who feeds himself with pain and suffering.<\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re his supply, he needs you, so he manipulates you into staying.<\/p>\n<p>I\u2019ve been through this hell and thank God I managed to run away from it. I dumped his sorry ass and went no contact. I don\u2019t want to know whether he is alive or not.<\/p>\n<p>I don\u2019t even want to know <a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/sera-que-ele-vai-sentir-a-minha-falta-se-eu-o-deixar-sozinho-e-algo-que-vale-a-pena-descobrir\/\">se ele sente a minha falta<\/a>. That\u2019s how little I think of him.<\/p>\n<p>I went through all of this but there is something I learned after all. No matter what kind of a relationship you\u2019re in, a guy will play with your emotions if he wants to.<\/p>\n<p>Podes pensar que ele te ama at\u00e9 \u00e0 lua e de volta, mas pode ser tudo uma grande e gorda mentira.<\/p>\n<p><b>Signs he\u2019s playing with your emotions<\/b><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">A sua rela\u00e7\u00e3o est\u00e1 a mudar para pior<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78906 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-arguing-with-woman-while-she-looking-away.jpg\" alt=\"homem a discutir com uma mulher enquanto ela olha para o lado\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-arguing-with-woman-while-she-looking-away.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-arguing-with-woman-while-she-looking-away-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-arguing-with-woman-while-she-looking-away-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Instead of meeting his friends and family, he\u2019s keeping you a secret. Your relationship should have gone to another level by now. Instead, it\u2019s decreasing in quality.<\/p>\n<p>He isn\u2019t asking to spend more time with you, he seems to be getting away more often.<\/p>\n<p>Todos estes s\u00e3o sinais de que ele n\u00e3o est\u00e1 a falar a s\u00e9rio consigo e que s\u00f3 a est\u00e1 a usar para se divertir.<\/p>\n<p>He is not taking your emotions into consideration because he doesn\u2019t care about you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ele faz coisas que a aborrecem<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78907 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-yelling-at-woman.jpg\" alt=\"homem a gritar com mulher\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-yelling-at-woman.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-yelling-at-woman-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-yelling-at-woman-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nEstava aborrecida com algo que ele tinha feito e confrontou-o. Disse-lhe que ele tinha sido rude e que tinha magoado os seus sentimentos. Disse-lhe que ele tinha agido de forma grosseira e que tinha ferido os seus sentimentos, mas apesar de se ter aberto com ele e de se ter mostrado vulner\u00e1vel, ele continua a fazer o mesmo.<\/p>\n<p>He still hurts you the same way. He does this because he doesn\u2019t care how you feel. He is playing with your emotions and he doesn\u2019t feel sorry for you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\"> He\u2019s not that available anymore<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78914 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-girl-sitting-at-coffee-bar-and-looking-at-phone-screen.jpg\" alt=\"rapariga jovem sentada num caf\u00e9 e a olhar para o ecr\u00e3 do telem\u00f3vel\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-girl-sitting-at-coffee-bar-and-looking-at-phone-screen.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-girl-sitting-at-coffee-bar-and-looking-at-phone-screen-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-girl-sitting-at-coffee-bar-and-looking-at-phone-screen-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>This right here shows you how much he\u2019s interested in being with you or in a relationship. At first, this wasn\u2019t an issue, you were only starting to get to know each other.<\/p>\n<p>Mas \u00e0 medida que passavam mais tempo juntos, ele queria passar menos tempo consigo.<\/p>\n<p>Usually, he uses some lame excuse as to why he can\u2019t come and see you, he cancels dates last-minute and he has slowly distanced himself.<\/p>\n<p>Ele j\u00e1 n\u00e3o est\u00e1 muito presente e est\u00e1 a perder lentamente a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\"> He is interested in you when you\u2019re not there<\/h2>\n<h2><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78916 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-typing-on-his-phone-outside.jpg\" alt=\"homem a escrever no telem\u00f3vel no exterior\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-typing-on-his-phone-outside.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-typing-on-his-phone-outside-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-typing-on-his-phone-outside-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nQuando um homem joga com as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es, tem uma t\u00e1tica perfeita para a manter por perto.<\/p>\n<p>When you are next to him, he won\u2019t give you the time of day. He\u2019ll push you away from him and he\u2019ll try to see you as little as possible.<\/p>\n<p>Mas quando se toma o assunto nas suas pr\u00f3prias m\u00e3os e se afasta dele, ele passa a telefonar-lhe a toda a hora.<\/p>\n<p>If you\u2019re out with a friend and you hadn\u2019t announced a week earlier that you were going to be, he will bomb you with texts that<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/9-signs-misses-actually-mean\/\"> ele sente a tua falta <\/a>e quer-te ao seu lado.<\/p>\n<p>These men do this because they don\u2019t want to let you out of their grasp that easily.<\/p>\n<p>They don\u2019t want to be with you but they still want to have you as an option, so they give you enough attention to keep you hooked.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ele mostra interesse noutras mulheres<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78918 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/smiling-man-standing-and-typing-on-his-phone-in-living-room.jpg\" alt=\"homem sorridente de p\u00e9 e a escrever no telem\u00f3vel na sala de estar\" width=\"800\" height=\"533\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/smiling-man-standing-and-typing-on-his-phone-in-living-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/smiling-man-standing-and-typing-on-his-phone-in-living-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/smiling-man-standing-and-typing-on-his-phone-in-living-room-768x512.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s one thing when he does it when you don\u2019t see it but completely another when he does it in front of you.<\/p>\n<p>When you don\u2019t see it, you don\u2019t know it and it can\u2019t hurt you despite the fact that he is a great douche. But when he does it right in front of you, it hurts like hell.<\/p>\n<p>He is proving to you that he doesn\u2019t care about you or respect you. Him flirting with other women is just proof he is playing with your emotions.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">He makes you feel you\u2019re not good enough for him<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78920 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/lonely-woman-sitting-on-the-roof.jpg\" alt=\"mulher solit\u00e1ria sentada no telhado\" width=\"800\" height=\"531\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/lonely-woman-sitting-on-the-roof.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/lonely-woman-sitting-on-the-roof-300x199.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/lonely-woman-sitting-on-the-roof-768x510.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Around him, you feel you\u2019re not pretty enough or that you\u2019re not smart enough. This is not on you.<\/p>\n<p>You wouldn\u2019t feel that way if he didn\u2019t treat you that way. His snarky comments and his mean jokes are killing your confidence in a second.<\/p>\n<p>He sees that as having fun because it makes him laugh. He doesn\u2019t care that the things he says are not even the slightest bit funny to you.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ele \u00e9 perfeito quando precisa de algo de ti<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78923 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-couple-enjoying-coffee-at-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"jovem casal a tomar caf\u00e9 num caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-couple-enjoying-coffee-at-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-couple-enjoying-coffee-at-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/young-couple-enjoying-coffee-at-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>When you are the only person who can help him, he is the official winner of the \u2018boyfriend of the year\u2019 prize.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s there for you, he supports you, he listens to you, he basically does everything that a normal boyfriend should do.<\/p>\n<p>And once he gets what he wants, he shuts you down again because he\u2019s done with you. You\u2019ve given him what he needed so he can continue to treat you like shit.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Enviar sinais contradit\u00f3rios \u00e9 a sua especialidade<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78925 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/An-angry-girl-looks-at-the-phone.jpg\" alt=\"Uma rapariga zangada olha para o telem\u00f3vel\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/An-angry-girl-looks-at-the-phone.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/An-angry-girl-looks-at-the-phone-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/An-angry-girl-looks-at-the-phone-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Ele \u00e9 o rei absoluto no que toca a isto. Ningu\u00e9m o consegue vencer ou agir t\u00e3o sorrateiramente como ele.<\/p>\n<p>One day you\u2019re his world, his love, his everything and the next he is capable of walking by you in the street without even saying hello.<\/p>\n<p>Esta montanha russa emocional provoca dores emocionais que podem facilmente transformar-se em dores f\u00edsicas reais. Pode literalmente ficar doente devido aos constantes abusos emocionais, ao terror ou \u00e0 sua indiferen\u00e7a.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\"> Ele espera que perdoeis<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78927 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/girl-alone-at-home-sitting-in-living-room.jpg\" alt=\"rapariga sozinha em casa, sentada na sala de estar\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/girl-alone-at-home-sitting-in-living-room.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/girl-alone-at-home-sitting-in-living-room-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/girl-alone-at-home-sitting-in-living-room-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>He can get away with everything but you don\u2019t. His double standards are ridiculous.<\/p>\n<p>When he doesn\u2019t call you for days, he doesn\u2019t show up on a date or doesn\u2019t text you back, you\u2019re supposed to let it slide and forget all about it after his pitiful \u2018sorry\u2019.<\/p>\n<p>Mas quando a situa\u00e7\u00e3o se inverte, quando somos n\u00f3s que tomamos a liberdade de nos comportarmos como ele, como um sacana, ent\u00e3o o inferno come\u00e7a.<\/p>\n<p>He calls you, he goes out looking for you and he makes a scene. And God knows how long he will be mentioning that one \u2018fallout\u2019 and rubbing it in your face while he is doing the same thing.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"numbered-headline\">Ele est\u00e1 sempre a mentir<\/h2>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78928 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-talking-to-bored-woman-at-cafe.jpg\" alt=\"homem a falar com uma mulher aborrecida num caf\u00e9\" width=\"800\" height=\"534\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-talking-to-bored-woman-at-cafe.jpg 800w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-talking-to-bored-woman-at-cafe-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/man-talking-to-bored-woman-at-cafe-768x513.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 800px) 100vw, 800px\" \/><br \/>\nFirst, you notice those \u2018white\u2019 lies and you tell yourself how they are not that big of a deal.<\/p>\n<p>But later on, those \u2018white\u2019 lies become way too frequent. Later on, you find out that lying is in his blood.<\/p>\n<p>He\u2019s capable of lying about everything\u2014his past, about what he\u2019s doing, he\u2019s even changing some facts about him so people would like him. He is a manipulator in disguise.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-78932 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/10-Signs-Hes-Only-Playing-With-Your-Emotions-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg\" alt=\"10 sinais de que ele s\u00f3 est\u00e1 a brincar com as suas emo\u00e7\u00f5es \" width=\"724\" height=\"1024\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/10-Signs-Hes-Only-Playing-With-Your-Emotions-Pinterest-724x1024.jpg 724w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/10-Signs-Hes-Only-Playing-With-Your-Emotions-Pinterest-212x300.jpg 212w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/10-Signs-Hes-Only-Playing-With-Your-Emotions-Pinterest-768x1086.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/10-Signs-Hes-Only-Playing-With-Your-Emotions-Pinterest-1086x1536.jpg 1086w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/10-Signs-Hes-Only-Playing-With-Your-Emotions-Pinterest-1448x2048.jpg 1448w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/10-Signs-Hes-Only-Playing-With-Your-Emotions-Pinterest.jpg 1587w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sometimes we\u2019re so fixed on searching for \u2018signs he likes you\u2019 that we fail to see the huge, red flags glowing in the dark. We fail to see that he is a total, manipulative asshole whose biggest fun time is torturing you and turning your life into a living hell. It\u2019s frustrating to face the&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":42,"featured_media":78933,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29648],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-25454","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-tips"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29648,"label":"dating tips"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/10\/10-Signs-Hes-Only-Playing-With-Your-Emotions.jpg",800,534,false],"author_info":{"display_name":"Selma June","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/selmajune\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29648,"name":"dating tips","slug":"dating-tips","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29648,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Learn to date like a pro and avoid making some of the biggest mistakes in texting, flirting, winning a man's heart, and commitment. 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