Como \u00e9 que ele pode ser mais ego\u00edsta?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n Esta pessoa tem-no deixado andar numa montanha russa de emo\u00e7\u00f5es. Em poucos dias, passou da felicidade extrema \u00e0 depress\u00e3o total. Ningu\u00e9m consegue suportar esse tipo de mudan\u00e7as emocionais sem consequ\u00eancias graves, sem ansiedade e sem traumas.<\/p>\n You realize this, and you get out despite the fact it hurts like hell. You\u2019re not expected to mourn him. None of your friends get it because he tratou-te como merda<\/span>.<\/p>\n No one understands that you\u2019ve given yourself completely in this relationship. You\u2019ve invested your heart and your mind into it, hoping that someday he will change his mind. <\/i><\/b><\/p>\n Your feelings are real. You\u2019re not making them up, and no one can put a label on it or the situation you\u2019re in.<\/p>\n Don\u2019t let anyone diminish the meaning of your pain. Don\u2019t let anyone tell you it isn\u2019t supposed to hurt. Sometimes the greatest love of your life can be hidden in the man who is just not meant to be with you. <\/b><\/p>\n E temos de o aceitar. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n When you do, when you end things with him, it\u2019s just like a real breakup. It hurts like you\u2019ve been together for years. You can\u2019t sleep at night; you refuse to eat. Your eyes are swollen because of the constant crying. You don\u2019t want to get up from bed or get dressed or go anywhere. You\u2019re angry at the whole world. You\u2019re just fucked up.<\/p>\n But you have to keep it to yourself because if you break down in front of others, the only thing you\u2019ll get is: \u201cHe was a jerk who didn\u2019t care about you. He used you, and he called you only when he wanted to.\u201d<\/p>\n Yes that is true, but that doesn\u2019t mean you didn\u2019t love him. That doesn\u2019t mean you won\u2019t think about a different kind of scenario, like what would have happened if things had been different. If you had had a chance to have a happy future.<\/p>\n All this pain you\u2019re feeling will go away. It\u2019s possible, and it happens every day to almost every person on this planet. But what makes it so much harder is when you pretend that everything is okay between you two.<\/p>\n You try to stay strong when he texts you to keep in touch; when he asks you if you can stay friends. You won\u2019t let him see that you\u2019re hurting and you say \u2018yes\u2019.<\/p>\n And every time you see him, your heart weeps. When you come home, you can\u2019t sleep at night because you know that the man you still love is sleeping with someone else.<\/b><\/p>\n Being hurt and trying to get over him is something you have to go through, and it\u2019s okay. But what is not okay is trying to keep it together and allowing him to stay in your life.<\/p>\n What is so wrong is hiding your own feeling, so he won\u2019t suspect that something\u2019s wrong.<\/b><\/p>\n He\u2019ll even ask you what\u2019s up. He\u2019ll notice that you\u2019re distancing yourself, and he\u2019ll reach out to you.<\/p>\n Isto \u00e9 ainda pior. <\/b><\/p>\n O que \u00e9 suposto dizer?<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n \u201cYou\u2019ve destroyed me, you\u2019ve hurt me so bad and I never want to see you again.\u201d Are you supposed to say that and expect him to understand it?<\/p>\n You see, in his eyes, he is not the one to blame. He never made anything official. He never saw you complain about the relationship you had. Moreover, you were even enabling him by pretending that everything was okay. As he behaved worse, you behaved better\u2014only to keep him and try to save the two of you.<\/p>\n Queria dar-vos um futuro que todos invejassem. <\/span><\/i><\/p>\n So don\u2019t be bothered by the thought that you\u2019re crying in vain. Cry as much as you need to. No pain can be labeled or needs to be justified.<\/p>\n If your heart aches, let it. If your soul hurts, let it. Let all those feelings out, and don\u2019t explain yourself to anyone.<\/p>\n Take time to heal and when you do, make sure you never feel like this again. Make sure to never let yourself fall apart and hit rock bottom. You didn\u2019t deserve that. You deserved so much better.<\/p>\n Heartbreak hurts. Even if it wasn\u2019t that serious, you were in love with him. If he didn\u2019t feel the same about you, it doesn’t change anything. You loved him, and it broke you. He was stringing you along, avoiding defining the two of you, avoiding admitting whether he loves you or not. 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