{"id":25469,"date":"2020-04-11T07:34:38","date_gmt":"2020-04-11T07:34:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=25469"},"modified":"2021-08-12T11:15:05","modified_gmt":"2021-08-12T11:15:05","slug":"5-coisas-a-fazer-quando-se-esta-preso-numa-relacao-de-amizade","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/5-coisas-a-fazer-quando-se-esta-preso-numa-relacao-de-amizade\/","title":{"rendered":"5 coisas a fazer quando se est\u00e1 preso a uma \"rela\u00e7\u00e3o de foda"},"content":{"rendered":"

Leia isto sem julgar! A maioria das mulheres revirar\u00e1 os olhos \u00e0 m\u00ednima men\u00e7\u00e3o de um amigos com benef\u00edcios <\/em>tamb\u00e9m conhecido como FWB.<\/p>\n

The main point of view of the majority of women is that an FWB relationship doesn’t benefit women, just men.<\/p>\n

As mulheres evitam-no porque t\u00eam a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de que est\u00e3o a ser aproveitadas por estarem numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o que normalmente envolve apenas sexo.<\/p>\n

Bem, o grande choque aqui \u00e9 que nem todas as mulheres querem realmente uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o, tal como os homens.<\/p>\n

FWB relationships are not something that is restricted to a men\u2019s club only.<\/p>\n

Surprised? I don\u2019t think so. <\/em>No esp\u00edrito deste conhecimento, passemos \u00e0 a\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n

Nem todas as pessoas, homens ou mulheres, querem a mesma coisa. Nem todas querem uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o duradoura e um final feliz para sempre.<\/p>\n

Alguns querem estar numa rela\u00e7\u00e3o submissa<\/a>alguns anseiam por um companheiro de foda.<\/p>\n

The point is, it should be their choice. After all, it\u2019s their life, and they should do whatever makes them happy.<\/p>\n

So, if there is someone in your life telling you what to do and how to live it, telling you whether it\u2019s good or bad to be in an FWB relationship, then you have a very amigo ciumento<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Nevertheless, don\u2019t limit yourself by only thinking about relationships in an old-fashioned way, \u2018the right way\u2019.<\/p>\n

If that is not something you\u2019re up for at the moment, something you currently don\u2019t want, then listen to your gut, and do whatever the hell you want. The point is to be happy.<\/p>\n

So, if you feel that you want to be more than a fuckbuddy, that you\u2019ve changed your mind about \u2018no strings attached\u2019 sex, if you think you have feelings for him, then you should do the following:<\/p>\n

1. Pode sempre sair<\/h2>\n

\"vista<\/p>\n

Ningu\u00e9m a est\u00e1 a obrigar a ter uma rela\u00e7\u00e3o FWB. Em qualquer altura, sabe onde est\u00e1 a porta e pode sair.<\/p>\n

It\u2019s your choice that you\u2019re in one, and if you start looking him differently like you want a relationship with him, think about what he feels about that before you make a move.<\/p>\n

If you think that\u2019s not a good idea, then leave him because staying his fuckbuddy while having deeper feelings is torture, and it\u2019s not going to end well.<\/p>\n

2. Desprender-se lentamente<\/h2>\n

\"Fotografia<\/p>\n

Start distancing yourself. Spend less and less time with him. This can be his indicator that you\u2019re not up for it anymore. He can take a hint, so he might play along and stop calling you.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t want to be desperate and beg him for attention when your relationship has been defined as nothing serious from the start.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t try to talk to him about your feelings if he didn\u2019t do that first. If he saw that you\u2019re distancing yourself, he would have tried to keep you if he is more serious about you.<\/p>\n

But if he did nothing and let you go, then you can be sure you\u2019re just a fling.<\/p>\n

3. Don\u2019t turn it into a one-sided relationship<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be the one who initiates things. Don\u2019t try to talk him into doing something you want and he doesn\u2019t. This way you\u2019re turning your relationship into a one-way street.<\/p>\n

He has no deeper feelings for you, and if you develop some for him, it’s not going to end up good for you.<\/p>\n

The more you try and the more you get rejected, the more you\u2019ll hurt. Your anxiety will grow, and you\u2019ll become vulnerable.<\/p>\n

You won\u2019t be able to control your actions and your behavior, and you\u2019ll probably do something you\u2019ll regret later.<\/p>\n

4. Provocar uma rea\u00e7\u00e3o<\/h2>\n

\"homem<\/p>\n

Tal como pode provocar ansiedade em si, pode provocar uma rea\u00e7\u00e3o nele.<\/p>\n

Fa\u00e7a com que ele se d\u00ea ao trabalho de gostar mais de si. Fa\u00e7a-o tentar ganhar-te como um pr\u00e9mio, tentar seduzir-te.<\/p>\n

Se ele morder o isco e se se deixar levar, pode ser que o leve para onde quer que ele v\u00e1.<\/p>\n

You just might provoke him to react. If he has the slightest romantic feelings for you, he will react and try to win you over. If he likes you, he won\u2019t risk losing you.<\/p>\n

5. Ama-te a ti pr\u00f3prio<\/h2>\n

\"mulher<\/p>\n

Pensa em ti, s\u00ea ego\u00edsta. Seja o criador da sua pr\u00f3pria felicidade.<\/p>\n

You don\u2019t need a man to be happy; you know that. If the relationship is not going in the direction you want it to, don\u2019t adjust to it. Do your own thing, and leave.<\/p>\n

As I\u2019ve already said, a man won\u2019t define your happiness. Moreover, if a man sees that you are one dominant and independent woman happy all by herself, he will want you even more.<\/p>\n

He knows that if he gets together with you, he won\u2019t be responsible for making you happy.<\/p>\n

He won\u2019t be the one who\u2019ll run around you in circles or walk on eggshells making sure he doesn\u2019t say something that\u2019ll hurt you.<\/p>\n

O facto de se amar o suficiente para cuidar de si \u00e9 incrivelmente sexy e atraente para qualquer homem.<\/p>\n

If you look at it right, it\u2019s a win-win situation. You love and respect yourself if you leave a relationship that doesn\u2019t suit you, and you\u2019ll be attractive as hell to all men out there if you do so.<\/p>\n

Do what makes you happy. Stay or leave. It\u2019s up to you.<\/em><\/p>\n

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