{"id":2555,"date":"2020-10-14T13:15:06","date_gmt":"2020-10-14T13:15:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/herway.net\/?p=2555"},"modified":"2021-08-11T11:18:37","modified_gmt":"2021-08-11T11:18:37","slug":"amar-alguem-toxico-e-como","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amar-alguem-toxico-e-como\/","title":{"rendered":"Esta \u00e9 a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de amar algu\u00e9m que \u00e9 t\u00f3xico"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Se alguma vez amou uma pessoa t\u00f3xica, sabe a montanha russa de emo\u00e7\u00f5es que isso representa.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s magical. It\u2019s demented. It\u2019s exhausting. It\u2019s twisted. It\u2019s bittersweet. One second you\u2019re up, the next one you\u2019re down. Your day depends on that person.<\/p>\n<p>Na verdade, todo o seu ser depende dessa pessoa. A sua sa\u00fade e a sua psique tamb\u00e9m.<\/p>\n<p>Perguntamo-nos como \u00e9 poss\u00edvel amar tanto algu\u00e9m?<\/p>\n<p>There are some moments of clear thinking, and in those moments you know you shouldn\u2019t be there.<\/p>\n<p>You shouldn\u2019t be in his insecure arms\u2014arms that are your sanctuary as well as your hell at the same time.<\/p>\n<p>Abra\u00e7aste este tipo de amor obscuro. Alimentaste-o. H\u00e1 apenas um vislumbre de esperan\u00e7a que chega at\u00e9 n\u00f3s e se afasta como um amigo sombrio. Dormes e respiras com ele.<\/p>\n<p>N\u00e3o h\u00e1 l\u00f3gica. Num momento, estamos fortemente convencidos de que as coisas v\u00e3o finalmente melhorar e, no momento seguinte, sabemos que estamos condenados.<\/p>\n<p>Come\u00e7as a questionar a tua sanidade mental. Por um momento, sente-se aben\u00e7oado, mas depois sente-se amaldi\u00e7oado.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-117663\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-over-phone-being-upset.jpg\" alt=\"mulher a falar ao telefone e a ficar perturbada\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-over-phone-being-upset.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-over-phone-being-upset-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-over-phone-being-upset-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-over-phone-being-upset-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-over-phone-being-upset-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-over-phone-being-upset-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-over-phone-being-upset-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-talking-over-phone-being-upset-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>D\u00e1 por si a pensar <em>desta vez as coisas v\u00e3o ser diferentes<\/em>, even though you know they won\u2019t?<\/p>\n<p>When you love someone toxic, it feels like an addiction. You know you\u2019ve become a junkie.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t run away from that notion which hurts you in your chest.<\/p>\n<p>You reach a point where you don\u2019t care what will happen next, you just need to be next to that person.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ver tamb\u00e9m:<\/strong>&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/relationship\/4-razoes-pelas-quais-as-mulheres-mantem-maus-relacionamentos\/\">4 raz\u00f5es pelas quais as mulheres permanecem em m\u00e1s rela\u00e7\u00f5es<\/a><\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t help it even though you hate yourself because you feel like you can\u2019t live without this person.<\/p>\n<p>Inventa cen\u00e1rios na sua cabe\u00e7a todas as noites. Imagina-se a acabar com tudo de uma vez por todas.<\/p>\n<p>But then, all of that fades away once you\u2019re near him. Your determination and courage disappear. Do you even recognize yourself anymore?<\/p>\n<p>Does it seem to you that when things are good, they\u2019re <em>muito bom<\/em>? And when it\u2019s bad, it\u2019s actually <em>o pior<\/em>?<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-117664\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-outdoors-leaning-on-the-car.jpg\" alt=\"mulher de p\u00e9, ao ar livre, apoiada no carro\" width=\"1600\" height=\"1068\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-outdoors-leaning-on-the-car.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-outdoors-leaning-on-the-car-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-outdoors-leaning-on-the-car-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-outdoors-leaning-on-the-car-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-outdoors-leaning-on-the-car-1536x1025.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-outdoors-leaning-on-the-car-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-outdoors-leaning-on-the-car-720x481.jpg 720w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/woman-standing-outdoors-leaning-on-the-car-1280x854.jpg 1280w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1600px) 100vw, 1600px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s tense. I know you feel drained because I feel drained, too. <a href=\"https:\/\/thoughtcatalog.com\/rose-goodman\/2017\/03\/love-shouldnt-be-so-hard\/\" rel=\"noopener\">Relationships shouldn\u2019t be this hard.<\/a><\/p>\n<p>The time will come when you will become so fed up with these feelings. You will have to go through some kind of emotional rehab, but that\u2019s okay.<\/p>\n<p>Acabar\u00e1 por compreender que precisa de ajuda. Naturalmente, sentir-se-\u00e1 intoxicado, passar\u00e1 por diferentes crises.<\/p>\n<p>No entanto, vais sobreviver. Sabes que a tua batalha est\u00e1 prestes a come\u00e7ar. Haver\u00e1 muitas baixas nesta guerra contra o amor t\u00f3xico, mas tu podes ganhar, confia em mim.<\/p>\n<p>Amar algu\u00e9m que \u00e9 t\u00f3xico pode ensinar-nos muitas li\u00e7\u00f5es. Se as aprenderes bem, ser\u00e1s mais forte do que nunca.<\/p>\n<p>You will be the best version of yourself because there won\u2019t be anyone to keep bringing you down.<\/p>\n<p>Remember, you\u2019re not weak\u2014you\u2019re human. No matter how fragile we may seem, there is so much strength in us.<\/p>\n<p>Espero que o encontres no fundo do teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o e que possas finalmente curar o teu cora\u00e7\u00e3o.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ver tamb\u00e9m:&nbsp;<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/amor\/todas-as-raparigas-ja-perderam-um-homem-toxico\/\">Para todas as raparigas que j\u00e1 se perderam por causa de um homem t\u00f3xico<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-117762\" src=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/This-is-How-Loving-Someone-Who-is-Toxic-Feels-Like-pinterest.jpg\" alt=\"Esta \u00e9 a sensa\u00e7\u00e3o de amar algu\u00e9m que \u00e9 t\u00f3xico\" width=\"1000\" height=\"1500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/This-is-How-Loving-Someone-Who-is-Toxic-Feels-Like-pinterest.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/This-is-How-Loving-Someone-Who-is-Toxic-Feels-Like-pinterest-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/This-is-How-Loving-Someone-Who-is-Toxic-Feels-Like-pinterest-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/This-is-How-Loving-Someone-Who-is-Toxic-Feels-Like-pinterest-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/10\/This-is-How-Loving-Someone-Who-is-Toxic-Feels-Like-pinterest-150x225.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you have ever loved a toxic person, you would know what a crazy rollercoaster of emotions that is. It\u2019s magical. It\u2019s demented. It\u2019s exhausting. It\u2019s twisted. It\u2019s bittersweet. One second you\u2019re up, the next one you\u2019re down. Your day depends on that person. Actually, your whole being depends on that person. Your health and&#8230;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":20,"featured_media":117662,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_kad_blocks_custom_css":"","_kad_blocks_head_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_body_custom_js":"","_kad_blocks_footer_custom_js":"","_kadence_starter_templates_imported_post":false,"_kad_post_transparent":"","_kad_post_title":"","_kad_post_layout":"","_kad_post_sidebar_id":"","_kad_post_content_style":"","_kad_post_vertical_padding":"","_kad_post_feature":"","_kad_post_feature_position":"","_kad_post_header":false,"_kad_post_footer":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[29625],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2555","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-toxic-relationship"],"taxonomy_info":{"category":[{"value":29625,"label":"toxic relationship"}]},"featured_image_src_large":["https:\/\/herway.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/This-is-How-Loving-Someone-Who-is-Toxic-Feels-Like-1024x684.jpg",1024,684,true],"author_info":{"display_name":"Christine Keller","author_link":"https:\/\/herway.net\/pt\/author\/christine\/"},"comment_info":0,"category_info":[{"term_id":29625,"name":"toxic relationship","slug":"toxic-relationship","term_group":0,"term_taxonomy_id":29625,"taxonomy":"category","description":"Are you in a toxic relationship without even knowing it? 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